ok, first off, most women get bored after 15 minutes some even sooner, the advice i can give you is more foreplay, at least 30 minutes if not more, this will get her closer to orgasm, hell one thing you can do is have her orgasm from either you fingering her (clit or gspot) or from you eating her out (clit only) or both then you start insertion so your fine with time, you just need to know what to do before, also if you still need some foreplay advice look around the site or at some of dancing docs forums on the subject

not all women get bored weasel, i presonaly like to go on for long peoreids of time and i have only goten bord onece and that was a long time a go. what might help is to emty your blatter befor sex

OK, let's break this down:

Weasel, what has been noted many times is that after about ten minutes of intercourse many women become SORE, bored, and tired.

It is OK to enjoy prolonged lovemaking, although, it is also nice to get to the point and not draw out that long hoped for climax.

I agree that it is good form and manners to help your partner enjoy orgasms, first, before yours, and if one or both of you want multiples, to space them out in between any two of yours, since it generally takes guys longer to recoup.

> i have had problems with ed during sex see i dont have a problem getting up but rather i only last between 20 to 30 min

Silver, you do not have a problem with Erectile Dysfunction, rather, methodology.

Men with ED cannot get an erection. That you can points to something else and that is in the manner of how you are stimulating each other.

> and she dosent always finish so after i cum i would want to finish her

We have a saying in dance: "She goes...I go", meaning a woman turns first, then the man; or, the woman responds to the man's lead which he checks for before he begins his part of the dance step. It's not that different with making love. Help your partner to achieve one or more orgasms, first, before you have any.

Also, as a woman gets the last turn, so too should she enjoy the last orgasm in that session if she desires. This is just etiquette.

> and she dosent always finish so after i cum i would want to finish her but my penis wouldn't be up enough to go in so is this a personal problem, ed, ect.

Methodology! After awhile your penis deflates--so? Where is it written in the how-to manual that you or she cannot or should not rebuild it??? I am amazed at how many guys write in complaining that they have lost their erection so conclude that lovemaking must be over. This is just not so. Erections come and erections go. You can rebuild them, yet better--let her! If you let her ply her deft fingers I can pretty much guarantee that your erection will return faster and firmer. Now, having said this, you may have to wait a few minutes before trying to get it back and if this happens to be the case, then return to making out with more Necking and Petting in the meantime.

> and i just am so drawn because sometimes i can continue and we go on for like 4 hours and i cum several times. so i just would like some advise on what would be best.

My first suggestion is to look at the Index and read through the several articles that guide you through the maze of lovemaking. Learn how to go from A to B to C and on to Foreplay--then intercourse if this is part of the menu. Read up on the how-to's of making out--Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, and then Foreplay that should also include all of the above.

I recommend devoting no less than half an hour to just making out. This is very important for women, yet we fellas can benefit from all this attention to detail, also. When you move on to Foreplay, blend in all the making out with these activities as well. In other words, making out is progressive as well as inclusive; you do not do "this", first, then "that" second, and so on. We add what's next to all the things we have been doing.

So, if and when you loose an erection, or, just need your arousal tweaked, do not limit what you do to just a h/j or b/j exclusively. The skin is a person's largest sex organ, involve all of it.

A love making session can go on for an hour or more if desired. If you choose to extend it out, do so, yet understand that distractions can sidetrack an erection or the ability for either one of you to fully respond. This really is no big deal, so do not make it one. If you loose focus, fall back and begin again, this just helps prolong a session. Do not equate the loss of an erection with the end of a session. If anything, consider it an intermission.

Most sexual positions do not bring our respective pieces-parts into close constant contact enough to generate the friction we need to bring us to the brink of a climax--and beyond. As noted in at least one of the articles I urge you to read is that what a knowledgeable, skilled, caring, lover will do is to reach around and finger the clitoris while engaged in intercourse. Do not expect that a woman will get off from humping alone. Lastly, begin intercourse when invited yet not before you have been brought to near peak by all the fooling around that has gone on up to this point. Many guys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that the way to a climax is from lots and lots of stroking. WRONG.

Please see the two sticky posts entitled The PRogram and Body Worship - incorporate these techniques into your lovemaking and she'll be SCREAMING for you! Which will, in turn, excite you and off you two will go!

Stop worrying about your penis and work on ALL of your skills. As your abilities improve so will your penis.