Right well i just found out that i need to be more spontaniouse in bed and in gen and take control... ive been with my girlfriend for a few months and everything is great till last night so how do i go about being exciting /spontaniouse without being pushy ? she had a really bad last boyfriend who was very pushy!
To be honest it its mainly the foreplay i do the fingering and oral and kissin the the chest but the oral and kissin she doesnt seem to enjoy...but i could be wrong what else could i do?
Ask her for guidance in what she likes and would like. Then, read all the chapters in this link, together or individually:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping:
It is not uncommon for women to believe that a guy should just know--what is important is that we have the "dots" connected for us.
ook thanks mate...i think she thinks i no what to do and what she like and dislikes but hey ill just ask her cheers for your help:)