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Fairly new to sex. Having problems lately

Ok so i'm nineteen and me and my girlfriend were virgins and we first had sex in october. Since then it's been been pretty normal. Like at first i didn't last long and i was starting to get better and just normal stuff like that. We don't have sex too often. (Like once or twice a week) mainly because we both keep it a secret from our parents. Well about 3 weeks ago she told me that having sex was too stressful for her because we always use a condom but she can't get on birth control because she's afraid her parents will find out. So i told her that we don't have to have sex as much because i love her and care about her. So for the past 3 weeks i was watching alot of porn and masturbating 2-3 times a day.
Well she got horny again and wanted to have sex so we did and it was really bad. Like we had it twice in 2 days and were gonna have it again but i couldn't get it up. Anyways today i decided that i was gonna try again and really try to make her feel good. I got on top of her in the front seat of my car and started goin at it. I felt like i had to cum so i slowed down then sped back up after a while. I ended up lasting like an hour and a half and i gave her her first orgasm. Well at least she said i did and from the way she was acting i sure felt like i did.
but i couldn't cum! after a while i figured she was done so i started trying to cum. but i just couldn't... what's wrong with me?

> what's wrong with me?

The possible answer is two-fold: first, you could have been experiencing "Performance Anxiety" from the worrying; second, when a guy tends to exted the act too long then the nervous system just becomes worn out for the time being.

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