When having sex with my partner, i tend to cum very.....very fast the first time. The thing is that, sometimes that is, my erection stays strong, even if i do cum again. Is this a problem? i worry too much about lasting long and pleasing her, hence she has experience, and she is my first partner.
Note: i do not use a condom.
Mon, 11/05/2007 - 07:44
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Ejaculation.....problem?
> When having sex with my partner, i tend to cum very.....very fast the first time.
What about the second time, etc?
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
> The thing is that, sometimes that is, my erection stays strong, even if i do cum again. Is this a problem?
Not usually.
> i worry too much about lasting long and pleasing her, hence she has experience, and she is my first partner.
Please read through the list of articles in the Index, including the one, above.
> Note: i do not use a condom.
What is your rationale for not using a condom? In addition to safety, a condom will help dull your sensitivity.
The second time or others depends, it has times when the second ejaculation is also quite fast, but there has been times when after i cum the first time i last longer, in which she orgasms and what not. It varies. I have read some of those articles also, but i haven't tried any of the P E techniques at this time.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;198314]> When having sex with my partner, i tend to cum very.....very fast the first time.
What about the second time, etc?
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
> The thing is that, sometimes that is, my erection stays strong, even if i do cum again. Is this a problem?
Not usually.
> i worry too much about lasting long and pleasing her, hence she has experience, and she is my first partner.
Please read through the list of articles in the Index, including the one, above.
> Note: i do not use a condom.
What is your rationale for not using a condom? In addition to safety, a condom will help dull your sensitivity.[/QUOTE]
Hi,
In addition to the information in the article, you should consider not beginning intercourse when you have reached the trigger point of your orgasm. A better tack to take is to wait until your sense of urgency has subsided. This will let you stroke more giving you another opportunity to rebuild your arousal over time.
As a (very) young woman I was advised and learned to jack my partner off during foreplay. Slowed them down a bit, and with young men, there is always more.
You may want to look into the "ladies first" movement. Get her off early, however you want, and then you do not have to worry about your shot term. Many, many young men have experience similar to yours.