I have been happily married for 14/yrs. For the past 5-6/yrs I have had fantasies of wanting to watch my wife have sex with another man. I pretty confident that I would never let this happen, but the thought overwehlms me at times. The thought of watching her have sex with another man turns me on, the thought of her having sex with another man when I'm not around or not knowing would kill me. Does anyone else have these same thoughts? What is my issue??
Fri, 05/28/2010 - 01:29
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Fantasy watching wife with another man
It is interesting that baring cultural differences, people are pretty much the same--and this includes having the same desires, and, thoughts. So, do other people have the same thoughts you do, most likely.
Why not get a video camera and record one or more of your love making sessions? Do this as if recording a play; what I mean by this is for you to act the part of the other man. Seems like you can have your cake and eat it too if you catch my drift.
I have also been married for 15 years. My wife just told me about a special love making session with a previous boyfriend. I was totally at a comfort level and got excited by the story. I was a little amazed about my outcome.
I have about 4 years of marriage. I can understand this fantasy, but I have a feeling it should stay just being a fantasy.
This is a very common fantasy and for some couples - a reality. An MFM threesome and Lifestyle/swinging are just two examples. You two should discuss what you find apealling about this idea and where you two want to go with it.