Probably nerves/anxiety. Take your time, relax and things will happen naturally - if you're too stressed out or anxious you'll find yourself losing your erection, just chill a bit, there are amny other things (oral for example) you can do to give pleasure while you "get your act together".

Dave gives the best advice. But, when in doubt, consult your doctor. We are obsessive in recommending that women have gyn exams before sex but we ignore that men can use some checking out, too.

[QUOTE=Im A Big Boy;256121]im 18 and dont really know whats happening in the bed. during sex and during oral, i cant stay full hard and become a little limp. its not like i cant get it up at all, it just can stay hard for the entire. but in school i can keep an erection for a while and during my sleep so i dont know whats really the problem
thank you =][/QUOTE]

Hi, I'm 20 and weak erection is a well known problem for me. Cialis 10 mg (the lowest dosage) helped me
Visit a doctor, I'm sure he'll prescribed to you Viagra or Cialis
Good luck!

Always consult your doctor because family doctor knows you better and he will give guidance to you.

If you're only 18, you don't need any medicines, just try to relax and everything will be fine.

Hi friend Don't worry your problem will solve
just go to psychologist They will solve this
problem by their own way...................

Smith Alan :)

ED is the major problems found in many people.Erectile dysfunction includes sexual disorder like low sex drive,inability of erection.Erectile dysfunction is the inability to get erection for sexual intercourse. Generic Viagra is the main magic solution used for treating erectile dysfunction.

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No, sildenafil, either generic or branded, is NOT the main solution for erectile dysfunction and it is certainly not "magic."

No one should ever take this stuff without proper urological consult and then it should be acquired at a proper chemist (apothecary, drugstore, pharmacy, whatever). You have no idea what the stuff is that comes through the mail from an unknown dispenser using unknown sources.

Click the link of the previous poster, Laura, and you will find a poorly done website written by a non-native English speaker, with overprints. The strength of medications is not shown and you are led to believe that this "stuff" including pills and gels are equipotent with the branded stuff. At the bottom is the disclaimer about self-medication and getting medical advice. STAY AWAY.

You don't need a psychologist.

What is up with all these posters? Brandy and dave put iit best. Slowly slow helped reitterate everything.

YOU DO NOT NEED PILLS. And there is no reson to waste your money on a psychologist unless you already suffer from mental issues or have been raped or sexually abused.

To everyone that posts links to other websites for pills. DO NOT POST THEM. First off if I'm not mistaken it is against forum rules to post advertisments. This is pretty much what your doing.

Second off medications like viagra are not just some "pill" that everyone should take at the first sign of trouble. You people are probably the same ones who take steroids instead of working out properly and dieting properly. Or you run to the doctor because you have trouble focusing and need riddlin for ADD when its simply lack of sleep causing you to lose focus.

OP I have this problem on occasion. And guess what. I have linked it to many different causes.

1.) Lack of concentration (I.e. stress is causing me to lose focus and not pay attention the the task (or woman ) in front of me.

2.) Nerves. I usually have this happen with a new partner. Which is even more embarassing since you generally want to WOW them the first time.

3.) Lack of sleep or just plain exhaustion. I also find I have less staying power ejaculate faster if I am not properly rested.

4.) Poor diet. It isn't something that is sensed right away, but I do notice that if I have been eating a lot of junk food, my sex drive goes down and sexual function is sub par (nothing too terrible but eaating terrible for a week leads to so-so abilities while eating healthy has shown a better orgasm, more ejaculate (and consequently a strong and longer orgasm) firmer erections, more energy.

So my cures. Get proper rest, put down the soda and twinkies and pick up water and an apple. Stay confident. Remember she may be hot and you want to pleasure her but she wants to have sex with you, you obviously are doing something right. And do some yoga or go for a run. Clear your head and cut the stress.