i am a 28 years old virgin male , my gf satisfy me by
her hand ,i have to problems
1) as soon as she take her hand off from
my erect penis while massaging , my penis get softer
again , is it natural?
2)secondly when my penis is erect it turns to the left
and the root (shaft) of the penis seem to me very thin
as compare to the middle and ending part of my penis
which becomes thick and bulky, plz help me as soon as
possible.
[QUOTE=plzhelp;154228]i am a 28 years old virgin male , my gf satisfy me by
her hand ,i have to problems
1) as soon as she take her hand off from
my erect penis while massaging , my penis get softer
again , is it natural?[/QUOTE]
Yes and no. How quickly do you get soft again? If it's somewhat instant, then you may have to talk to your doctor about possible drugs to take to help with the dysfunction. If you're not interested in trying drugs which help with erectile dysfunction (such as Viagra), you might like to try some vitamins or herbs to help with eretile issues: Ginseng promotoes energy, stamina, and endurance and supports erectile function. Ginkgo is also good, as it supports blood circulation and mental focus. Vitamins A, C and E and are involved in reporductive processes and Zinc is important for fertility and reproduction, so keep them up.
Otherwise, and MORE LIKELY...
*Are you actually "in the mood" when you get intimate? If your mind is not in the right state, you won't get it up no matter what. The psychology of sex is a weird thing - if you are nervous, under pressure, or stressed, you won't be able to hold an erection.
[QUOTE=plzhelp;154228]
2)secondly when my penis is erect it turns to the left
and the root (shaft) of the penis seem to me very thin
as compare to the middle and ending part of my penis
which becomes thick and bulky, plz help me as soon as
possible.[/QUOTE]
That is not abnormal - penises come in weird shapes and sizes, especially when erect. Maybe it'll end up to your advantage, being a g-spot finder....
I'll go along with everything but the Viagra, et al.
The three little pills or tabs will not likely be prescribed by a doctor at his age and for an erection that he admits he is able to achieve. This leads us to the other end of the spectrum in which it decreases. I tend to think this has more to do with a state of mind, or more to the point, a state of being. How much time are the two of you devoting to Necking and Petting, before getting down to the Foreplay aspect of it all? Next question, does she turn you on--really on?
These two questions are actually in reverse order. For a nice strong erection, you really need to be turned on. For it to last, you must also have achieved a high state of arousal. You can prove all this to yourself if you have no problem while masturbating.