Alright gents. How do i do this... ok When you wait for a woman to.. well.. get you going.. and you dont really make any moves.. does that kinda make you submissive? or.. whatever theya re called.. but does that make you one?> i've been confused on this for a while. Like is it normal for a girl to... do most of the work??? like not the work, but the one to start touching the other.. or.. whatever... and they wait for you to do this.. and if you don't they usally dont touch.. 
also how do you encourage, that you wanna be touched too? and not always have to "start"..?
jamie
im confused.
LOL awww i loved that post Wally, its the truth... LOL hes like that. but when he wants to be.. dominant.. or.. more agressive he is! lol oh well i just gotta tell him i think its hot LOL im sure he will do it more :P hehe THAKNY OU all!!
Jay
Hi Lady, i agree with much of what was posted, especially the overanalyze post...that said, I think often its an issue of the guy "letting you set the pace."
God knows we've read hundreds of posts where guys have demonstrated their pure lack of concern for the lady's mindset or overal preparation for intimacy.
Many guys will let the gal set the pace initially so they get an idea about what she's looking for right then, or what her initial limts may be. If all else fails! TALK! ASK!
That's always worked for me! 
I'm a big believer in not over-analyzing... just enjoy and not worry about what's "normal." Normal is a very individual thing!
But I have to throw this out: not making the first move may be the opposite of submissive, it may be an ultimate form of control! I don't do or say anything... your reach for me in a sexual way. I get to accept your move or push you away. Who's in charge?
Or it may be just simple... I might wait for you to make the first move because it tells me you want me, I turn you on, etc.
Or...
Don't worry, be happy! Don't worry, be horny!
Wally
Firstly being the first to be touched doesnt mean your submissive, its prolly more that your not horny or ur just plain lazy. ive never been in a submissive/dominate relationship with anyone, but wat i know is that being submissive its not being the one who doesnt make moves.
i dont think its normal for a girl to do all the work, unless the guy is tied up
. i reckon there should b a balance and wen your making love you concerntrate on pleasureing hte other and being pleasured.
ummm...no i dont think its normal either for the girl to be the only one to make the moves, it must be seriously saying something about the interest level of your b/f in you if he hasnt made a move once on you, and tried to be intimate with you.
i dont htink words can really express to ur boyfriend that u want him to touch you. maybe u can (on a certain night wen you by yourselves) dress sexily, and look into his eyes a certain way that u want something, put on a certain music that gets u and him into the mood, but dont make the first move. if he doesnt get that u want something...then there's something serioulsy wrong. perhaps before he comes over u can msg him and just say your so very horny and wen he comes over just sit htere but dont pull a move and see wat happens, she should react to that sms, or message.
hope that helps, goodluck