What have you done that is Kinky???

[hurricane08wl]

Things my boyfriend and I have done for example is: role playing - nurse, school girl, and hostage. We also have bed restraint system and a vibarator. I have my tongue pierced and he tells me it drives him nuts when I use the vibarator tongue ring. We have sex in public. We have also had sex in daylight on a lake in a fishing boat. He is the first guy that I let fuck my ass. We dont get to have sex that often because we only get to see each other on weekends and when we do see each other on weekends 8 out of 10 times we are doing something with sex. Does that help any? We are willing to try anything. Thank you.

[dlb]

OK so you consider kink to be adventuresome sex that goes beyond the "norm" whether the "norm" is your personal definition or society's. I'll buy that.

You are at a good age to experience those things and I suspect that you will continue to want to live your sex life that way. So many people never act out or fulfill their fantasies or ideas and then wonder why their sex lives are unfulfilling.

What many people would consider kinky is simply striving to be better at "normal" sex; to learn as much about your body and your partner's body and how to get the most mileage out of yourselves and each other. The fundamentals are quite fun and as one grows older one might find that there are still things to be learned about the fundamentals.

Back to your original question. I like outdoor sex and sex in "forbidden" places also. I am a bit of an exhibitionist but these days I confine the exhibitionism to kinky gatherings where no one is subjected to such displays without consent. I have a thing for balconies, and stairways. For several years I have been a student of Shibari, Japanese rope bondage, within which I find the embodiment of many of my concepts of what sexual bliss between two people can and should be.

[EvilEvilKitten]

"sorry for being a bitch but i don't take shit from people that don't know me and want to judge me over the internet."

How you convey your thoughts on paper or over the Internet reflects not only how you think of yourself but how worthy you think your readers are. If you stop showing disrespect to us by writing correctly - the favor will be returned. Of course we don't know you. The ONLY data we have is your writing. if yu wryt lk dis idk mybee we dunno wanna knw yu cus yu r dum.

Enough, onto your question although you have not stated why we should answer it other than to satisfy your curiosity.

As to how kinky? Try this www.wickedwomangroup.us

[hurricane08wl]

Thanks you. I'm sorry about before. I write short hand because I'm use to take notes and being in class all day long.

I never said you had to answer my question. I'm just looking to try something new. We don't want things to get boring.

Thank you for the site.

[EvilEvilKitten]

LOL
Boring? I have never found sex to be boring - even after 40 years of intense study!

Sex is ALWAYS different each and every time even with the same partner - if you are paying attention.

The mood is different, the circumstance, and the relationship is different. You two are different people - as you mature, grow, and learn new things.

How could sex ever becoming boring when it is essentially a moving target?

What I have found is a 'rush to kink' amongst those who haven't really explored 'regular' sex to its fullest and/or mastered some of 'regular' sex's more archane skills such as stimulation of the fornices.

Trust me - there is no need to rush anything about sex and the exploration thereof.

[hurricane08wl]

True and I do see your point. I do find it a rush with some of the things we do. We do have a good bit of moments where we are just into the 'regular' sex. This weekend when he gets to come in to see me I got this cute outfit he has not seen yet. We been planning on taking pictures of each other wheile the other masterbates but the deal is we are not allowed to touch each other or ourself while one of us is masterbating.

I love every single time we have sex. I'm just kinda scared that because we are both young that it's going to get boring after a few years or so. We plan on spending our life with each other and getting married in two years.

[dlb]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

archane skills such as stimulation of the fornices.

Oh look! Use of the correct plural of fornix. She probably knows about the plural of penis also. Unsure whether I intend a pun there

[EvilEvilKitten]

I've been married to the same man for 30 years - sex isn't boring yet!!!

Penises is the correct pural for penis, dlb. You're welcome.

O8wl, please find and read the website I posted earlier. Also check out the sticky post on this forum entitled The Program and do that.

Please note that 'cute outfits' are not required.

[hurricane08wl]

Wow 30 years. I'm gald to hear that. I just need to relax and stop over thinking everything.

[dlb]

penis-penes follows the same rule as crisis-crises, analysis-analyses. For a literary reference check the opening chapter of John Steinbeck's The Grapes of Wrath. Not important to this thread.