Recently, me and my girlfriend had a long really great sex. She seemed like she was really in it and really turned on by it. But towards the end, I pulled out to take a quick breather and i went to go put it back in. She was almost completely dry. I told her I cant push back inside her because of how dry it is. Her response was well she cant have a ton of orgasms, that she had alot already.
My question is why was she so dry if she had so many orgasms? My worries are that she is lying to me about having the big O. I have only saw traces of her orgasm one time almost 6 months ago. The other times we have had sex, it just didnt feel or appear any different from beginning to end. How can I tell if she truly had an O?
It happens. Lubricant, buddy, use some lubricant.
As to she can only have one, well, she might be thinking that but it may not be true. The more confortable she is with her sexuality, the more orgasms she can have - usually.
Thanks for your posts. Makes me feel a lil better about it. In the case of taking the breather, it was a few seconds so I didnt think she would dry up that fast. demonbuttercup hit it on the head with saying you start out really wet but get dry in the end. Thats exactly how it is with her. She starts off really wet and gets dry in the end. And toyfairy had some good points too because she is affected a lil by the info you gave. So maybe she is having orgasms and I am doing good, its just reaching her limits.
this happened to me - my boyfriend pulled out and then he went to go back in a few minutes later and we struggled. we just got a little bit of lube and it was all good :)
There really isn't one "true" indicator... all women are different.
Also, not all women get "wet" when they orgasm.
Plus, if you've been having marathon sessions of sex... a woman can only produce so much lube. Some women have no prob... and are wet constantly. Me.. I start out really wet... but after awhile of thrusting, it does start to wear off.
There are many reasons that a woman can experience vaginal dryness.
*Stress of all kinds causes incidents of vaginal dryness. Statistics prove that 95% of all women suffer from occasional vaginal dryness because of stress or low estrogen days. Any woman can have low estrogen days at any time and therefore suddenly experience a lack of available moisture before intimacy.This applies to women of all ages, from 15 to 85.
*Women who suffer from eating disorders often have hormonal imbalance which can result in vaginal dryness.
*Women taking certain medications such as antibiotics can affect hormonal function and moisture production in the vaginal area.
*Women athletes or women who excercise extensively often disrupt their hormonal cycle which can result in incidents of vaginal dryness.
*The Pill and the sponge reduce vaginal moisture
*Any illness such as eating disorders causing hormone imbalance causes vaginal dryness, discomfort and pain during intimacy
* And plain and simply alot of women often experience dryness after having an orgasm.
But in your case you said that you pulled out for a "breather" and she was dry when you went to go back in. Well you stopped and she wasn't being stimulated any more. She needs stimulation to keep producing that wetness. Alot of women often have that dry feeling after sex in general. Not to forget that during any marathon sex you should be using a lube. All that thrusting in and out will aid in the dryness. My advice...use lube.
From my own masturbatory experience I can assure you that there are all kinds of ways to enjoy an orgasm, wet or dry. Sometimes I can come (through clitoral stimulation) without getting wet at all. I'm not really sure why sometimes I get wet and sometimes I don't, and I prefer not to worry about it. With a partner I just make sure that there is lube around, and I do my best to let him or her know that my wetness is not an indicator of how much I'm enjoying myself. I second the advice above: get some lubricant and don't sweat it.
I perfer AstroGlide myself.