Okay so my fantasy has been for my girlfriend to perform oral to the point of finishing, and then swallowing...but now when I think about it, or if I see things such as finishing in a girls mouth (in porn) It makes me sick...almost to the point of gaggin...
Ever happen to anyone before?
Guess it's just a case of "in your mind it seems cool...but when you see it in RL it's not quite as hawt!" lol
Just come up w/ a new fantasy :)
The porn shots show gobs and gobs and the girls drool it and generally make a mess. In reality, we do not do that. Porn fluicks and shots misrepresent sex to a very great degree and then people ask questions because what they see in porn is what they expect in real life.
Talk to your g/f about it and maybe you will experience what really happens.
Well thats the thing...I dont want it anymore...like I used to think it would be hot to cum in a girls mouth and have her swallow but it makes me sick now....IDK just really strange to me...
Then avoid her doing oral sex on you. There are other men who do not want blowjobs. Not many, certainly, but they exist. There are many women who do not or do not really want a penis in the mouth.
Stop watching pornography, Ducy. Pornography is fake.
Men shoot 10 cc.s - that's all. It isn't a big deal to swallow; Atkins approved protein that it is. Some days, he's saltier than others, of course. But if he's been hydrating as he should, then there's nasty about it. Some men are quite yummy! I usually pin them down, playfully, onto the bed, growl at them, and tell them to 'give it up like a man'! They usually don't argue or put up much of a fight.
Bet you never saw that in a pornographic film.
I could forgo fighting for once...
could be some deep down homophobic thought that is making you feel like this.
just a thought that came to my mind . no offense intended
Hmmmmmmmmm. Somehow, Thresher, I thought you might 'comply'.
There is something about experiencing a woman's completely unbridled passion that makes a man very compliant and cooperative.
I have this 'thing' about pouncing upon men with sexual intent...call it a 'weakness'.
Seriously, Ducy, yes it does happen that fantasies are lost. They are also regained so relax and go with your mood as it is, hun. No worries.
Fantasies are like renting movies. You try them for awhile, then you return and try something new. Just hope your video store has a good stock....;)
[quote=Ducy;207252]Okay so my fantasy has been for my girlfriend to perform oral to the point of finishing, and then swallowing...but now when I think about it, or if I see things such as finishing in a girls mouth (in porn) It makes me sick...almost to the point of gaggin...
Ever happen to anyone before?[/quote]Fantasy's come and go with the wind. What might do it one day, will be something different the next or in years [or with a different partner]. "Cum shots" in porn look pretty gross to me; however, in real life with a real partner it's more of a natural action. I think it's the point it's a stranger v. the person I am with. Definitely not a turn off in real life.
Years ago, liked the older porn. on occasion but noticed the newer stuff is nothing...I'd watch it with someone on occasion but it's no longer a really big turn on...rather have the real thing.
Then you get fantasies which stay a whole life time which you may never act upon since they are so out there...others are fleeting with the day.