my boyfriend stayed over last xmas and new year. one morning we woke up and i asked him how he slept. he relied that he dremt that i left him with his close friend and made sure to rub it in...he was still hurting even after we woke up.
i really don't understand what brings such dreams into our sub-consience and why we feel sad or happy once awake just as we do in our dreams...
that happened to me once also.....i dreamt of a friend of mine (who i dont even meet coz he lives abroad) and anyway i dreamt that i was flirting wit him and stuff and eventually i kissed him......the amount of guilt i felt wen i woke up was incredible....it felt as though i had cheated on my bf and i was feeling so bad and scared it meant i dont like him (my bf) any more or sthing....but then i told myself its just a dream and its hard to decipher your subconscience!!
i got one where i was gay for like a 3 second period. man, what a nightmare. (it was the dream itself that made it horrifying...not all of the gay part.)
and then ive seen girls do things and dang..what dreams!?!?
one night i dreamt that i had a child with the girl i'm currently dating. the dream skipped ahead in time, and the little boy was a couple years old when i had a little girl, and soon after that another little girl. It was a crazy dream, where my mom was with us a lot lending a mothering hand with my gf, and it was just joyful times all around. It was a great dream, and it's not only a sleeping dream, since that point it's become a daydream of mine as well, but at the time, it woke me up and kind of scared me that my subconscious was thinking that far ahead, because so far in this relationship i've tried to maintain a "que sera, sera" attitude about the future and try to simply enjoy the present.
Anyway, what made the dream crazy was that after my girlfriend woke up we were laying together and i must have gotten a funny look on my face when i was thinking about the dream i had, so when she asked what was up i told her about it, capping off my story by saying it had been a shocking dream. So my gf asked me if i wanted to be any more shocked. After i replied affermatively she was like "how far apart were the three kids? because i had a dream earlier tonight that i was loading a boy and two younger girls into a silver minivan after soccer practice (or some event)". wow, same themed dreams from each of us. I don't want to hope too hard to save myself from massive disappointment, but that's a dream i'd wish would come true a few years down the road.
Dreams are of the unordered mind... involuntary and irrational chemical reactions that we sometimes enjoy, sometimes hate, and too often manage to make sense of! We really do not "choose" our dreams... when they're good it's great to enjoy them... when they're "bad" it's best to dismiss them.
[QUOTE] I don't want to hope too hard to save myself from massive disappointment, but that's a dream i'd wish would come true a few years down the road.[/QUOTE]
havn't read all the replys but don't look to her for answers but yourself. a dream is generated entirely in your own mind only you hold the key. more than be about what she might do it is about what you are worrying about
What it means to me is that you have an active and vivid imagination upon which to base some pretty steamy fantasies.
Don't take it all that seriously and play it for what it's worth.
my boyfriend stayed over last xmas and new year. one morning we woke up and i asked him how he slept. he relied that he dremt that i left him with his close friend and made sure to rub it in...he was still hurting even after we woke up.
i really don't understand what brings such dreams into our sub-consience and why we feel sad or happy once awake just as we do in our dreams...
that happened to me once also.....i dreamt of a friend of mine (who i dont even meet coz he lives abroad) and anyway i dreamt that i was flirting wit him and stuff and eventually i kissed him......the amount of guilt i felt wen i woke up was incredible....it felt as though i had cheated on my bf and i was feeling so bad and scared it meant i dont like him (my bf) any more or sthing....but then i told myself its just a dream and its hard to decipher your subconscience!!
i HATE those kind of dreams.
i get em, you get em, we all seem to get em!
i got one where i was gay for like a 3 second period. man, what a nightmare. (it was the dream itself that made it horrifying...not all of the gay part.)
and then ive seen girls do things and dang..what dreams!?!?
crazy dream story:
one night i dreamt that i had a child with the girl i'm currently dating. the dream skipped ahead in time, and the little boy was a couple years old when i had a little girl, and soon after that another little girl. It was a crazy dream, where my mom was with us a lot lending a mothering hand with my gf, and it was just joyful times all around. It was a great dream, and it's not only a sleeping dream, since that point it's become a daydream of mine as well, but at the time, it woke me up and kind of scared me that my subconscious was thinking that far ahead, because so far in this relationship i've tried to maintain a "que sera, sera" attitude about the future and try to simply enjoy the present.
Anyway, what made the dream crazy was that after my girlfriend woke up we were laying together and i must have gotten a funny look on my face when i was thinking about the dream i had, so when she asked what was up i told her about it, capping off my story by saying it had been a shocking dream. So my gf asked me if i wanted to be any more shocked. After i replied affermatively she was like "how far apart were the three kids? because i had a dream earlier tonight that i was loading a boy and two younger girls into a silver minivan after soccer practice (or some event)". wow, same themed dreams from each of us. I don't want to hope too hard to save myself from massive disappointment, but that's a dream i'd wish would come true a few years down the road.
Dreams are of the unordered mind... involuntary and irrational chemical reactions that we sometimes enjoy, sometimes hate, and too often manage to make sense of! We really do not "choose" our dreams... when they're good it's great to enjoy them... when they're "bad" it's best to dismiss them.
[QUOTE] I don't want to hope too hard to save myself from massive disappointment, but that's a dream i'd wish would come true a few years down the road.[/QUOTE]
and i say, good luck to you :)
havn't read all the replys but don't look to her for answers but yourself. a dream is generated entirely in your own mind only you hold the key. more than be about what she might do it is about what you are worrying about