Hi all, newbie here. Just as a preface, I am not a minor and thus totally allowed by law to view sexual content and all that good stuff.
So, about a year and a half ago I started my first relationship, with a wonderful guy. Before this relationship, I had had some experience with masturbation and orgasms, and had a vague idea of the notion of Kegel muscles. Then one day when my boyfriend was stimulating me manually, I ejaculated when I reached climax. I don't think I knew what was going on at the time, but happily he had heard of female ejaculation, so we read up on it some. Meanwhile I continued to ejaculate via oral and manual stimulation, and various pieces of evidence pointed to the conclusion that I am in fact ejaculating, not peeing or something. First, it is clear and doesn't smell or taste like urine. Second, I have often ejaculated a considerable volume, and afterwards urinated a completely normal volume of urine.
No big deal, right? Well, here's the catch. I am a virgin, and we almost never engage in vaginal play--heck, I can only fit one finger in there comfortably. But absolutely every piece of literature I've read assumes, tacitly or explicitly, that ejaculation requires G-spot stimulation, which requires something to be in the vagina.
So what is the deal here? Am I not ejaculating, or is everyone missing something? Is it possible to ejaculate through clitoral stimulation combined with use by the woman of the Kegel muscles, without direct contact with the G-spot? And more pertinently, has anyone ever heard of anything like this?