The purpose of sexual stimulation of the male is to cause ejaculation. What is the problem? If you put a condom on, that will contain some of the mess. If you put a paper napkin in there, that will help. It is up to the two of you how to capture and dispose of the semen. Ask her whether she wants a handful or wants to use a tissue.

Where is your imagination and creative juices?

I thought up and always used a spare washcloth in those days and circumstances. You can place a washcloth in your shorts and if you want reach in and fold it over top of your erect penis before the events of the evening proceed too far. There is nothing wrong with doing this in front of her, or if you are really shy, before getting together with her.

Just out of curiosity, how long do you think this will go on before you expose your penis and let her touch and fondle it in the flesh? Don't think I'm trying to rush you, only asking for general information.

> When she will actually give a real one, where am I supposed to let the semen go and how do I clean up without ruining the moment?

Use a hand towel on top of your pants and shirt or skin if your shirt is open or removed. Ejaculate onto the towel.

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-doc

> Use a hand towel on top of your pants and shirt or skin if your shirt is open or removed. Ejaculate onto the towel.

With your shirt open or removed, there is absolutely nothing wrong with ejaculating on your abdomen or chest. Have tissue and damp washcloth handy and wipe/mop up after.

The first time I caused an orgasm in a b/f, what I noticed was a spreading wetspot on his jeans where I was rubbing. I was not fully aware what happened. It was a few weeks later that I "took him out" and caused an ejaculation that traveled some distance and made quite a mess. During the cleanup, I got the giggles and he was hurt. So, I did it again but with a handful of tissues. He got over his hurt. These were great early learning experiences for me and should be for your girl friend. Her biological role is the extraction of semen. That is something she needs to know and not something you should hide from her and be embarrassed about.

AMEN! brothers and sisters.... Ready on the left, ready on the right, fire when ready.

Brandye, I do believe that last reply needs to be an article unto itself.

An alternate to a wash cloth or a towel are those wet wipes you can purchase and keep in the glove box.

OK, doc, I notice you put an abstracted post in Dating and New Relationships. I shall add to that.

also, just bring a spare pair of boxers with you when you go over. no big deal. the first few times that you're exposed to new stimulation, you may often find that you ejaculate quickly... after a while though, you get used to that stimulation and last longer.

Oh wow, fond memories of years past. I really like what Brandye said and the fact it is a learning experience.

[QUOTE=Brandye;253573]The first time I caused an orgasm in a b/f, what I noticed was a spreading wetspot on his jeans where I was rubbing. I was not fully aware what happened. It was a few weeks later that I "took him out" and caused an ejaculation that traveled some distance and made quite a mess. During the cleanup, I got the giggles and he was hurt. So, I did it again but with a handful of tissues. He got over his hurt. These were great early learning experiences for me and should be for your girl friend. Her biological role is the extraction of semen. That is something she needs to know and not something you should hide from her and be embarrassed about.[/QUOTE]

Dry humping was a lot of fun and enjoyable while dating and making out. My first time dry humping was with a girl two years older than me when I was 17. Just having her lay on me against my hard cock was good, but when she started to grind, it was fantastic. She never did extract semen from me since we weren't together too long. I did get a little wet in my shorts with the lube I produced, but never really released a full load, but I was hooked on dry humping.

I did have one girlfriend that sounds alot like yours, she loved to dry hump and she would regularly extract semen from me. I would just let it go and my shorts would catch it all and be messy. But what a great mess to have. I would just go home and change my shorts and the semen in the shower. She had the same type of problem because her panties would get so wet from her own juices. She was the first girl that ever gave me a hand job also. The first time she was surprised to feel me squirt semen and she had her hand over the top when it started to come out. She just left her hand there to feel the squirts and let it run down my cock. She had reached in my short to do this, so the shorts caught most of the semen and I drove home happy with a nice warm mess in my pants. She had never given a hand job before and so just handling a cock was fun for her, the release was something else fun and she was glad it happened when we talked about it the next time. She didn't know what to do with the semen on hand and was able to go get a tissue to wipe it off.

So have something handy like mentioned above. But don't worry about releasing in your shorts. Unless you are afraid of your mom seeing the mess when she does the laundry. I was on my own and did my own laundry, so never had to worry about that.