My gf and I have been trying different things, leading up to sex, and one thing she wants me to do is try my own pre-cum and/or cum. I have a couple worries about it though:
1- Is it even normal or ok to do that? I know girls will swallow the cum, but I've never heard of guys doing it, let alone pre-cum
2- Sometimes my cum isn't totally white, which kinda makes me think it's slightly mixed with pee. Is this normal, do I just not drink enough water, do I possibly have a peeing problem, or what?
Overall though, is it safe and normal to do that?
If you and your lady are both STD free it is safe...
normal??? what is normal.... boring :D lol
go for it.... It will cause you no harm.. after all gay guys do it and it doesnt kill them :)(dont take that wrong you wont turn gay if you like it)
as for the colour of your precum... I don't know.. Im not a doctor or I dont take much notice of the colour of my mans:p
From my understanding the sperm is the white bit, the semen (ie. the carrier) is actually translucent. If your cum isn't completely white it probably just means that you don't much as much sperm in there, which may mean you're having more sex than your balls can completely keep up with.
There is no "normal" or "right" or "wrong" in sex. There are things that are definite no-no's (children, animals, family) and things that many, like me, feel are morally wrong (cheating), but at the end of the day so long as its all consensual and safe (ie. no ass to mouth etc) its fine.
You might like it, you might not. I hate the taste (once I kissed my girl after she gave me head... ICK) and it certainly isn't a turn on; however, my girlfriend loves to taste herself.
Don't judge yourself and don't worry about it. Just have fun!
Considering how many women and gay men have done this, I think you can assume it's not dangerous. Swallowing someone else's can be a risk unless you're sure of their STD status, but swallowing your own is about as safe as it gets.
If it is ok for your girlfriend to swallow it, why wouldn't it be ok for you to do it? I think this answers the question on if it is safe. She could also say if you are not willing to taste it and swallow some, then why should she ever do this? I think it is poor taste for a guy wanting his girl to allow him to shoot his cum in her mouth, but then he is unwilling to even try it. Some girls don't mind cum, others will do it for their boyfriend or husband, and others don't like it and won't do it at all.
If this is normal or not doesn't matter. It only matters if she wants you to and if you are willing to go ahead with it. I was hesitant to kiss her after I had been down on her, but then again the thought of her tasting herself was a turn-on, so when the time was right, we kissed after I had given her oral. She could smell and taste herself on my lips. Again, I think it is only fair to go both ways on this. Just last week I went down on her after I had cum in her. I actually found it very enjoyable and she had a great O from me finishing her off with oral. So we both got alot out of this session.
The pre-cum has very little if any taste. The cum is totally different. I have tasted my own cum and found it isn't all that great. But that doesn't keep me from not doing it. My wife sometimes has me go down on her and continue oral sex after I have cum inside her. Sometimes while leading up to my climax, just thinking of tasting myself is a big turn-on for me. But then when I release, it seems like the wrong thing to do so I usually don't follow up on that thought. But there are a few times that she has wanted me back down there so I go down, and once started giving her oral again, I am glad I went back down. It does make her clean-up less messy.
not one to try it myself. i wouldn't know.. but let me know how it goes for u. is it as bad as some girls make out? or is it as tasty as some girls make out.
maybe drinking a lot of fruit juice before hand to change the taste a little might help :P
do not run for mr Nottingham! Lets just say its a contest to be the king of freshers in a uni in the uk... the winners talent i think this year the guy drank many er bodily fluids!
Fortunately we women are at the receiving end of having to eat cum. If I love to eat it, I think my partner should share the experience. Pre cum has a salty and somewhat lubricated taste.This is really nice if you perform a deep kiss. As for the big load depending on what a guy has had to eat or drink different taste may be present in the guys load. The only way the guy will find out how he tastes and what he pushes into his GF's mouth is to taste it at different times and make a note of what he ate or drank. He will then come to enjoy what his GF enjoys and not abuse her with unlikable stuff. I am open to any taste in cum. :). It's ok for me so why would it not be ok for a male:confused:? :p
It is completely normal and will not kill you or make you gay. Although it is not one of my favorite activities it makes my wife incredibly hot. When we first met she wouldn't swallow but after she saw i didn't have any problems with swallowing she has swallowed ever since.
There is nothing unsafe about trying your own ejaculate. I personally find it quite arousing when a man enjoys his own fluids. Also, as far as it not always being white, as DanielScott said, the white is the sperm and the clear fluid is the delivery method. Actually, the clear stuff is much better tasting and generally a lot sweeter than the white. Pre-cum is my favorite! It tastes a lot like my own juices.
On another note, what you eat definitely affects the way it tastes and I have found that pineapple juice will make ejaculate pretty damn tasty.
The sperm is not completely white ,but has somekind of tint..if you notice carefully,first it will look white but if you see it in details it may have a little yellow(a little,very little)tint..
Hey Dude
My girlfriend Dianne would not give me oral sex and i hated it. I used to give her oral all the time but when it came my tirn she refused. So i made a deal if she did it i would be ok with it if i ate my own sperm first if she have me a hand job. Soi got a hand job and i tasted my own sperm , so the nest time we were alone she gave me oral sex and ti was so hot. After i spermed and she spit it out she kissed me and it made it hotter. So chill and made a deal you will not regret it
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snow blowing: its when i guy comes in your mouth and then you give it back to him in his mouth.
am I the only one who came home from the movie and looked up what it ment?:cool:
to me its hot to do it.. my wife loves to suck me off and hold my cum in her mouth and then come up and kiss me deep... that way we can share it...i guess to each his own...
Swallowing the cum or sperm isn't a problem coz' it's clean (if you're STD free). But the question is, are you okay with it that you would taste your own cum?
and it makes a handy hair gel too...
look though the internet and stumbling on a page about couples who swap cum so the man swallows it after oral. the wife and i thought we would have a go.i layed down whilst she gave me a blowjob till i came in her mouth , she suck up every drop then came up to kiss me and drop the load in my mouth, witch i swallow as she gentle rubbed my cock .over all i quiet liked it. the taste was not to bad if you swallow quick and it was nice to lay next to my wife instead of her running to the bathroom to spit it out. is this normal thing people do .please let me know and does anyone else have any other ideas on things to do in the bedroom
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I do it all the time.... its fine. theres nothing wrong with it. it came from you, so i dont see why it would be wrong... i guess if you dont feel comfortable doing it, dont. if you do, go for it.
the day is quiet warm ho no its started to rain
Dude you posted a while ago that your wife would swap with you. Are you trying to tell me your incapable of figuring out another way then eating out of your hand?
If your girl will eat ur cum for ur pleasure ( of course for her's also), then guy can also eat for pleasing her.
you pretty much dont have to worry about getting STDs from your own cum
I have always enjoyed licking my semen from a woman's vagina after I have cum inside of them, or lick it from her belly or breasts. By the time I would get her licked clean, my cock would be hard again ,and ready to put back inside her.
When I jack off, I will often times eat my cum, and when I give my friends blow jobs, I always swallow.
[QUOTE=Ric;272576]I have always enjoyed licking my semen from a woman's vagina after I have cum inside of them, or lick it from her belly or breasts. By the time I would get her licked clean, my cock would be hard again ,and ready to put back inside her.
When I jack off, I will often times eat my cum, and when I give my friends blow jobs, I always swallow.[/QUOTE]
You give your friends blow jobs and even swallow? What kind of friends do you have?:confused:
Unless you're diseased there's no issue!! (cept maybe the taste haha)