Ok, dunno if there is a topic about this already, so i go for it.
What you all think about fake boobs? (i know its not the right term, just the 1 i came up with) Do they turn u on? Would u prefer ur wife to have small boobs and real then fake and bigger? Wut u women prefer? Ur own size or a bit bigger would be better? Would u have implants?
Personally i would never allow my gf or wife(especially) to have them, i would leave her, it just doesnt seem right to me.
2nd question, i see a lot of women getting implants and all, so why they always saying to men size does not matter.. its how u use it...?
Im just curious and without wanting to offend any1.
fake boobs look good under shirts, but when the clothes come off, boy do they scream fake. i'm a 36DD naturally, so i have always considered a reduction, but there's just something nice about knowing that what you have is what you earned... i guess the sum total of that is "hot on other girls, just not for me."
[QUOTE=Quote (babalaza @ Dec. 06 2005,23:47)][QUOTE=Quote (nikkijz @ Dec. 06 2005,23:39)]...its their body and they can do what they want...[/QUOTE]
i was expecting replies like this.
Its just the way some people think and i think its not fair especially in a couple relationship.[/QUOTE]
Interesting observation... and one that I'm inclined to say is important.
The "it's her body and she can do what she wants" has long been an argument in the abortion issue and, unfortunately, it's become accepted as a fundamental truth. I mention that as background - not to start an abortion debate.
The point is that part of the couple relationship should be deciding somethings together. One of the decisions is how much decision-making to share!
For some couples a high level of independence works. ("You decide what you want to do, I'll decide what I want to do.") But that doesn't negate the fact that the decision does affect the partner. Other couples will choose to make most decisions together.
What's sorta interesting here is while objecting to the "its their body and they can do what they want" as unfair... you original said you "wouldn't allow" your gf/wife to do it.
That's not fair either.
Even when you're married, you don't get to make other people's decisions.
To the original question - if it was a question - I think it's a complicated decision with physical, economic, emotional factors for everyone involved. As such it needs careful consideration by all involved and affected.
I know a girl that didnt get implants to impress the guys, but to boost her self-esteem. Depending on the situation there could be a lot of reasons that girls get implants, they don't always lead back to guys. I personally dont find anything wrong with it, its their body and they can do what they want.
[QUOTE=Quote (nikkijz @ Dec. 06 2005,23:39)]...its their body and they can do what they want...[/QUOTE]
i was expecting replies like this.
Its just the way some people think and i think its not fair especially in a couple relationship.