Hi there! My bf gave me a little pink duck as a gift. Very cute :-) It's actually my first toy. Most vibrators look scary to me, so I was very happy with the looks of this one. But it appears to be a sort of wolf in duck-disguise ;-( I think it vibrates way too hard: it either hurts or numbs :-( And I miss that warm, kinda soft feeling I get from fingers (and other body-parts ;-)) A real turn-off... My quest for a nice toy continues :-) So girls (and guys with toy-loving gf's ;-)), any advice?
Mon, 03/22/2010 - 16:19
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Duckie
If you prefer no toys as I do, do not use them.
Ha, ha! :-) It's the first toy I've tried. And like everything in life I may not like it one way, but do like it the other ;-) Saying I do not like dogs, shouldn't mean I do not like having a pet at all, does it? Maybe I will come to that very same conclusion as you did. But first I want to experiment a little more. And since a lot of girls have toys, maybe I could learn from the experience of others, before simply buying another toy :-)
And if you'd ask me: why?
1) simply because you can. It's exciting to try new things (even makes you a more happy person, that's scientifically proven :-))
2) The thing that attracts me is the way a toy can 'move' for you. I actually had my first orgasm while my bf was stimulating me. I learned to do it myself months after that (weird maybe, but good weird ;-)). But I miss that more relaxed feeling you get and would like to achieve it, without my bf being there. (all the women who are independent, throw your hands up at me!!! :-))
PS: my English may look funny sometimes, for it is not my mother tongue. Hope I've lightened up you're day with a smile :-)
try putting the toy on some soft fabric then to urself