I was making out with this girl last night, and she started giving me head without my having asked or anything...was just a pleasant surprise. so anyway, to reciprocate, i went ahead and asked if she wanted me to eat her out (i thought i'd ask because i know some girls aren't comfortable with it). When i asked her she seemed fairly surprised that i'd ask her if i could eat her out/that i'd be willing to do such a thing. (It's important to note that this was not some random girl i met last night. it was a friend, so i didn't have to worry about what lurked down under, something i know a lot of guys are worried about, but shouldn't be with someone with a known and clean sexual background)
I was wondering, because she seemed so (pleasantly) surprised that i'd be willing to do this, how rare it really is that a guy is unwilling or not courteous enough to reciprocate for his partner? There's just so much pleasure to be had in a girl wriggling around you as you tease her and bring her to orgasm. I don't know. Just looking for opinions here. 
I find it enjoyable when a man , or a woman for that matter is not afraid to go down . The majority of women also worry about how they smell or how they taste and take measures to keep clean. And on the other hand some women can also over do it with doucheing and endless sprays that can actually do more harm than good.
The natural clean tastes are often the ones that turn you on more , it can be very pleasurable for a woman to learn how she tastes as well .Just to see what its like and what her partner will be tasting..and ladies if you do that in front of your partner ,Licking your juices off of your own fingers,that can sometimes drive them over the edge!
And men ,,yes you too can smell a lil funny everynow and then too ! I can rember once (years ago) a guy i was friends with proceeded to whip out his cock n balls in a lame attempt to "prove" he had a big one and omg it smelled like stinky ass feet !! i slowly backed away and ran like hell !!I do hope that eventually he washed it ..if not im sure it has rotted off by now
I absolutely love eating out my girlfriend. Especially now that's she's become comfortable with me being down there, she's allowed herself to express her pleasure a little more (she used to try to be as quiet as possible or cover her face with a pillow) it turns me on even more. I love the taste (though sometimes after she has basketball practice it's so strong it makes me gag, but I still go at it
) but I mostly love the idea that I'm pleasuring the person I love. Completely rewarding and fulfilling to me. 
AsianKid
That wasn't an accepted form of love making?
You poor man. lol.
Did she give you oral or was that not allowed either?
If not, wow, I really feel sorry for you there. I really really do. lol.
Hey everybody i'm a noobie at all this so yeah. this is the right thing i needed to know. and i read the post and i didnt really have to ask my question. tanks!
Boy, you guys are making me jealous. I wish I had a girlfriend to go down on and give cunnilingus to. But I wish I could get someone to teach me the art of doing it properly. For I would not mind doing it to the one am writing to when I finally meet her on my holidays.
For it would be nice to show her that I could do it while still be a virgin. for I would not mind getting deflowered by her.
f*** i love the taste its soo gd with my x gf i went down on her as much as i could somtimes for hours . She loved it and so did i and i could smell where her pussy had been rubbing against my lips like 4 hours after i had seen her
. I personly love going down on a girl!! in fact i prefer going down on a girl than a girl giving me head (ok mabe she was crap but i dont know) i just know that i love going down on a girl. 
The smell is gr8 the taste is gr8 what more can u ask ? :P hehe
Total opposite to everyone else, my girlfriend is a complete neat freak. Not only does she insist on showering before hand, she insist that i wash out my mouth after i am done down below. For me this is a bit of a turn off, but then again...ive havent had sexual relations with her for bout over a month.
My guy was VERY eager to taste me. Says he loves the way I smell and taste, likes to keep my scent on his fingers and suck on them when I walk by his office. I think I taste a little sweet and a little salty combined.
Wow, I am so hot after this post, I think that Vaga and I need some one on one time in a room...LOL. I think she was surprised since men don't often return the favor. Expecially new into the relationship. This is what I have experienced. They later on are more comfortable and willing to go down, but at first it's like the fear of rejection and men want us to move first and then later they will follow. Or mabye it's just me and how I see it.
cud ne1 describe the taste and smell? i dont kno how other women smell/taste!
plz reply!
uncreativename
now i don't yearn for the taste, but i don't find it half bad either, and that slight whiff that lingers on my fingers brings back pleasent memories of the time we had just had. The taste was generally tangy (in a good way), and only rarely a bit unpleasant.
I feel not-so-normal now!!
I really like the taste of a girl's juice. There's something about it that I find really sexy, and having read the whole thread I'm now a bit fed up that I haven't tasted any for a while!!
When I was with my last girlfriend and was working somewhere where I started at 2pm we would often have sex in the morning, and I would often eat her out. I used to love tasting it in my mouth when I was at work, and also smelling her on my fingers.
hehe - perhaps I'm just strange!
Interesting Villain, something like the semenex guys use.
Wonder when they will make a lipstick that taste like it ?
Oh well, a guy can dream.
eDJ
[QUOTE=Quote (Ashes @ Nov. 14 2004,20:45)]The real problem is the taste I guess. I don't know about others but I was very disappointed when I did oral to my girlfriend to find that she tasted so foul. Of course I wasn't expecting her to taste like cinammon but still, that made the experience pretty unpleasant for me. I know she likes it so I just shut up and keep with it but if a guy asks me whether a woman tastes good down there, I will be sure to answer negatively.[/QUOTE]
well... I may have found a solution to your problem.
Sweet Release
If you're willing to spend the money... it's supposed to work. I mean... if you're embarassed to tell her she needs it... by the male kind for yourself too...
ignore this post. the problem i stated here earlier is no prob anymore
Bravo vagabondprince,
You do me proud!
Lovely story and nice composition too. I'll share one of mine with you for that one.
Brief story:
I once took my lady friend on a motorcycle camping trip where one of the venues was the Cincinnati Jazz Fest.
We were on my motorcycle and found lodging at a campsite on arriving in the Cinci area. The next morning after breaking camp we putt down to the riverfront to get tickets for that evenings concert. Following that we traveled north to where
we could get a motel room and checked in and offbore the camping gear into the room so the bike would be unloaded.
I noticed when we were there that so many of the black folks were arriving in Lincolns, Cadillacs, big rides and clean. This I knew was a big occasion in their community and it seemed they were in the rooms all around us and above. We were sort of misfits that evening around the motel. So we packed up to get to the River Front Stadium and park the bike and go find a seat.
It was a lovely evening as we sit watching the concert. Occasionally a black girl sitting near would mumble....look...white people.... She was high and enjoying herself sort of teasing us cause she could tell I was really into the music. I'd just smile back to her and she would giggle.
Her girlfriends were nervous with her antics but I kept smiling.
When we left I motored the highway back to the room and stopped by a wine and cheese shop to get some livation.
Within an hour my lady had consumed most of the wine and was wanting to get hot for some action. We began to make noise and hearing an occasional thump on the wall. As we continued I began to go down on her and she really whooped
without restraint being half drunk. This till she cum and we passed out for the night...around 10PM.
The next morning I woke up around 5 am. I got up showered and shaved and started to saddle up the bike. I heard this...sssshhhhhhiiit hissed from this beautilfl black woman upstairs as I went to the bike. I noticed that some reflectors were missing on the back end of it and the license plate had been bent up. I puzzle for a moment, then bent things straight again and lashed the camping gear on the luggage carrier.
When I turned around my lady was walking out of the room and the black girls were straining to get a look at her. I heard the black girls buzzing comments back to each other about how their men wouldn't take their ears from the walls, wouldn't settle down, acted like little boys,...all cause there was white people jumpin each others bones in the room nextdoor. And for that! That little strut dog bitch momma on a motorbike! At first I didn't understand what was going on
and then some of the guys walked to their doorways with super wide smiles. Then I got the picture..........we had been their evenings entertainment. So, I signifed. Their women weren't even amused with me/us but the guys thought we were a smash hit.
And to think their men would rather listen to our fun and noise than make some with their lovely ladies was beyond me. Maybe they just didn't want to get their hair mussed. Those girls must have worked for days to get hair and makeup together and look so fine for that Jazz Fest. As I was starting the bike I heard one of the women say, Zola Mae almost got them license plate. I pretended not to hear but I had my answer for where the reflector went. As we drove off toward Dayton, I thought....well those girls deserved a souvenier from the Jazz Fest and a sexy story to tell when they got home! I could get new reflectors in Dayton for cheap.
eDJ
boy eDJ do i have a story for you! i'd be reluctant to tell it except this is an "anonymous" forum. I only hope the girl i was with doesn't belong to it too
.
First i want to respond to some of the other posts real quick. As for being a beginner, this was the second girl i ever ate out, so i sure as hell was nervous about whether i'd please her or not. I knew what my first girl enjoyed; i knew it like a poem i'd recited so many times before. But what works for one doesn't work for all, as you can tell from so many posts on this board. But all that doesn't mean i wasn't gonna give it a try. I was just lucky i was successful. As for the smell and taste, that's something that one must deal with, but i was talking about a girl who was ready and willing without me even thinking things would go so far that night to go down on me, not knowing if i was sweaty and smelly (that is quite a sweaty region that can become just as odorous as the female crotch), and she simply seemed surprised that i'd ask if she'd want me to do that. Not surprised that i'd ask rather than simply going down south, but surprised that i'd even consider going down at all. For guys that are skeptical, i have to tell ya, the benefits of doing this far outweigh the smell (i've never smelled a bad one) or taste (which i'd describe more as tangy rather than foul or anything like that). I just like knowing that i am giving her such pleasure that she can hardly control her body. It's a great thing. So basically my original post was kind of a poking hint to those reluctant guys. Just trying to tell them it is worth trying.
Now on to the story that eDJ must be so eager to read about
We (a good friend of mine [refered to here as my date] and i) were at a formal ball that night, held in a Marriott. The custom at these balls was that after the dinner and ceremony part, there would be dancing and partying. The partying always takes place in rented hotel rooms since most of us aren't yet 21. Knowing that we'd be partying I had paid in on the cost of the room with one other guy and his date.
So that night my date and I drank a little, went down to the ball room and did a little dancing, and checked out the party scene in some of the other rooms, but none of it was all that exciting. So we retired to our room for a bit, figuring we'd drink a little more of our stash and check out the parties again. I decided to get a little mood music going, and it turned out to be the perfect thing to slow dance to. As the song was ending, i slowly sat down on the bed and pulled her to me. This was the start of some passionate kissing. Our first kiss basically, and it went on for a good five minutes, until we heard the key in the door and my roomie and another couple coming in. When they walked in we just sat on the bed trying to look as innocent as possible, being very quiet and avoiding incriminating eye contact. One of my two friends dates finally realized what had been going on and took it upon herself to get all of them out of there and give us back our privacy. By this time I thought my date was so embarrassed about being walked in on that we'd simply go to bed and call it a night. We did get ready for bed, and got under the covers. But then we start to kiss again. Practically picking up right where we left off. I was having a great time feeling our bodies intertwine and caress each other, I'd fondle her breast or suck and nibble on it gently while caressing the rest of her body, and it was all very passionate. But i didn't know where it was going. I didn't know how far we were going to go since this was our first time being intimate. Then to my utter surprise she slowly made her way down my body, pulled out my member and started giving me head.
This is only the second girl i've ever been this intimate with, and the first was so unwilling to give me head that my dates actions caught me totally by surprise. But it was quite enjoyable. After a while, I got the urge to intervene in her passionate exercises and try to reciprocate some of the pleasure I had received. I started by doing a little bit of petting, but was rather eager to ask if i could eat her out. As I've mentioned in my original post she seemed quite pleasantly surprised that I wanted to do this. I worked my way slowly down her body, ignoring no sensitive spot along the way, nibbling on her neck, then suckling her breast, slowly moving down to her navel getting ever closer to her netherregions. I then teased her a little bit, starting off outside her pjs and panties, wiggling my nose and doing a little nibbling. Then the PJs came off (it had been a while, so i was a little worried my roomie might stop back by any time, but simply kept going anyway). Keeping our possible time constraint in mind i just pulled her panties aside and started licking around the outside of her pussy and working my way around, finally licking up the middle to the clit, giving it a little tease when i got there. By this time she was already moaning and spasming with pleasure. I continued to tease, circling around the clit and then giving the whole thing a nice lick, moving back to circle around some more. As she seemed to be getting a reasonable amount of pleasure from this, I wanted to see how much more intense it would get if i started sucking the clit and the lips around it. At that she started bucking and moaning even more wildly. She was so wild by this point that I wasn't sure whether I had perhaps made her cum by this point, but she wasn't telling me to stop, so i kept on, and slipped a finger into her vagina as i kept on licking and sucking. It just seemed to keep getting more and more intense. Finally she settled down and seemed to be thoroughly content, so i collapsed on the pillow beside her, worn from my labors. We still hadn't been disturbed by our roommates. We continued to make out, and then she decided she'd finish the job she had initially started on me, going down on me once again. As i was feeling that I was practically on the verge of orgasm, we heard the key in the door again. we rushed to get back under the covers and make it look like we were sleeping, but it was obvious that we had not been sleeping at all. And thus ended this wild night, the first (and hopefully not the last) night I'd spend with her.
And I have it from a second friend who plays a confidant to both myself and my date for that night, that I got stellar reviews from her about my night. And considering he was making references to me performing cunnilingus when I hadn't even planned on telling him that part, at least some truth was in it.
I think for anyone mature enough to be sexual that a conscious effort to be reasonably clean for their lover isn't too much to ask. Most girls I've known simply love the sent of my cock when it smells of the light fragence of bath soap. If nothing more that the association of it with cleanliness. I also keep a bottle of orange musk cent cologne which I dip a cotton swab into and place small swipes in certain areas to make myself a bit more inviting. Usually down from the base of my neck to my cock and around to my thighs with some under my balls.
(what the guys don't understand here the girls will) Then I liberally use my green aftershave on my face after shaving.
The use of both sents renders me attractive in public and arousing in private. Try it yourself...but don't tell your sweetie, just let her discover it for herself and see if she is even consciously aware of why she yurns to lead you off to a more secluded place.
If you have been in a relationship with a woman for awhile, you may find the more natural sent of her sex arousing....as I do with mine. Just the thought of her on a warm summer full moon lit night and imagining her taste on my lips would set me howling for her. Still she will likely want me to be fresh smelling. Most women are attracted to a guy who is clean and has only began to prespire just a little. Surveys and polls I've read suggest this is high on their list. When you think of it a fresh bathed guy who takes them in hot foreplay will begin to create his scent.....the kind that they are so sensitive to. Something to keep in mind.
eDJ
I think for anyone mature enough to be sexual that a conscious effort to be reasonably clean for their lover isn't too much to ask. Most girls I've known simply love the sent of my cock when it smells of the light fragrance of bath soap. If nothing more that the association of it with cleanliness. I also keep a bottle of orange musk scent cologne which I dip a cotton swab into and place small swipes in certain areas to make myself a bit more inviting. Usually down from the base of my neck to my cock and around to my thighs with some under my balls.
(what the guys don't understand here the girls will) Then I liberally use my green aftershave on my face after shaving.
The use of both scents renders me attractive in public and arousing in private. Try it yourself...but don't tell your sweetie, just let her discover it for herself and see if she is even consciously aware of why she yurns to lead you off to a more secluded place.
If you have been in a relationship with a woman for awhile, you may find the more natural sent of her sex arousing....as I do with mine. Just the thought of her on a warm summer full moon lit night and imagining her taste on my lips would set me howling for her. Still she will likely want me to be fresh smelling. Most women are attracted to a guy who is clean and has only began to perspire just a little. Surveys and polls I've read suggest this is high on their list. When you think of it a fresh bathed guy who takes them in hot foreplay will begin to create his scent.....the kind that they are so sensitive to. Something to keep in mind.
eDJ
i think its kinda liek how we care about how our sperm will taste for a girl.
Some people do some people dont.
Personally i knwo alot of guiys who wont it a girls out cuse its " nasty " ... but i know alot of guys who love to do it.
I also know girls who like givin head and i know girls who wont give head.
Its a large world out there with many diffrent typed of people, but as a whole ( from my knowlage) girls getting eattin out is alittle more rare then guys gettin head.
It also could be that the girl never was eaten out before or was once told by someone that they wouldnt do it.
Anyway man good luck!
just re read my message sorry about that its late lol
ya your right, I know alot of girls are worried about their smell and taste and wont let guys do it to them.
Hmmmm, I'd really like to hear more of the juicy details here and suspect others would too. Hearing about first time oral
pleasures with new partners is always a turn on. It would be helpful in developing the ambience for others here too and stimulate some comments. Please do tell more.
What had the two of you been doing in the time before you
starting having oral sex? Where were you at when she began doing it to you? Home? Car? Outdoors? Did you have any idea she was going to do it? Were you where it was secure and safe or was there a tense element of potential danger lurking where you might be discovered?
I'm just sitting here enjoying imagining the two of you in passions grip.
Personally, I've always wanted to give to my lover. I've only had a couple to be embarrassed by my desire for oral with them. I liked to tease them and tell them that because they were so very special....I just had to make an exception. Talk about a suprised and delighted reaction! I also enjoyed teasing them into saying those naughty things they wouldn't dream of asking a guy. Things such as, I want you to eat my pussy, or honey I'd really like it if you ate me out. These, in my experience, are words most girls would run like hell from or sit and giggle themselves silly with embarrassment thinking about it. Where I have my fun is whispering in their ear that that's what I want to hear from their lips and then taking their earlobe in my lips and rapidly flicking it with my tongue to simulate their clitorus..........that is until they tell me these things I wish to hear them say......and then I please them. Quid pro Quo! You would be suprised how long you can play with them and high you can build the arousal in this way.
eDJ
I don't agree with a lot of girls are worried about their smell. Most girls out there want it because they know that they're more than likely going to get pleasure out of it.
I really think it's more of a guy thing. Guys are worried about the smell and the taste (because lets face it, when we pee, sometimes the pee trickles down) and so for the most part are much more reluctant to it.
Some guys will even go as far as asking us to wipe with a rag before they go down on us.
So my theory is she was surprised because she's probably been told to whipe or been told no because she wasn't "clean" or been told something like "that's not something i do"...or something along that lines.
There are also a lot of guys out there where the thought doesn't really cross their mind. They're just interesting in them getting a blowjob and them getting to the screwing. They don't understand that girls need a little (or you know, a lot of) foreplay.
Really, I don't think the smell is THAT bad, I mean, unless a woman hasn't washed in days, then there shouldn't be too much of a problem there. I never noticed any bad smell coming from there.
The real problem is the taste I guess. I don't know about others but I was very disappointed when I did oral to my girlfriend to find that she tasted so foul. Of course I wasn't expecting her to taste like cinammon but still, that made the experience pretty unpleasant for me. I know she likes it so I just shut up and keep with it but if a guy asks me whether a woman tastes good down there, I will be sure to answer negatively.
So, part of the reason why so few guys do it is by fear of what other guys told them. Fear of not being good enough at it might be another issue. I'm just a beginner so I guess you shouldn't pay too much attention to my ranting.
i do have to say that for the most part the girls i have gone down on dont smell or taste bad. i have eaven asked a cupple girls how they do it most have said they do not maintan. outhers have told me storie of buying products or cutting vingger bottles up. but i have gone down on a few and smelled a smell like a fungus in the back of a worm frezzer i then politey move on. telling them is up to you. but do you really want to spoil this achevement?