So the guy I'm with right now is the only guy I've ever slept with, and I'm pretty inexperienced. I like sex a lot, but it seems like after we've been carrying on for a while, I get stretched out and I'm not enjoying it as much.
From the media I've gotten the understanding that flexible girls can do some things that make sex pretty tight.
I am extremely flexible, but have no idea what these things might be. So if any other flexible girls could clue me in on how I can take advantage of my flexiblity, that would be great.
Any athletic and in-shape woman is capable of positions that others are not. I assume you are referring to this type of flexibility. I do not understand how this relates to getting "stretching out." There is also the dimension that enough is enough and we enjoy it less.
Get the Joy os Sex or other appropriate manual and look over the positions.
[QUOTE=Brandye;173317]Any athletic and in-shape woman is capable of positions that others are not. I assume you are referring to this type of flexibility. I do not understand how this relates to getting "stretching out." There is also the dimension that enough is enough and we enjoy it less.
Get the Joy os Sex or other appropriate manual and look over the positions.[/QUOTE]
what i meant by getting stretched out is after we've beeen having sex for a while my vagina isnt as tight as it was and so i'm not getting any pleasure out of sex.
Hmm... My girlfriend is very flexible as well... but we havent tried any new positions... I just like to watch her show off her flexibility....
but if anyone finds any new positions or anything, Id like to know as well
Try Kegel exercises. You are referring to being loose, not flexible. I envisioned acrobatic stuff.
thats what I meant. What I meant was, being flexible of the body, are there any positions that would make me tighter when I get loose after having sex for a while.
Do the Kegel's. Those strengthen and give you greater control of the muscles on the pelvic floor. Then, it does not make any difference what position the rest of your body may be in. You will still have control over the muscles that do the important gripping.
I've noticed that if I abstain from sex for a while..the next time I have it.. it feels a lot tighter.
Like when I go home for Christmas for 2 wks and get home...that first time my b/f and I do it, I can feel the difference.
So maybe try Brandye's suggestion of the Kegels...and don't do it like 3 times a day and see if that helps.
I have dated (and remain close) with this girl who is very flexible. Yes, Kegals tighten the muscles inside but position-wise during sex, certain positions can make a girl feel tighter to a guy as it squeezes or grasps our penis inside. One interesting position is the legs behind the head position which a lot of girls who are/were gymnasts can do. It makes the angle for the guy a little different but it does feel very tight. One easier one, is him ontop and just taking one of your legs and placing it ontop on his shoulder...that one works well as he can get deep inside as well.
Some women prefer the closed legs technique.. whether that be over shoulders or simply a slow rub..
ie; woman on top of man.. rodeo.. close legs.. more or less knee to knee.. a great way (or inverted) to try a few things.
Id suggest the 'break the bamboo' position as I once heard it (as said above; one leg on shoulder).
Some prefer knee to chest as others prefer the splits. (misson pos)
Invert the situation. Get your legs closed and his legs spread. Do this after he's inside you. Try every single position you normally would use, but close the legs afterwards. :) it works
Along with the Kegel's, try weighted balls. Found in most sex stores. Just insert into your vagina and prevent them from falling out.