hi everyone, im 17 and yea i need some help. Me and my girl friend have been together for a year now and she never gave me a good enough blowjob or handjob that got me to cum/orgasm so i thought i would try it for myself, and i did. After i had done it i went to take a shower and it finnaly shrunk back down but later on i got hard again and it really really hurt! like really bad i couldnt jerk off or anything but after i went to sleep it was fine. i did this for the next 5 days after that and each time after i orgasmed/cummed it really hurt after it shrunk back down and got hard again. I was gone all weekend and was sick on monday so i didnt get a chance to do it. But its been 3 days and each day ive tried to do it but i cant reach orgasm, i did it for an hour straight and couldnt get anything out at all. can someone please give me some advice?
Thu, 09/22/2005 - 20:21
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ejaculation trouble
yes, if i orgasm then let it go limp and get hard again, it hurts to even touch it let alone let it stay hard.
and yes through masturbation
I'm not really sure what you're saying... it hurts to get an erection after you've reached orgasm once? And you are doing this... how? Masturbation? I'd like to hear a little more detail before making any suggestions.
As for "my girlfriend never gave a good enough blowjob or handjob"... each guy is different. I, myself, rarely reach orgasm from oral sex- or just manual, for that matter- unless I'm somehow involved. In other words, I can't usually just lay back and get serviced. You have to provide the instruction- or at least give clues- as to what your triggers are for a partner to perform satisfactorily.