My gf and I did that for awhile before we had sex, but we haven't done it since then.

what exactly are you doing?

whenever my boyfriend and i first got together i was a virgin(he wasn't).. and he started the dry humping.. at first i thought it was kind of uncomfortable.. and the more we did it the more comfortable i got. i liked it a lot.

we've started having sex since then, and on occasion whenever we cannot have sex for parental reasoning, etc. [i'm 16 and hes 19.. so parents tend to be around on occasion] we still do it.. and i think that it's awesome.. i love it whenever he's hard and i can feel the hard-on through his pants on my genital region.. it makes me want him even more, sometimes.

Dry humping is more a joke to me than anythign else. It serves to provide comedic relief to sexual things...(we don't have sex yet).

sometimes me and my boyfriend use it as foreplay, i LOVE it

lol...

so how excactly (i have no clue, so i might as well ask) do you "dry hump"

like, do you have all your clothes on, get in a cuddle position, and then the guy sticks his penis around the labia majora area, and then "humps"???

basically you get into either missionary or reverse missionary and grind you hot spots together

so basically what i said, eh?

i personally never got into it. He would start doing it, but i was nervous so i would stop him. But i guess now that we have had sex [first time was two nights ago] it will just kinda turn into something normal.... i wouldn't know, only done it once so far.

I wouldn't ever think of "Dry Humping" what do you get from it? I can see the intimacy bit, anything else? perhaps sexual pleasure?

[QUOTE=sweetchaos]i personally never got into it. He would start doing it, but i was nervous so i would stop him. But i guess now that we have had sex [first time was two nights ago] it will just kinda turn into something normal.... i wouldn't know, only done it once so far.[/QUOTE]

Co-sign
i hardly got any pleasure out of it. first time my boyfriend tried to do it with me was when we got together, i told him i had condoms...i know it was a little forward but i felt a little awkward having him on top of me doing whatever, you know what i mean...perhaps one of the previous posts is right saying that this method works best when one or both partners have naver had penetrative sex...

Yeah true, but I'd rather just have sex, don't mean to sound arragant (if that's the word) but I personally don't see any benefits from it

i think many people use it as foreplay...but no - no dry humping for me... :)

:p Does/did your BF used to like Dry Humping?

i dont like calling it 'dry humping' it sounds like something dogs do to each other, ya know? I always called it grinding...well, yea- grinding...
Is that right? But it's fun to do like, if the girl is having technical difficulties *ex-her period*

[QUOTE=Sweetness12]i dont like calling it 'dry humping' it sounds like something dogs do to each other, ya know?[/QUOTE]

Yeah when i first heard it my frist thought was my mates dog humping my leg... thats why i wouldn't want to do it, but supose it could be worth a shot, just doubt my partener would be up for it lol.

lol yea i kno what u mean...

thats how me and my bf do it right know cause im 16 and he's 19 and my parents hate him and im still a virgin..so thats the best way to do things right knwo.

more than one "my bf is 19, and I'm 16" person on one thread... I find that kind of weird for some reason...

anyways, there HAS to be a better name for it... as when I hear of "dry humping", I think of a dog dry humping your leg or a guy dry-humping his sofa...

I never personally tried it before, but for first-timers I bet it's pleasurable to an extent.

what about "sliding"..idk..im just thinkin' of better names.

"Hot Grinding"
"Truck Driving"
"Dough Kneading"
"Not-So-Dirty Dancing"
"Making Fictional Babies"
"Lawn-Mowing"
"Sub-dividing"
"kentucky-frying"
"Hammered but not screwing"
"Post-marking"

Find your favorite and have your pick. :rolleyes:

in the begining of my relationship with my boyfriend we dry humped...but we moved on to other stuff and we don't do that anymore:( ... i want to because it turns me on... i like to tease my boyfriend:D ... and when we dry hump... he cant stand it!:D

hahaha now i am not going to call it that...it does sound like a dog humping your leg or something like that

my girlfriend loves it and prefers it over me masterbating her because she says its quicker. she gets alot of pleasure out of it but i assume thats her runnbing her clit agains my penis or stomach. who know, we have not had sex yet though

I did this with my ex-girlfriend before we started having sex. I was a virgin, and even then I didn't get any "pleasure" out of it. I enjoyed it, but it was the thrill rather then any sort of feeling.

i LOVE dry humping! (horrible name..i agree)..i am not a virgin and would definitely prefer to have sex, but dry humping can be a fun part of foreplay. perhaps if you don't hit just the right spot you might not get any pleasure out of it? i've always found that if you get the right position/angle it can be extremely enjoyable

ya sometimes it is better then the real thing with my partner i do it all the time to tease then i i make him wait for a long time and when we actually do have intercorse it way better

ok ppl try dry humping wiht silk panties and silk boxers mmmmm

yea that sounds sensual

With regards to dry humping from the original post: [QUOTE]but i was just wondering what you guys thought about it. I personally think it can be very intense, and I like it. I mean if you are in the right position, it can be pleasuable for both of you. and im a virgin and so is he, so i think its a better way to learn more about eachother before we do take the next step and have sex. I mean if you already have had sex, it probably doesnt effect you the same way it does to someone who hasnt yet. I was just wondering if anyone else thought the same thing as me.[/QUOTE]

I had the same experience as you many years ago dating as a teenager. I found grinding, as others prefer to call it, was very pleasurable especially since I hadn't had intercourse. The girlfriend that introduced this to me also enjoyed it. She taught me alot and knew how to get me hard. She would start by having our legs intwined and she would rub me with her thigh and I would rub her crotch with my thigh. Then she would straddle me and put her pussy right on my hard cock and we would hump while continuing to make-out. We did this with our clothes on and it was a pleasant introduction to what sex is. We usually stopped before I ejaculated. But there was one time that we got grinding and neither one of us wanted to stop. I had my hand down her pants feeling her ass through her panties which was a turn on for both of us and we were grinding away. We were panting so hard we couldn't even kiss. I think we both had an orgasm at the same time. I felt myself release and shoot cum all over my underpants and at the same time she let out one last gasp. I enjoyed the feeling of my cum on me and how good it felt to have her bring me off. I knew she was into it because I could feel wetness on her panties, so we both had to change when we got home. We stopped dating awhile after this or I think it may have lead to more great times. But the few times we would make out after that, we both enjoyed the chance to cum by grinding. She would let me slide my hand down her pants and feel her bare ass under her panties. With her letting me play with her tits, feel her ass, and teaching me how nice it was to ejaculate from grinding, I really did enjoy the sexually part of our relationship even though we never did have intercourse. But we went our seperate ways and that we were happy we stimulate each other so well. I'm just sorry I never got to finger her or that she never gave me a hand job. That was probably next if we had kept seeing each other.

When dating my wife, we found we also enjoyed grinding each other. We were virgins and were waiting until we were married for intercourse. The grinding was very nice but also made it hard not to f**k each other. She had some guilt feelings about this and the fact that we got to touching each other so much. But we would be laying on each other kissing and one of us would move a little and touch the right spot and we would just keep going and keep grinding. So it made it hard not to get naked and f**k each other. So it was a good introduction to sex for us and once we got married, the humping through clothes stopped. But we had a hard time not touching and stimulating each other other ways. She enjoyed me running my fingers over her bush and insert my fingers in her. She also loved to rub my hard cock with her hand. Usually it was through my pants. She got brave enough once and reached under my pants and grabbed it. The first time she did this she made me ejaculate. It was the first time she had ever held a hard cock in her hand and then to have me cum, it was great for me, but a little strane for her. But she enjoyed handling my cock and so she would reach in and give me a little rub. But I don't remember her ever getting me to cum again until after we were married. It was many years after we were married that we did the dry humping thing again. We sometimes will grind on each other but it is usually in the nude. She likes to grab my cock and use it to stimulate her clit sometimes.

Once having intercourse, dry humping isn't as good as the real thing. But it sure was fun doing it while dating.

I suppose you could call it outercourse. I think its rather underrated actually. I enjoy it, and sometimes it can be better than penetrative sex. I remember one time doing it doggy style, and we were both surprised at how pleasurable it was. She was getting a lot of stimulation from friction against her clitoris, while she was reaching back with her hand and stimulating me at the same time. Wow, what a feeling!

[QUOTE=gratefullydreaded;137206]I dont really like that name for it, idk why, i couldnt think of another name to call it haha. but i was just wondering what you guys thought about it. I personally think it can be very intense, and I like it. I mean if you are in the right position, it can be pleasuable for both of you. and im a virgin and so is he, so i think its a better way to learn more about eachother before we do take the next step and have sex. I mean if you already have had sex, it probably doesnt effect you the same way it does to someone who hasnt yet. I was just wondering if anyone else thought the same thing as me. peace~[/QUOTE]

I enjoy it so much!!! It always ends up in my foreplay somehow. It'll start when we make out and he'll be over me or vice versa. Then somehow everytime we will end up in a position where I'm grinding up against his thigh or his hard cock in between my legs (with clothes on). It's great!! I don't know why anyone wouldn't enjoy it. I would say it was because they weren't comfortable enough with eachother, so they felt funny doing it.

But whatever.. I LOVE IT!

What I do is have her sit on me, and we rock back and forth and she pushes her crotch into me, while I do the same. Gets virgins to want to have it. lol

I personally like it a lot, it can get you extremely turned on. Feeling a mans erection against you, begging for entry is a major turn on!

i agree, a great foreplay before sex. haha public kind is the best cause it's "secret" lol
i did this a lot before i was ready to have sex and my ex and i used to do it when we would watch a movie/tv (let me tell you - we never got through a freakin movie! )

Did any of you guys ever end up being embarrassed by a wet spot in your pants from grinding/dry humping away from home? Did any of you ladies ever make your bf cum in his pants where other people might have seen the wet spot?

[quote=Justsomebody;228330]Did any of you guys ever end up being embarrassed by a wet spot in your pants from grinding/dry humping away from home? Did any of you ladies ever make your bf cum in his pants where other people might have seen the wet spot?[/quote]

Women notice those wet spots...and we take them as a compliment.

Long ago when first sexually active, yes, one b/f had ejaculated in his pants--all we did was cover it until he could change clothing.

My boyfriend and I have recently started dry-humping. Actually we went to the beach with my family yesterday and once the parents had gone to bed started dry humping on my couch. I don't really advise it when you have a sunburn on the backs of your legs though.

For all you girls out there, be careful when you're in the superior position on a really soft couch so you don't crush him!!

[QUOTE=Justsomebody;228330]Did any of you guys ever end up being embarrassed by a wet spot in your pants from grinding/dry humping away from home? Did any of you ladies ever make your bf cum in his pants where other people might have seen the wet spot?[/QUOTE]

Back when I was dating there were a few times she made me cum from dry humping me. It was generally at her house so I only had to make my way out to the car without her parents seeing. There wasn't much of a wet spot I thought once but when I got home it was bigger than I thought. Guess it was a good thing I didn't go into the store for anything. She did notice the wet spot a few times after she had made me cum. I also felt her wet spot on her panties after some dry humping. The best time was when we had dry humped earlier one night but I hadn't cum. It still made both of us horny and as we were kissing good night we started to grind agains each other as we were standing kissing. She was so horny that she reached down and started to rub my cock through my pants which she very seldom had done. Before long she had my zipper down and reached in with her hand and grabbed my cock. This was the first time she had ever handled my cock directly and she just pumped away until I just had to cum. It surprised her to feel my cum squirt in her hand and all in my shorts. She had a big smile on her face from it however and was excited she had made me cum like that. I was glad to feel her soft hands on my cock and cumming made it just so much better. We still did dry hump after this.

my boyfriend likes it kinda, its a turn on but not as much as it is for me...

i love the feel of him being hard up against me.

Its strange i against to call it dry humping it sounds so... gross. But infact is very erotic for me... (im not a virgin and neither is he, we have had sex but still dry hump every now and then... i enjoy it )

i totally agree with the name issue... but me and my boyfriend normally do it whenever we hang out.. we are both 15 and our parents get in the way so its basically the closest we can get.. in my opinion, i like it alot. once we get into it, it's like we cant stop... i feels sooo good!

Don't do this much now that I'm married, but when dating it was a fun activity. The first time of just laying on a girl and feeling her curves and body next to mine was exciting. feeling my hard cock against her body was simply great. The first time the actual grinding occurred I was hooked on this. We were making out on the floor and she was laying on top of me with our legs in between each other. She them moved her leg so she was spread eagle and her pubic bone was right against my hard cock. Then she started to move her hips and I joined in with her movements. We got to panting so hard we couldn't even kiss any more it felt so nice. We were wearing levis so the next day I was a little sore, but didn't mind it at all. We started grinding like this on a regular basis until we stopped dating. I loved sliding my hand down her pants and feeling her ass move as we enjoyed the grinding.

When dating my wife, we started to do this also. It was new to her, but she really enjoyed it and I did too. Our first time we had been out on a date and were all dressed up. I had on some nice slacks and she had on a long dress. She was laying on me and I had my thigh right on her pubic area. I started to move my leg a little bit and it pressed just perfectly on her pubic bone. She started to move her hips and I kept moving my leg and flexing my muscle so she had something firm to rub against. I enjoyed the feeling of her pubic area against my leg and she got some great stimulation from this and she could feel my hard cock agains her thigh also. The next time she put her pubic bone right on my cock so she could have better stimulation. It worked for me also. It was much nicer to do it with different clothes on than levis. She was good at this and feeling her sliding against my cock especially in a dress and the sliding was nice and smooth. She is the first one that got me to cum in my pants and then after that I think she took it as a compliment if she could get me to cum and see the wet spot as I left.

We really enjoyed this as part of our sex play before marriage even though we never had intercourse until after marriage. I guess this helped us to keep from having intercourse before marriage which we both wanted. The closest we came though was one time we were making out. I had her pants off and shirt and bra. She was just down to her panties. She had taken my shirt off and unbottoned my pants and had been playing with my cock. She didn't like it that she was down to just her panties and I wasn't so she pulled my pants off and then took off my underware so I was totally nude. I was just laying on the couch with a nice big hard cock and gazing at her in just her panties. It was such a nice site to see her like that and to be nude in front of her. She then climbed on me and we started to grind away. The feel of her nice silk panties on my hard cock was great. That fabric for women's panties is nice for this type of action. We had a great time and she got to feel my cum on her stomach when I released. As she got up, her panties were nice and wet from her juices and she had my cum on her stomach and all over mine also. I think that if she hadn't got me to cum, I probably would have had her panties off before too long since I had my hands under them on her ass as we were grinding on each other. It would have been so easy to slide them down at that point and then it would have been penis in vagina after that.

From the sounds of it, I guess than that most guys have dry humped and ejaculated into their pants with somebody somewhere along the way. I would even guess that some "virgins" have done this. It certainly isn't the same as getting naked, having real sex and sleeping together naked all night but you can't always do that, right?

If you're in a semi-private place where you can get away with some dry humping but you can't get naked, go for it and don't worry about the wet spot in his pants.

I'm guessing that some people that "wait for sex" will still dry hump.

His boxers/briefs and his pants would be a crude form of protection if you don't have any other, right?

Anyway, making out would seem to be a good reason for guys to wear loose boxer shorts when dating rather than tighter underwear (even though you ladies seem to like boxer briefs). Yeah I know guys will get off just fine in briefs or boxer briefs but boxers make more sense there.

i have my hood pierced. so dry humping for me is great, but by me grinding on my husband and his hands all over me, i can usually have a clitorial orgasim. which is fine because once he does insert in me all my focus can be on him.