Alcohol is the greatest sexual suppressant there is. It may make some people less inhibited and, therefore, will ing to engage in sex but it suppresses the repsonse in both sexes. If you are having "plenty of sex," why would either of you want to mess it up?
ok, so having alcohol in her system will not make the sex feel any better to her? i know she gets really horny whenever she has had some drinks. I just want to know what to expect. Cause i don't want to do it and it not be better for her. you know?
spot on about the "less inhibitions" thing....two things can happen, she may want to try other positions or techniques by having some of the edge of caution rubbed off...the downside is that depending on how many drinks, they might let the diligence of birth control slip...don't change that part of the deal at all !!...it's in your own best interest and you'll be more on the worry free side...:)
Thanks for that tidbit of the effects on birth control cause she is on birth control and we dont want that fortress to fall! So definitly dont want that. But my question has not been answered. Dont worry about inhibitions that is no problem. i am just curious about weather the sex feels better for her.
oh, well that sucks. I guess it would become something to please me then. but i researched and i didnt find anything saying birth control is affected. Thanks for the help. is there anything to does heighten senses? i have heard weed does. but im not trying to get into any drugs. so i guess that is a no.
I think Luvs meant that like if condoms were your BC method, then you might not be as likely to use one, or forget totally, or put it on wrong..etc.
Alcohol itself doesn't lessen the effects of BC pills,... pretty sure :P
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup]I think Luvs meant that like if condoms were your BC method, then you might not be as likely to use one, or forget totally, or put it on wrong..etc.
Alcohol itself doesn't lessen the effects of BC pills,... pretty sure :P[/QUOTE]
When I drink, it definitely makes me horny. I have heard that alcohol is a suppressant - but I find if I don't drink TOO MUCH, I don't feel that way at all. For sex to be good - I'd say I can only drink 2-3 beers tops. Anything beyond that, if I am too drunk, just makes me uncoordinated and by the time we get to the bed I am feeling numbed and ready to pass out.
The thing about "drunk sex" for me is, that I have a really hard time orgasming from it. The sensations feel incredible - maybe it's that lowered inhibition thing, or maybe something else, I don't know. But it takes a lot of work for me to be able to actually orgasm from sex then. I still enjoy it and it still feels really good for me though. My BF and I have done some crazy things while drunk.
It's better if you are not so drunk either. My BF has a hard time staying hard when he's been drinking a lot. Usually he will drink as much as I do, or less, (or not at all) if we are planning to have a fun night afterwards.
Let me assume the question isn't about alcohol, it's about "heightening" sexual feelings.
Forget alcohol, weed, pills, drugs.
Look inside yourselves and each other... it's all in there - in your hearts and minds... and bodies (which are equipped to do some wonderful things LOL). Just get everything working together... you'll be surprised where you can go.
Alcohol is the greatest sexual suppressant there is. It may make some people less inhibited and, therefore, will ing to engage in sex but it suppresses the repsonse in both sexes. If you are having "plenty of sex," why would either of you want to mess it up?
ok, so having alcohol in her system will not make the sex feel any better to her? i know she gets really horny whenever she has had some drinks. I just want to know what to expect. Cause i don't want to do it and it not be better for her. you know?
spot on about the "less inhibitions" thing....two things can happen, she may want to try other positions or techniques by having some of the edge of caution rubbed off...the downside is that depending on how many drinks, they might let the diligence of birth control slip...don't change that part of the deal at all !!...it's in your own best interest and you'll be more on the worry free side...:)
Thanks for that tidbit of the effects on birth control cause she is on birth control and we dont want that fortress to fall! So definitly dont want that. But my question has not been answered. Dont worry about inhibitions that is no problem. i am just curious about weather the sex feels better for her.
Actually Brandye answered it...booze is a suppressant...so you / she won't have any heightening of senses...it actually dulls it....:p
oh, well that sucks. I guess it would become something to please me then. but i researched and i didnt find anything saying birth control is affected. Thanks for the help. is there anything to does heighten senses? i have heard weed does. but im not trying to get into any drugs. so i guess that is a no.
I think Luvs meant that like if condoms were your BC method, then you might not be as likely to use one, or forget totally, or put it on wrong..etc.
Alcohol itself doesn't lessen the effects of BC pills,... pretty sure :P
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup]I think Luvs meant that like if condoms were your BC method, then you might not be as likely to use one, or forget totally, or put it on wrong..etc.
Alcohol itself doesn't lessen the effects of BC pills,... pretty sure :P[/QUOTE]
thanks that is what I meant...:)
When I drink, it definitely makes me horny. I have heard that alcohol is a suppressant - but I find if I don't drink TOO MUCH, I don't feel that way at all. For sex to be good - I'd say I can only drink 2-3 beers tops. Anything beyond that, if I am too drunk, just makes me uncoordinated and by the time we get to the bed I am feeling numbed and ready to pass out.
The thing about "drunk sex" for me is, that I have a really hard time orgasming from it. The sensations feel incredible - maybe it's that lowered inhibition thing, or maybe something else, I don't know. But it takes a lot of work for me to be able to actually orgasm from sex then. I still enjoy it and it still feels really good for me though. My BF and I have done some crazy things while drunk.
It's better if you are not so drunk either. My BF has a hard time staying hard when he's been drinking a lot. Usually he will drink as much as I do, or less, (or not at all) if we are planning to have a fun night afterwards.
Let me assume the question isn't about alcohol, it's about "heightening" sexual feelings.
Forget alcohol, weed, pills, drugs.
Look inside yourselves and each other... it's all in there - in your hearts and minds... and bodies (which are equipped to do some wonderful things LOL). Just get everything working together... you'll be surprised where you can go.