god, how this peeved me. i was over my bf's house today. we had sex, and then he fingered me because i don't orgasm from sex. while he was doing this to me, we were spooning on the floor watching a movie. so he was doing his thing and then all of a sudden...his hand stopped moving. i'm just thinking to myself "you've gotta be kidding me." so i shook him awake immediately and gave him a dirty look and he's just like "sorry baby." so he continued fingering me. and then...he fell asleep again like two minutes later. so i removed myself from his arms and sat indian-styled in front of the television. when he woke up he just kept saying sorry but that it was also an honest mistake and he only got three hours of sleep blah blah blah.
right. i understand he's tired, but can he maybe execute SOME self-control? there were quite a few times during the school year where i barely slept throughout the week, but i not ONCE fell asleep when i was with him. and then he was like "not to be a dick but i think i'm a good bf and you always get so pissed off at me and you only focus on the bad things." now granted, this is fairly true. we did discuss this about three weeks ago and since then there was no fighting up until today. BUT COME NOW. no girl in their right mind wouldn't get angry over this, am i correct? so where does he get off telling me that i get pissed off over everything?
ugh .well, i don't know if i posted this in the right forum, but whatever. has anyone else experienced something similar?
I know this would be frustrating but I wouldn't be getting too mad at him, I mean I get tired after sex when Ive had a GOOD nights sleep and so does my boy so if he was running on 3 hours, I can't say i really blame him, and you have to give him points for trying, clearly he was tired if he fell asleep once but when you woke him up he continued to try until he fell asleep again, if you want him to stay awake like everyone else has said get your first, and hey you may enjoy sex more if you've already cum before hand
There's absolutely no need to get mad at him for falling asleep esecially if he's running on 3 hours of sleep. I mean at least he's trying. There are a lot of guys that will just get theirs and then they're through with you. There was one time when my boyfriend was really really tired and he was fingering me and he fell asleep and he actually kept going. The only way I knew he was asleep is because he was snoring. I woke him up to tell him what happened and we both laughed about it and then he said he was sorry and tried again. This time he fell asleep but I decided to just let him sleep but my moaning ended up waking him up. lol
I think most have had this happen and while you are upset and hurt by this he isn't to blame. I agree since it has also happened to me that it is really frustrating.
Be easy on him. But make it clear to him that if he can't be into the moment, then it's not fair to start something he can't finish. And like others have said make sure he gets you off first and then he can get off and go to sleep. I am sure he didn't mean it and he tried. He was trying to be good to you.
I find that right after I have an orgasim, I feel either out of breath or tired. when my fiance cums, he'll stop and pull out for a couple secconds, and then continue for another five minutes becaues he claims it feels amazing, but right after he'll fall asleep on me, and I'll just go to sleep as well cause I'll be sleepy too. :P but like the other guys said, its natural.
Similar stuff happens to me all the time. I can stay awake when i finger her and stuff like that cuass i enjoy giving my girlfriend an orgasim. But afterwards i like to rub her back, stomach, legs, or fondle her breats. And i fall asleep all the time on her and she justs shakes me awake. Even at 1 in the morning after a full day and then having sex im extremly tired, i still feel extremly bad. But she keeps reasuring me thats its ok, other then drinking redbulls or rockstar drinks right after sex i don't see how any one could stay awake. I don't know how she does it.
What i have heard is thats some men just get extremly tired after they orgasim it might be a hormonal thing or just how us men work. The way i see it you have 2 options either keep waking him up or put a blanket over him kiss him on the forehead and go watch tv till you'r tired to.
Ahahahaha, well it works both ways
, guess guys fall asleep after sex, but then girls can fall asleep when a guy wants pleasure so 
to each their own.
But yea, let him work you 1st. Seems to work well for my girl, I do her then she does me. Although due to some issues with myself I think she tends to not finish.
Yeah, It's happened to me too. And it can really piss you off.
Demonbuttercup and littlefury are right. Get yours first, then have sex. cuz it is always nice after you orgasm to cuddle and fall asleep.
And why can't you orgasm from sex? Have you tried. If you primarily cum from clitoral stimulation, try doing that while you're having sex. Maybe you could cum together and the problem would be solved!!
You know your hand can get tired doing that too, so I can understand to a certain extend. Maybe you should buy a toy.
Just make sure that he pleasures you frist, like demonbuttercup said. There are some guys that just can't help it. LIke mine passes out like a rock, and there is nothing he can really about it, he tried but he can't stay awake, unless it's a middle of the afternoon. I would be peeved too the first time it happens, but then you gotta realize that sometimes there are things you just can't help, so you gotta work around them.
Yea I would have been peeved too. Of course there is that whole stereotype that guys fall asleep after sex.
Next time, make sure he pleasures you first...that way when you guys are done he can do whatever.