Hello
I've been having sex with a man I met over the summer and from the start he was very forward and was not in any way embarrased to tell me what he wanted in bed! He even told me he goes as far as a women lets him, but what does that mean?I know he watches to much porn and he himself has told me how much he loves masturbating. He recently asked me to send him explicit photos of me with a huge dildo in my vagina among other things, because he's abroad and too horny. The thing is, if I fulfill this, will he loose respect for me and label me as a slut or would it bring us closer. I mean guys out there, if a girl fulfills almost anything, who does a girl know, when she's being used for sex or what?
[QUOTE=xochiquetzal;154145]The thing is, if I fulfill this, will he loose respect for me and label me as a slut or would it bring us closer.[/QUOTE]
I'd be more worried about what happens to the pictures if (when?) you and this guy break up. Or before, for that matter.
I think photos are for very trusted long term relationships only.
Me and my girlfriend have erotic photos but we have so much love and respect for eachother that if we broke up we would destroy them as we are like sole mates.
I would say dont do it, and if he breaks up with you/ gets realy pissed off its obvious he's only after one thing.
in brief, i concur with sparco.
In brief, I also concur with Sparco, NizeGie and Xochiquetzal. I'm also in a long distance relationship (2+ yr old) and love to have pictures of my sweetheart - mostly fully clothed, some "partially" clothed (not "partially nude"!), but none nude even though I would love to. My girlfriend is not comfortable with nude pics and I respect it (tho she has said recently she would like to "give it a shot" next time we get together - which is tomorrow!!! :cool: :cool: :cool: )
I am in a long distance relationship and send my bf erotic & clothed pics all the time. He even took nude pics of me and some real naughty ones the last time we were together...that's even more fun than taking them myself.
All you need do is a bit of a search on the web and one can see how pictures of this nature can end up in areas accessible by the general public. I too would love pics of a similar nature of my wife, i travel often and am thus way from home for extended periods of time, BUT, I realize that the consequences of these photo's getting into the wrong hands can be very severe!!
Lets exclude anything that he may do if things do not work out, what happens if he "looses" the pics, if they are stolen etc.
Think about it!
You outta be more concerned about whether those photos will end up somewhere on the Internet or hurt you later on than with whether he will think that you are a slut.
you dont have to be nude to be sexy in photos, and well me and my gf have nude/non nude pics aswell ones of us together (we would never show them to anyone else for they are for when we are apart only or just going through our memories in a rainy day) but that just kinda happened o.< only do this if you are sure he cares about you and if he does really care then he wont label you anything or lose respect and the question im to ask is.. do you trust him? only you can answer that.. and once you do i think you will find your answer more easily, if you are unsure or nervous its best and safer not to atleast till you start to feel more comfortable.