i saw this somewhere else, so thought i'd bring it up here.
i've been with the same beautiful girl for almost 5 years now (now engaged) She's 24, redheaded, and has a great body. And though she's somewhat modest, I love to show her off.
So this past summer we were staying at a friends beach house with a few other friends, and some how past midnight we went from playing drinking games to bringing up strip poker and us and 3 other couples end up playing. Rules were worst hand lost and article of clothing, and best hand could select someone to either lose, or gain and item.
While it was one of the other guys to be the first to be bare, my fiance was the next to lose her last item. the skirt she had on. So, she sat there with her left arm over her breasts and her right hand over her crotch, and in doing so she had parted her legs slightly to be able to fully get her hand over it to cover it.
While I understand the purpose of the game is to get naked, the 'exposing' part happened after she went to take a drink, with her right hand, completely oblivious that her legs were still open and she was uncovered down there when doing so. I kept encouraging her to drink, continuing the show, And she was the only girl fully naked for awhile, which meant all eyes went to her. Everytime she was done with her gulp, she went right back to covering herself, but i couldnt help but to have fun and get her to take a drink with me every so often, continuing the show. After a few times, one of the other girls said something jokingly to her, bringing awareness to her of what i (and she) was doing.
She wasnt embarrased about being naked, but for me 'allowing her to leave it that open for people to see while she didnt know what she was doing' Regardless it was still somewhat of a thrill for me and it's not the only time i've done something like that.
Granted I'm probably a shitty person, I'm sure I'm not the only one to do such a thing, and while she is embarrassed at the time, is never truly mad at me. It definaly is a rush though.
Anyone feel similar?
This got me wondering.....
'allowing her to leave it that open for people to see while she didnt know what she was doing'
[QUOTE=speedballz;249332] Regardless it was still somewhat of a thrill for me and it's not the only time i've done something like that.
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By gawd just how far would you go to get thrills whilst she is drunk...
My opinion is... You are a creep and show no respect for the one you apparently love enough to consider marrying...
You MADE her DRUNK, you TOTAL ASSHOLE, and therefore TOOK ADVANTAGE of the young woman you SAY you love!!!
Crawl on your scummy belly to the feet of this lady and BEG for her forgiveness!
I hope she kicks you in the head but she seems a total patsy.
You are insecure, inconsiderate, juvenile, and unfit for marriage
She is careless, spineless, and unfit for marriage
I prefer the BadCat's language for this situation. Nutty is rather restrained for a Kiwi. Fun is being a gentleman.
lol Brandye I was being a good girl.... Christmas time you know
have to make up for a year of being bad so santa brings me a gift lol
*playing wedding vows over in my head* Hmmm.....love.....honor.....obey.....
You're a selfish, inconsiderate, disrespectful jackass who can't be trusted. And you apparently don't give a rat's rosy red one about the feelings of the woman you say you want to spend the rest of your life with.
She should drop kick you into next Tuesday and not so much as look in your direction ever again.
"and while she is embarrassed at the time, is never truly mad at me."
Ladies take notice! If you DON"T drop him or slam him immediately he'll think you enjoy it and will CONTINUE to do it; whatever your it might be.
>>And though she's somewhat modest, I love to show her off.
See, the problem here is, she's not YOURS to show off. You don't OWN her. She's not a new car. She's a human being who has feelings believe it or not, and deserves some common decency and respect from you. But you're treating her like a possession and using her to make people think you're all that because you've got her.
You probably think you put her on a pedestal. But there's a difference between being put on a pedestal, and being put on display. What you do, is to put her on display to massage your own ego, while not giving a damn what it could do to her. You don't consider her worthy of your respect, or worthy of being protected by you when she's vulnerable. And you don't give a damn about her feelings or her comfort level as long as you get your shits and giggles. If you gave a damn about her you'd have been the FIRST to tell her what she was doing, RIGHT AWAY, out of protective instinct. Instead you pushed her to continue doing something you know full well she'd be embarrassed and horrified by if she realized it, then you ogled her and allowed everyone else to do so too. Tell me, was there a pool of drool near you by the end of this?
And for some inexplicable reason, she still loves you and trusts you after you've treated her this way multiple times. Let's hope one or both of you comes to your senses NOW.
Now we are making progress!
How would he feel if she did this to him:
stripped him bare and then threw him out of a cab in broad daylight right in front of his workplace where eeryone knew who he was and they'd all point and laugh and forever afer think "yeah he's got a small penis but did you see his cute ass? Nice and tight I'd bet!" - and those are the men's comments!
And not do this just once - but once for every time he's done this to her..
Believe it or not, she said in retrospect, she got a thrill out of being vulnerable, yet not threatened like that. It's almost a kind we now have. Inadvertant flashing that may be 'embarassing' at the time, but feels thrilling afterwards. She's a closet exhibitionst now, so to speak.
Judge us if you want, It's our thrill
Yeah until she gets the "pointing and laughing" or runs across someone who took and posted pix on uTube or something.
Just because you can does NOT mean you SHOULD.
BTW being an adult requires exercising good judgment.
Something you both have failed to do.
Have you considered the possibility that she convinced herself to be okay with this, for your sake? Or rather, for the sake of not having to confront you about it and risk causing a rift?
Exhibitionism is fine, as long as both parties are fully on board. She wasn't on board until just now. This just became an 'our thrill' situation. It was a very rude, very selfish 'my thrill' situation on your part. If bringing exhibitionism into the relationship was your goal, there are far better, far safer, far more respectful ways which take far less advantage of her, than the way you've done it.
It's not the exhibitionism itself we're judging. It's the taking advantage of her, the total disregard for her feelings, the total disrespect for her as a person that has people so inflamed.
Where does it stop? Where's the boundary of human decency? Where do you draw the line on mistreating her? Obviously, publicly humiliating her while she's drunk off her ass doesn't even come close to being over the line, so where is it drawn? Just how low do you need her self-esteem to be in order to boost your ego?
I think she's lying though her teeth.
Why?
Because she has to be drunk to do it!
This way she can disclaim any responsibiity for her actions ths making it okay.
A true exhibitionist would not need to be drunk.
Where does it stop?
Well, he might end up whoring her out. Some people get a thrill doing that and that is about as humiliating as it gets.
But hey, it is THEIR THRILL so that makes it okay - RIGHT?
<--putting on the brick and picking up a 2x4.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;249423]Where does it stop?
Well, he might end up whoring her out. Some people get a thrill doing that and that is about as humiliating as it gets.
But hey, it is THEIR THRILL so that makes it okay - RIGHT?[/QUOTE]
Precisely my point EEK. And you and I, and most of the free world that places any value on human life already knew all that. Except apparently not the OP, which is why I brought it up--to get him to start thinking with the head that sits on top of his neck, instead of the one that gets rigid when he does this shit to her.
Since the OP has either brains nor empathy, I thought I might a well make the point crystal clear.
And this is the guy she wants as the father of her children?
Alcohol and idiots do not mix