When you two are making out or in the moment just gradually slide his hand where ever you want it. He should get the idea. Or you can try making a move on him and hope he returns the favor. Good luck.

If im teasing my g/f to much, she will often move my hand to her breasts or the "holy land".

Or you could actually tell him if he isnt getting the idea. Just when your making out, stop and kiss his the rest of his face, then move to his ear, and whisper something like, "I want you to feel me" Or you could actually say "touch me". Be creative if you want, but make sure that he still gets the message.

How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? You mention an age difference, but it is not clear how big a difference it is. It sounds like it may be important in this case.

well considering that you are under 16 and he is somewhat older than you im guessing he probably knows the basics of how to touch a women. maybe he's not getting too touchy feely out of respect to both of your's decision to wait until you are 16. i know from experience that sometimes when you start to get too touchy feely things can get carried away and lead to other things w/out you even realizing it. not that he would force you to do something in anyway im just saying on both of your's parts once things get heated up its hard to stop. when you are caught up in the moment something might happen you both might regret later. just ask him if this is how he feels. if not, if you both think you can control you libidos and only go so far then tell him what you want and how you want to be touched

In my opinion, if you just tell a guy to do something like play with me, or whatever you want, it will turn him on so much, and he would want to do it to you just for saying that, I give him a lot of respect for waiting for you, don't ever leave this man he seems like a nice guy who wouldn't force you to do anything you dont want to do. So I dont understand why you wouldnt just want to tell him straight out, he will like it a lot.

Never fails: rub him on the upper thigh, right between his testicles and down the curve of his thigh towards his buttcheek. I wish I could draw a cross-section for you! Ha! But it's right in between the testes and his upper thigh, just down the curve--it will make him go NUTS.

good for u in wanting to wait, but dont ever let your age be a problem, if you want to do it, then you should not worry about whether your're old enough, more about whether your mature enough. when ur mature enough to make a decision, then age is no longer a limiter.

On the subject of pleasing him, explore, u dont have bits like that, and exploration will help you understand them, plus it will make him feel great to have som uch a ttention focused down there. PLay with his nuts, as they are a guarenteed trick to make him horny as f***, just remember to b e gentle, they can be tempremental little buggers, and react differently to differenet amounts of pressure.

on the subject of persuading him to go further, try hinting subtley, like he did when he said about wanting to tickle u. when his hands are resting on u, move around a little to make them rest where u want them, and then gentle gig a little to start his hand moveing, then he will think, kol, a new game to play, and will start to do and go where u want it. if a more direct method is needed (ie for those times ur feeling REALLY horny) nibble his ear, tell him what u want him to do to u, and then tell him what will happen as a reward. talking dfirty turns most men to the point of doing anything, there are many exceptions, but its still something to try, unless he's straight out the bible, about to head in for his daily confession atteh church, the dirty talking wont offend him.

however, the best trick is communication, COMMUNICATE with him, both about what u want and need and also about what HE wants and needs, and what he expects to do, and how far he is prepared to go.

Good luck !