I am addicted to masturbation. addicted psychologically at least. I use masturbation as a tool to escape or replace my desires for an intimate relationship. I had been trying to get my ex gf back for a long time, and any time i got depressed over that and lost hope that we might get back together i'd go hide out in my room and sulk, and often i'd get on the computer, look up some porn and masturbate. I'd do this even when i wasn't feeling horny; i'd force myself to get turned on. I dunno. i want to stop, but the times when it happens are the times when i've lost the will to do anything, and doing anything includes trying to stop myself.
Sun, 05/01/2005 - 11:38
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Escapist masturbation
Hi Vagabond!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Now, it's important to rephrase your statment of [QUOTE=Quote ]I use masturbation as a tool to escape or replace my desires for an intimate relationship.[/QUOTE].
I highly doubt that you're using it to escape or replace, rather, i think you're using it to reduce the stress and use the endorphans that are released during masturbation/sex to help ease your feelings!
TRUST ME! Millions of men use masturbation as a form of a drug. For just a few minutes, you forget about your problems, stress, money, love, work, etc and just focus on the feelings that accomopany masturbation - especially the orgasm!
Don't be too tough on yourself bud! 99% of all men masturbate, the other 1% lie about it....and many of us do it ONLY because it feels good and makes us feel better after!
Just know that as time goes by, and u continue to move on in your life past your old GF, you'll find that the frequency of jerking off changes too!
You're fine!