The other day my boyfriend and i were going to have sex a 2nd time (that day)... and once he got it in, it felt really wrong. I was thinking he was just at a bad angle or something, maybe just hitting something the wrong way. Well, we decided to wait til the next day to try again. we tried, and it still didnt feel right. i dont know what it is. theres nothing in me that should be in the way, and when he fingered me he said nothing felt weird. I don't know why this happened. but im waiting out a couple days to do anything. any one have any idea? anything like this happened to anyone else?
Fri, 06/24/2005 - 23:58
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dont know why
hmmm. this happened to me when i first started having sex, a couple of years ago. you may have a sensitive cervix, as i did. this caused bleeding for me almost every time we had rough sex. Make sure he goes down on you before you have sex, get good and ready and try getting on top where you can influence the level of penetration. after my first time of the day, i can feel slightly sore and not want to go another round. also, make sure your bf has trimmed nails. if he is fingering you, he may be giving you small cuts that you dont notice when you are aroused but which start to hurt when you calm down. maybe one finger instead of two for foreplay, or just oral. hope this helps!
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