Okay so me and my girlfriend have been experimenting alot. Basically just following our urges. and so weve moved into oral, and things like that. But one thing she wants me to do is to rub my penis against her clit. Now i really want to do this, but i dont really want to have to wear a condom. Im willing to wear a condom for sex and stuff, but I dont want to have any if were both not ready. I dont want our urges to get the best of us, and we do something we regret in the morning simply because we had the right "equipment" for it. So i figure if we dont have it, we wont be tempted too. But what i would like the know is the risk simply too much without a condom, like for pregnancy since theres precum and its close to her vagina?
Mon, 07/02/2007 - 20:46
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Dumb question but still
1. If you are this close to intercourse, you should be equipped. Either or both of you may not be able to stop.
2. Any time a penis is within a foot of an unprotected pudenda, the penis should be sheathed. Semen all over the entrance is not much different from semen inside.
3. You want vaginal spermicide (jelly, film, foam, sponge, suppository) in her before you enter even with a condom on.
Take Brandye's advice, I had one young lady diagnosed with + pregnancy since she allowed her bf to "come on her" (all over the vulva). Was she lying? Nope she was 13 w/an intact hymen. Condom & spermicides!
Alright thanks Brandye and sera
[QUOTE=sera300;185209]Take Brandye's advice, I had one young lady diagnosed with + pregnancy since she allowed her bf to "come on her" (all over the vulva). Was she lying? Nope she was 13 w/an intact hymen. Condom & spermicides![/QUOTE]
Scary!
Plus how crappy would that be to have already gotten prego at 13 and technically not even had sex!!! :eek:
Plus, like Brandye said... you are talking about "urges" and such...and things can just slip on in sometimes if you get too caught up in the moment.
Yeah you guys are right. Me and my g/f talked about it today, and we decided it would be best to have them. Even if we arent going to have sex now. Thanks for all the help. This website has helped me quite a bit haha