Simple answer is that no one can tell without a real examinatione. I suggest you see a urologist.

Hey i heard of this thing happening to women but well never a man have u tired like mutual masterbation but other than that i reacon u might to see a doctor about it. but look at it this way u can she a girl a brilliant time thats gotta count for something mate Matt

Say, what?

> The problem is I could almost go on forever with a girl without reaching an orgasm. I dont even ejaculate. Iv never experienced either and im 21.And yes i have been through puberty.

I agree with Brandye. You need to go in for an evaluation.

I do have questions for you, those being: Do you believe you have a healthy sex drive that compels you to try and masturbate? Do you try to masturbate and if so how often? (For example: Once a week? Twice/thrice a week? Daily? Multiple times a day?)

I'm just wondering if you have a low sex drive and simply have not learned the specifics of how to bring about a climax. That you can go on forever is nice, but not so if you have not discovered what specific rhythms, tempos, and pressures are needed (and where**) in order to build your arousal and tension to the brink of an orgasm and then beyond.

** Have you discovered where your hotspots and how many you have? The Frenulum (Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft) is the absolute #1 hotspot. There may also be one or more additional spots distributed around the Corona Rim.

* Do you perspire at some point during the journey toward having a climax?
* Does your breathing change and become sometimes haulting and at other times where you hold your breath briefly?
* Does your attention and concentration narrow and focus exclusively on the sensations being generated to the exclusion of all else around you?
* Does your body stiffen or even arc?

If your answer to one or more of these is no then for whatever reason, you have not stimulated yourself long or far enough to reach the trigger point of an orgasm.

Hi I'm also 21 and have the same problem ive never cummed during sex and the more times I have sex without cumming the more i think about it. I have no problems cumming when masturbating and do so fairly quicky I eve can do this with my gf present in the room ive also no cum of oral sex befor I have large sex drive and have no problems getting an erection by myself but now because of my problem i find my self not wanting to be having sex for fear of it happening again there for I have trouble staying erect and thinking just about sex

I have seen several guys post about this and referred to it as "retarded ejaculation"
search the site or google it and maybe that will help

i have the same problem, i hav absolutely no problems maintaining and getting an erection how ever ive never cum during sex, but i can through masterbation... at least its given me an excuse to make her orgasms more powerful, but still it like to cum during sex.