I have never given any woman a facial. I don't see the purpose. I don't think it makes women look "hot" Maybe I just don't get the new popular culture. If you don't like it, don't let your bf do it to you. I sense that you seem a bit irritated with it.

Doesn't do anything for me to shoot cum on her face. I would much prefer she take it in her mouth like you said. I sometime will come on her chest, stomach, or vulva when we do a little something different, but we both enjoy that when it happens. I'm older than what it sounds like you are and the boys.

I dont like cumming on their face, but I like cumming in their mouth for a couple reasons. I have a little thing for cum play, i like snowballing and stuff and would eat my own cum if i didnt change my mind just as i orgasm lol. So seeing a girl "crave" for my cum really turns me on because she likes it as much as me type ting. But for cumming on a girls face, blah!

1. Men see facials a lot in porn so we eventually become programmed to be turned on by them.

2. Facials are a power trip. They make the man feel powerful because facials have a degrading element to them. (Though some women like to be degraded during sex, called sluts, etc. As long as it's consensual, I guess...)

I have have been on the giving end of some facials before but now I don't like the idea because I found out how much semen stings when it gets in your eye.

It is a power thing and apparently you pick men who like to degrade you in this way. If you do not enjoy it - DO NOT DO IT!

Ok I can understand what you are saying when you mention that. Although, I still am a little iffy on it, maybe it's because i'm still young (not young in sex life just have sex with younger girls.) And if what you are saying is that girls tend to come out at a later age then maybe, but as far as i've seen in the age group i've had sex with, it's been a good ammount of their fantisies involving heavy domination by the male, IE a power play.

Or maybe it's just my sexual life that is like that and all the girls I have been with are this way; And to the response of if I ever recieved anal or a facial... I don't care, a foot is just another apendege, so what's so different from cumming on the face oppose to the chest? Same goes with which hole. At least this is my strong opinion.

I never found facials a turn on. Indeed, I do have the feeling it's a power thing for (some!) men, and I find it degrading. I fully agree with Evil.

Well considering I like to hold her afterwards or what not, I don't want her to have to go take a shower just to come back, and no a towell isn't enough for me. I would much prefer the mouth, and Evil, why do you believe everything is a power house? Not trying to disagree just confused on your beliefs. You say that we do certain things for power, yet a good ammount of the female population desire to be submissive while her man controls her, am I wrong in this? I very well could be, this is just experiences I have had, read, and heard from other female friends.

The vast majority find it easier to be submissive because that is what they were taught. There is also the fact that subs have no responsibility for what happens - so they can say "I had no choice". This way they can remain "good girls" at least in their own minds. After a certain number of years and experiences, however, women tend to get tired of playing that game and they come over to "the dark side" and begin asserting themselves.

But there's no doubt about facials, and anal sex as well, they are a power play. If futher clarification is required - think of a male receiving one.

My take on all the above is that any male getting off accertaining(sp) themselves by pulling off facials and unwanted anals is SELFFISH!! If a partner begs you to pull off some sex act is one thing, to do it by being "manly" is stupid IMO...:)

EEK is right. Certain elements of sex are a power issue, and if not done carefully they are very unpleasant. I also believe that some things just should not be done in certain relationships (I would never have anal sex with my wife unless she asked me for it and gave a very good reason as to why). Your boyfriend might like the power trip, or he might just be doing it because of the influence of porn (and don't get me started on that issue).

Whatever you do, don't do anything that you don't want to do. Sex is not supposed to be degrading.

B/c a face has eyes and a mouth lol
and I don't want it in either place.

Also, I sometimes see it as like, one of the biggest disgraces you can do to a person is to spit in their face.
And well technically "something" is spitting on the girls faces LOL.

I see what you're saying, but still don't agree. Maybe if a guy did it without asking if a girl clearly stated or implied she didn't want it on her face, I could agree with that, but I wouldn't consider that a power thing, I would consider that an *******.

Yeah it's different if a guy does it when she says not to.
And it's cool if the girl has no prob w/ it.. some love it!
But I guess it's why do girls have this opinion of it to begin w/?!?
and to me, I feel it's degrading... that's why I have never let anyone do it to me.
And partly yes b/c I have seen the way it's portrayed in porn..etc.

Right, and I can understand that just fine. I was merely a little offended that EEK said that was a power pleasure thing, as has she said about anal, and in no way do I consider it this.

So in what you are saying, if you find it degrading and someone does it, this would be an action of an *******, correct? If someone came up and spit in your face, you would consider this trying to have power over you? Just curious if i'm understanding what you are saying.

It's all censored out... what are you saying? LOL
If someone spit in my face... or came in my face or did anal (no warning or after clearly stating I didn't like it) I would feel like they didn't care about how I felt... that I was just trash to them... not equal to them. That they felt they were better than me...and could treat me how ever they felt.

Saying the arse hole word, heh sorry.

And ok, but isn't what you are saying being insensitive to one another? At least where I grew up, if someone were to do something degrading to me, and SAYING it was a power thing, I would come around and show them my side, rather it be verbal, or physical, and in turn isn't that a power issue? I'm not saying you're going to do this, i'm saying that it can go both ways by your understanding. This is why I don't consider it a power issue, merely disrespectful.

and don't worry EEK, i'm not singling you out for why I am offended. I just despire stereo types, grew up on them against me all the time, and I find them insulting.

Oh lol
I guess it doesn't always have to be looked at as a power thing... but if someone disrespects you or degrades you...then don't they have some sort of power over you? b/c you are allowing them to do it? I don't know?!?
What were we talking about? LOL

I guess also, if the girl doesn't want to do it... but then the guy is like come on baby.... you'll like it...and she gives in to it... then he's "won". I know that's a bad way of looking at it... but you get the idea :)

Plus, maybe it's like something to do w/ dogs and how they piss on things to mark their territory?!?
Guys mark their territory by cumming on it. Which that I don't mind.. just not in the face lol. You can mark my boobs but not my face :p

Dang, it would be sooo much easier if you guys didn't "shoot" something out.. then we wouldn't have these debates about cum in the face/vagina/spit/swallow LOL

Plus, if your girl is cool w/ it... then that's fine... but did you ever say WHY YOU like to do it to her??
Why you think it's hott? Maybe I missed it lol

hahaha interesting debate...

And like I said I see what you are saying, and yes they would have some kind of power over you IF you allowed it. If you stand up for yourself I don't see how that would be one.

I get this yes, but that would be the fault of the woman, and please don't go on saying (not you demon just anyone) that females cannot protect themselves or are too afraid to. My girlfriend is half my size, and I am a boxer with a 65-3 life record, and I do exactly what she says, because she's scary lol... So all i'm saying is, that is the fault of the woman if she doesn't want to stand up for theirself.

And umm, lol only way I am ever going to mark my territory is if some guy comes up to my girl, I may squash him to show him that is MY girl.

And lol if we didn't shoot how would we have kids? There is no way in hell i'm having a needle stuck into my balls to get out my semen to be put into the female.

Nah lol, I never said anything like that. I don't personally do it because I respect her and will shoot wherever she pleases, rather it be on a towell, her mouth, or her body.

Yeah and umm, finding it hot? Nah the idea of some nasty sticky stuff dripping down my girls face does not appeal to me. :-P

Hmm maybe if you blew out air or dust... like pollen LOL
Or what you shot out tasted like candy! :)

haha... Well I have to say, females juices don't exactly taste like chicken.

LOL
I got it, it should be like silly string :D

agreed, we shouldn't have any bodily fluids lol

hahahahha I love it!

[QUOTE=Yariome;186374]haha... Well I have to say, females juices don't exactly taste like chicken.[/QUOTE]

You are right...they are some sort of nectar from the heavens!!...I can't get enough of that taste!!...

Umm, well then you are one lucky man. My current girl has some pretty good juices, but she is a strong variety eater. So it just depends...

Yegods man - the hallmark of power is being able to demand submission to acts you do not want to submit to. Just because they haven't pushed your face into the mud and urinated on your back, doesn't mean they aren't seeking power over you. They are just being more subtle.

If the receiver has asked for a facial, fine; but if not, and the lady who posted this topic is not into it, then it is a power play simply because her partners are demanding it, pushing for it, or expecting it.

and Sweety: she's not "your girl"; you're "her boy". *EG* Got it?

(stay on topic, please! LOL)

lol I got it... But no I still don't agree, I can slightly agree, but still am very strong on the point of; It's no more the fault of the reciever than the giver, and are you saying that you if a person strives for something they want, very resilient despite the other's desires, that is power? Because this can be played into many scenarios that relate and I just don't agree that it is in the slightest a power play. And more so, a "man" thing as someone said don't feel like reading through this to read.

In no way is it a man thing, it's an aggressive thing, rather it be male or female, the male usually just does this more.

[QUOTE=moose_hd;185348]1. Men see facials a lot in porn so we eventually become programmed to be turned on by them.

2. Facials are a power trip. They make the man feel powerful because facials have a degrading element to them. (Though some women like to be degraded during sex, called sluts, etc. As long as it's consensual, I guess...)

I have have been on the giving end of some facials before but now I don't like the idea because I found out how much semen stings when it gets in your eye.[/QUOTE]

thats about what I would say its stupid and degrading hardly a respectful thing to do let alone let a bunch of his mates do it to you who the hell does he think he is

[QUOTE=Yariome;186369]

And lol if we didn't shoot how would we have kids? There is no way in hell i'm having a needle stuck into my balls to get out my semen to be put into the female.[/QUOTE]

someone evidently messed up in explaining the facts of life to you (see I've been saying all along american sex ed should be banned) because to have kids you shoot it in her vagina thats where it belongs not all over her face

Oh yeah? So let's go promoting teenagers to shoot it in a girl's vaginal, when they are getting younger and younger in when they are having sex. Yes, let's promote teen pregnancy! Freaken genious.

I don't think I need to say more.

[QUOTE=Newtolove;186581]see I've been saying all along american sex ed should be banned[/QUOTE]

American sex ed practically IS banned which is what the problem is. it does not need to be banned, it needs to be allowed to improve.

actually Yariome you are the one that talked about having kids and are bringing up a totally different issue to excuse your need to degrade women, what a man if we want it all precise as you PRETEND your supposed to shoot into a condom thats on your stupid dick when it enters her vagina I told you someone messed up explaing the facts of life to you they forgot to mention condoms so you put it on her face to not get her pregnant ? hm

eminatic: that was actually sarcasm on my part but it seems that in america the only thing left for sex education is nasty porn between the lacking of it in schools and obvious lack of proper upbringing not to mention any names...

lol dude you need to re-read some of what i've said, I wear a condom every time.

I said I bust inside of her sometimes, I never said I released it inside of her, and that's only when I can't feel like I can move in time or she is on top. And I degrade women? Show me this, because all I ever do is make sure my woman is pleasured and satisfied physically and mentally.

And about the kid thing, I think you need to read everything about it.. Lil ms(mrs) demon said guys just shouldn't shoot at all we were kidding around. I am in NO way ready for kids, ok I take that back, i'm ready mentally and mature enough, and love kids, but I don't want to have kids until I am finacially stable. So the idea of shooting inside of a woman like you said is the "right" way to go, does not appeal to me. I don't have sex to have kids, I am having sex to feel close to my girl and for physical pleasure.

And I never once supported shooting in the face, as I stated I could much care less where it goes as long as it isn't loose swimming inside of her vagina. I merely stated I do not agree that it is a power issue, that it was more of a delight of whoever the giver is. This can be used AS a power issue in one way, but in this same way could be said about anything that has to do with anything. I am my girl's bitch and proudly say so, does that mean she runs thing because she wants the power? Or something like that started watching TV and lost my train of thought lol but you get the idea.

You're a brilliant man, assuming stuff and all.

[QUOTE=Yariome;186587]Oh yeah? So let's go promoting teenagers to shoot it in a girl's vaginal, when they are getting younger and younger in when they are having sex. Yes, let's promote teen pregnancy! Freaken genious.

I don't think I need to say more.[/QUOTE]

just reread what you said ! you accused me of promoting teem pregnancy, ok so you bang away and then pull out and shoot all over her face hm so you can't be using a condom and thats no guarantee to protect from pregnancy because precum and leaks will cause pregnancy as well as the all out cumming in her ok so now your gonna say you actually have time to pull out take the condom off then then hose it all over her face ? get realistic and stop trying to put others to shame because of you own shame

Dude for the last time lol, I WEAR A ****ING CONDOM. I have NEVER shot anything on her face on purpose. We have only had sex THREE times without a condom and I came on her body. Now, i'll show you one thing..

>>>>"someone evidently messed up in explaining the facts of life to you (see I've been saying all along american sex ed should be banned) because to have kids you shoot it in her vagina thats where it belongs not all over her face" <<<<< Now what's in parantheses? You said, AMERICAN SEX ED SHOULD BE BANNED, use your head I was saying that was a VERY stupid comment that you made. Sex ed is all that keeps teens from having sex, or at least gets the smart enough to protect themself. I lost my virginity at 13, and my friend at 11, neither of us used a condom because I had NO idea what they were until I got a little older. We both lost ours INTENTIONALLY, not by any force. Kids are having sex younger and younger, so why the HELL NOT have sex ed?

Man I think you are the smartest guy I have ever met!

Nah, i'm just going to walk away from this man, you are making yourself look stupid by implying stuff that you don't have the common sense to find the truth of. So i'm done with this.

And to end this topic, facials are gross! I would never swallow my own semen so there is no way I am willing to do something like that to her, that close to her mouth, espcially since she doesn't like swallowing either.

Yariome and Newtolove ... please cool it; your arguments have been repeatedly stated and are now insulting, counter-productive and taking over the Thread.

Thanks,
the moderator