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			<title>embarresed</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:25:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>hi i have this problem of me going red in the face as if i become embarresed i dont know what it is when i start a convo with a girl i go red in the...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>hi i have this problem of me going red in the face as if i become embarresed i dont know what it is when i start a convo with a girl i go red in the face or even over the daft things. I dont know why and its annoying is there any way i can calm myself or and tips please</div>

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			<title>self confidence</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 23:02:43 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>hi im 16 and im really struggling for self confidence i have had a good night at a party tonight and there was this girl very nice and she liked me...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>hi im 16 and im really struggling for self confidence i have had a good night at a party tonight and there was this girl very nice and she liked me then all of a sudden my mate jumped in with confidence im annoyed because i sruggle to discuss. and find confidence is there any help please</div>

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			<title>It is big enough?</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:32:14 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I am curious what women think about my dick. My dick is 7 inches long and 5 inches in girth. I am circumsized and cleanly shaved. Would any women...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I am curious what women think about my dick. My dick is 7 inches long and 5 inches in girth. I am circumsized and cleanly shaved. Would any women like that size?</div>

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			<title><![CDATA[Fucking a girl while she's sleeping]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 08:12:35 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I have the greatest urge to fuck my girl while she's sleeping,catch her while she's sleeping on her stomach and just fuck her from the back....has...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I have the greatest urge to fuck my girl while she's sleeping,catch her while she's sleeping on her stomach and just fuck her from the back....has anyone ever tried fucking a girl while shes sleep?if so how was it?did she wake up moaning or anything?</div>

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			<title>how to make her want me</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 04:06:21 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Ive started going out with this girl that I went out with a few times earlier this year and I like her alot im 22 shes 21 and a few months ago we...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Ive started going out with this girl that I went out with a few times earlier this year and I like her alot im 22 shes 21 and a few months ago we were making out and I tried to put my hand in her pants and she stopped me and I was fine with that.  I dont always want to be the one making the advance I would like it to be her when she is ready.  So what should I do?  Should I just tell her that She is going to have to be the one to let me know when shes ready or should I do the implied consent thing and try it again next time to see if she stops me?</div>

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			<title>Penis Size question</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:01:38 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Okay, some my penis is about 5.5 inches long and about 5 inches in circumference, is this good size for a 14 year old? I started puberty when I was...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Okay, some my penis is about 5.5 inches long and about 5 inches in circumference, is this good size for a 14 year old? I started puberty when I was 11, and I've already gone through the largest part of it, I've got a mustache, beard, full pubes, ass hair, everywhere except on the back and underarms. I'm about 6' and I've got massive stretch marks. So I'm through the big part of it. But is it large enough? Is it going to get much bigger by the time I'm a full adult? By the way, I'm measuring with a ruler from the side, and putting very little pressure to make sure it touches the base of my penis. From the front (facing me), to my tip is about 5 inches, but from the side it's usually about 5.5-5.9. And I'm measuring the widest part of the head with a shoelace wrapped around it then lay it out on a ruler.</div>

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			<title>Spots under my penis</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 10:18:28 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Im 16, i have spots of the under-side my penis... they are mainly visible when my penis is erect and the skin or tight ect..  (Like a spot) Its not a...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Im 16, i have spots of the under-side my penis... they are mainly visible when my penis is erect and the skin or tight ect..  (Like a spot) Its not a STD coz im still a virgin, there are a fair few numbers of them (around 20).</div>

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			<title>Anal Sex and Lube</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:03:54 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hey guys. How are you guys doing? Well, I plan to try anal sex with my partner very soon. I do plan to use a condom because of the lube that is...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hey guys. How are you guys doing? Well, I plan to try anal sex with my partner very soon. I do plan to use a condom because of the lube that is already on the condom. However, I have entered her butt just using the lube from the condom and it wasn't very pleasant for her. I was wondering what lube alternatives(stuff around the house) could I used that also would not damage the condom. For example, I have heard oil damages the condom making it likely to rip.</div>

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			<title>need help ? ( erection )</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:01:13 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I am pretty worryed because when i dont have an erection, I can pull my forceskin right back fine with no pain. When i have an erection i can only...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I am pretty worryed because when i dont have an erection, I can pull my forceskin right back fine with no pain. When i have an erection i can only pull it back as far as the rim of my penis if i go any further then it hurts. I dont wont to go to doctors because im scared. btw im 16</div>

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			<title>erection problem</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:50:51 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>When i get an erection. My foreskin does not pull right back. Is this ie either a erection problem or just puberty. I am 15 and started puberty when...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>When i get an erection. My foreskin does not pull right back. Is this ie either a erection problem or just puberty. I am 15 and started puberty when i was 13</div>

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			<title>Cuming to quickly</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:29:44 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>when i materbate i come in like a minute. I dont do it quick or anythink but like im scared off when i have sex for my first time im going to like...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>when i materbate i come in like a minute. I dont do it quick or anythink but like im scared off when i have sex for my first time im going to like cum to quick</div>

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			<title>Little Help?</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:59:20 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years and have, obviously, had sex a few times. However, it is really hard for me to ... well...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years and have, obviously, had sex a few times. However, it is really hard for me to ... well ... finish. we have tried stimulating the ciltoris while having sex and that seems to work pretty well. But I was wondering if there is maybe another I can climax without that extra &quot;help.&quot;</div>

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			<title>Is it safe to wear 2 condoms?</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:24:39 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Is it safe to wear 2 condoms?</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Is it safe to wear 2 condoms?</div>

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			<title>Advice?</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:32:13 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Since quite recently, I have a girlfriend, who I absolutely adore, and we have gotten intimate with each other already. Last week, she fingered me -...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Since quite recently, I have a girlfriend, who I absolutely adore, and we have gotten intimate with each other already. Last week, she fingered me - not roughly, though with three fingers entering - and it hurt like hell. For several days it continued to ache, which then diminished to a slight discomfort. It bothers me that it hurts, because it isn't supposed to. I have a history of sexual abuse, and maybe this could be the cause of it. Can anyone help me? Any advice?<br />
<br />
I want to be close to her, because I trust her, and she's kind and understanding and will only go as far as I allow her to. She knows of my past and pays extra mind to how I am feeling while we play around, and mentally I am ready to allow her to finger me and such, but physically something's up.<br />
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I would greatly appreciate advice, if you have any at all to give me.<br />
<br />
Cuboid</div>

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			<title>Threesome Logistics</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:42:58 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I've been dating my gf for 3 years now and I found out she is bisexual, so, having mutual fantasies, naturally threesomes came up.  We decided to do...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I've been dating my gf for 3 years now and I found out she is bisexual, so, having mutual fantasies, naturally threesomes came up.  We decided to do it, with one of our friends this weekend.<br />
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Before anyone throws the red flags, we discussed it several times and we are comfortable with it happening, and with the third person.  We promised each other it won't change our relationship at all, and we just wanna have some fun!  We are completely serious about trying it and there is little doubt.<br />
<br />
Anyways, I'm concerned about the logistics.  My girlfriend and I have a been trying simple new sex stuff but this is definitely something neither of thought we would ever experience, so I guess I'm asking what can we do?  What positions work best?  Is it better to wing it?</div>

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			<title>Need advice on a first timer</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 08:53:46 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm exhausted, its late, but I want to get this down while its fresh in my mind. I've just had a lovely 4 hour conversation with a guy I've been...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm exhausted, its late, but I want to get this down while its fresh in my mind. I've just had a lovely 4 hour conversation with a guy I've been trying to get to know, and its brought up more questions than its answered.<br />
I'm 27, he is 24. I've had 4 partners and 1 long term relationship and misc fooling around with probably 10 more. Experienced, basically. He has had nothing. One casual girlfriend when he was in high school, but they never got very far. <br />
He doesn't seem like his self esteem or confidence is lacking, or if it is he fakes it extremely well. He is brilliant, fascinating, attractive, and I could easily fall head over hells in love with him, if he would let me. But hes very hard to read and hard to get to know. God I'm rambling. <br />
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Point of question. He is a virgin, I am not. I have NEVER been the more experienced, and I tend to be submissive and easily led and dominated in the bedroom. Obviously in this case there will need to be a role reversal for me. How do I handle this? And what are some things I can do to teach him or basically be a good first lover? (Campsite Rule) I'm not terribly patient and I'm not a good teacher in other areas of my life, and I don't want to be cruel by accident<br />
<br />
Amanda</div>

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			<title>Am I conditioned this way... Or is there something wrong?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:28:55 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm a 22 year old who just started my sex life a year and a half ago. Before that I masturbated on a regular basis for 10 years (roughly 5 or more...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm a 22 year old who just started my sex life a year and a half ago. Before that I masturbated on a regular basis for 10 years (roughly 5 or more times a week). I'm having troubles maintaining an erection throughout intercourse. I have read several of the threads on the subject, and I believe that my problem stems from my mindset. There are certain times where I become unbelievably turned on, and in those situations I can perform no problem. However, even after an hour or so of making out, fondling, etc, I rarely achieve this state. I would like to emphasis that I can get an erection as long as constant attention is being paid to &quot;little me&quot;, but once I am inside of her it seems like the sensation is not enough to keep me at attention. So I guess I'm wondering if there are any tips to address my mindset problem... I don't lack confidence, and I don't have performance anxiety, so is there help?<br />
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I think it would be relevant to explain an experiment I have recently tried to clarify my concerns. I stopped masturbating for 2 weeks, and I had no sexual contact during that time. I figured that I would be horny after the time period and that my performance would be enhanced solely by my pent up sexual needs. However, it seems like desire from deprivation wasn't enough, since the problem still persisted. Even more troubling is that during my 2 weeks of deprivation I never got an erection! I would watch stimulating videos, but I made sure not to touch myself. Did I condition myself with masturbation? And will my sex life suffer because of it? Finally, if I have conditioned myself, then is there a way to fix it? Thank you so much to anyone who has lasted this far into this topic! You have the patience of a saint! =)</div>

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			<title>Advice needed</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 03:44:44 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi, I am not exactly new to sex, but I wasn't sure where else I could post my question. Sorry if this is inapproproate! 
 
I have been sexually...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hi, I am not exactly new to sex, but I wasn't sure where else I could post my question. Sorry if this is inapproproate!<br />
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I have been sexually active for about two years now, and have had no trouble with getting aroused or any aspect of sex... until now. Lately I have been unable to get wet. I can't think for a reason for this change, I haven't had any health problems! I am 21 and not currently on birth control (and haven't been for about 8 months). I haven't lost my desire to have sex... <br />
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I'm just wondering if anyone has had similar experiences... this is very frustrating for my boyfriend too, who seems to think it is his fault. Thanks in advance!</div>

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			<title>Vcard</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:29:20 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>ok whatever if you dont have anyhing positive to say then dont reply damn</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>ok whatever if you dont have anyhing positive to say then dont reply damn</div>

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