Hey all, I think I found an older post about this a while back but I can't seem to find it anymore!
Basically I was wondering...
Can a virgin actually offer a more experienced partner anything during sex, or not?
(this is merely a question there is no situation behind it)
Thanks
My first time was with someone experienced....but that night he experienced a first, too.....the best sex he'd had up to that point.
The key is, being as knowledgeable as you can about intercourse, being open-minded, and being confident.
Since, we've enjoyed a first each time we make love: each time is the new best time as we both evolve and as I learn more.
So, it is possible to please someone else even if you aren't experienced.
What people need to remember is that every time you are with a new partner, you may as well be a virgin. What works for one person doesn't always work for someone else. You have to learn the "triggers" for the one you are with.
Some people enjoy the fact that their new partner has a "clean slate" so to speak. They can teach them many things, and learning together is the fun
Some find the innocence factor a major turn on.
Thanks all!
I suppose that if I (or some one as inexperienced) found a loving caring partner with more experience they won't mind and might even teach you some things
I sometimes think the "mechanics" of sex are highly over-rated... it's less about the body and more about the mind.
If we believe that "size doesn't matter," then to some extent virginity doesn't either (in terms of performance).
Good, bad... it's all relative. (And no, that's not an incest reference). No, a virgin doesn't have a lot of practical experience, but they can make up for that by having boundless enthusiasm for something new. Being good at sex doesn't take a lot on "hands on" knowledge. What it takes is being willing to be sensitive to your partner and paying attention to what they find pleasurable.
certain things are universal and not only contained in sex.
Like the way u hold someone or talk to them.
... Although , not to be a dick. but ull probibly not be so good ur first time.
I am still a vergin but my friends say that they were horrible there first few times.
i was horrible at eating out my first few times , but i got better.
Now id have to say that i am pretty good at it.
I guess u will just need lots of practice
Good luck
Well, if the virgin is a girl, she will be tighter down there than someone who has been having sex for a while.
And just from personal experience (me being the virgin), just because you're a virgin, or you haven't done it as much as your partner, doesn't mean that you're not knowledgable about sex and you don't have a few tricks up your sleeve.