:) Im new to the board..so any helpful advice would be great..and if i have any advice to give ill be glad to share knowledge from my experiences.
My ? is if any older males(im 18) have experienced erection problems w/ new sex partners..and if so how they handled it. Iv had sex w/my ex plenty of times so im not new to sex. However i have a new g/f and i really like this girl and when we attempted to have sex it jus would not wake up for the world. I would like to know how other males overcame this problem and what they thought was the reason for the limpness :o NE advice would be helpful..from males or females
THanx!
when me and my gf first got together i couldnt get it up. after a while we put it down to nerves and were not ready for sex just yet. so we gave it a while getting more comfortable with each other and now were fine. i guess its just time my man.
(btw im 18 too)
me and my ex had a few problems like that, whatever you do do not balme it on the girl, thats what my ex did and it made my self estem plumit and it hurt so much to think i was so unattractive my boyfriend couldn't get it up. i turned out that because of this i had to finish with him and when i met my new boyfriend things got much better and i realised it wasnt because i was unattractive it was because he had some problems he needed to overcome and was angry that he couldnt sort it out. if nothing gets better after a while i would visit my doctor and get some viagra or something, but whatever you do make it clear to you girlfriend that it is no her fault
[QUOTE=lustforlove;182119]...... if nothing gets better after a while i would visit my doctor and get some viagra or something, but whatever you do make it clear to you girlfriend that it is no her fault[/QUOTE]
No forget the viagra as they guy said he had no trouble with a previous girlfriend there is no physical dysfunction it is just nerves and perhaps a doubt your doing the right thing just yet, just take it easy and if necessary take the time to get more comfortable with each other