hey I need help for some ideas. I dont have as much sensual pleasure when I have sex. there is sometimes little to no pleasure. its like putting my penis in a pot of nuke warm water. and after an hour or so I give up because I am too tired. I get best results doggy style but am wanting more. I am thinking I am the opposite of most guys cause I dont finish soon. one girlfriend called me her marathon man cause I dont cum b4 she does. anybody know anyway I can fix this? 
Mon, 09/26/2005 - 22:22
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Don't cum soon enough
I don't know if you're with only one woman/man or what your situation is...but if the parts don't fit snugly together, you might not get a whole lot of sensation. You can always make a tighter fist around your penis, but not a tighter vagina. And if a girls isn't that good at giving head or isn't rhythmic or aggressive, good luck getting off....and that, i think, goes for anyone.
If you jerk off a lot you may have caused your penis to become desensitized. When masterbating you can control the grip the speed the intensity to get off but it is difficult for your partner to acheive the same. Jerking off less often may help the penis regain some of its sensitivity so normal oral or vaginal stimulation may be sufficient to get you off.
ok this time I think I can help
yes I do know that this is really wierd for me to help, not be annoying, and not ask a question in the answer.
Some people do not get aroused from oral sex and even some people don't get stimulated by penetrative (anal, vaginal) sex.
If the latter is the case try both, and some more foreplay.
well I read up on the retarded ejaculation and I can say that is not the problem. it isnt that I have fears of ejaculating or trauma or anything like that. its that when I masterbate then I can finish in like 10 minutes. but i cannot feel oral sex. the stimulation is not there. and for the sex act itself it is sometimes no stimulation for me and that I feel is the reason I cannot ejaculate. I think I know the problem I need help for the cure.
Yea but too long can be bad too
I mean if its lasting like 45 min to an hour of just constant thrusting.
Both people get tired and the woman can get sore
Look up info on "retarded ejaculation"
Thats sometimes what its referred to.
I think you should do nothing about it - it's good that you don't finish to soon!
And, if your g/f already finished, ask her to make you pleasure with hands or mouth... You know, very few girls don't like long sex.
My b/f finishing in few minutes, average 5, i think.. that's not enough for me, thanks god he knows that, and he helps me finish with fingers or tongue
there is no way to change it that i know of--you let me know when i'm rambling--but at least you dont black out due to yhe intensity of the orgasm like i sometimes do... hey shiny money...blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and oh yeah BLAH!!!
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