Ok. i started dating and have not been sexualy active, and i meet this girl and we decide to wait on having sex..well we did the dry humping thing and this was for like 3 days in a row, i got a bad case of the blue balls and never got off, which i now know is not a good thing as it can be painful in the testicles:eek: . A few days go buy and my girl is away so i decide to masterbate well i'm havin trouble getting it up!! I got it up but not like useuall, had trouble and sorta soft..not a solid hard on.it kinda has me worried i may have done something, could i have damaged my self or am i just worrying to much about it? I was nervous about having sex but we decided and both was ok with it, so we dry humped instead and now i'm wondering if by dry humping and having a bad case of blue balls could i have damaged something. But it sorta has me woried! im just under 30yrs. old so it's not like i should be having a eretile disphunction problems, and i have never had in the past. thanks in advance!
Fri, 10/26/2007 - 22:53
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Erection problems - Need some help!
You should be OK.
Dry humping or even an aborted case of masturbation shouldn't cause any damage. There are two general cures for "Blue Balls", one is masturbation, later, the other is the proverbial "cold (cool) shower, later.
More than likely you are just suffering from a bit of worry. My guess is that if you try, again, you'll be back to your usual self. Worry is the bain of a good erection. Erections come and erections go and so too do the quality or firmness of them.
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