> My girl takes 30 minutes of me eating her out to cum, no less, every time. This is regardless of the amount of foreplay, the "mood" of the sex (giggly, dirty, etc), how long since she's cum previously.... It's pretty constant actually.

Oral sex is foreplay. Personally, I'd be looking for another way in order to have some variety and shorten the time. Half an hour seems a bit much for you and her.

How long does it take her when she masturbates?

> Anyway, every day we have sex, I make sure she cums once. Some days we're together, we'll have sex 3 times, and I'll make sure she cums once.

Please keep in mind that she is responsible for and in charge of her own orgasms. We do not give them away and cannot force a person to have them. All any of us can do is to help our partner achieve his/hers. That said, ask her how she masturbates and have her guide your fingers so that you can learn her specific movements, rhythms, and pressures. There is a Sticky post on all this.

> I guess I look at it as an economic thing. If she could cum in 2 minutes, I'd make sure she cums a ton. If she could only cum after 2 hours of eating her pussy, well, maybe I'd only make her cum once a week.

I'd like to see you rephrase this and say that you would help her have as many as she desires, rather than to "make sure she cums a ton".

So as the girl...if it were you...knowing it takes me half an hour of licking to make you cum...would you want me to do it more? Or would you be satisfied with once per day?

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Firstly, stop thinking of you "giving her orgasms." They are her orgasms and she will deal with them as she wishes.

Secondly, about a quarter of all women never experience orgasm and another half of us require stimulation in addition to penetration and thrusting. Unlike Doc, I would look at 30 minutes well invested for a relationship. Does she want more? Ask her. All women are capable of multiple orgasms but few of us really want or expect more on a regular basis.

We even enjoy sex without orgasm. Sometimes the satisfaction having a man in us and sharing his pleasure is enough. During my lengthy cohabitations with men, they never went unattended to but I have always been happy with about one orgasm a week.

The time I invested on a nearly daily basis (only a few minutes) got me pretty much whatever I wanted every week or so. Your g/f may have similar feelings.