Would you rather be dominant or submissive?
Do you like having that control over someone or would you rather be the one being controlled?
I'm still trying to figure out my preference but I think I'm leaning more toward dominant with some submissive tendencies. 
To me, it all depends on my mood... Sometimes I like to run the show, other times I like a good head shove down to the crotch area. I don't like it when a guy can't swing with my mood, though!
Remembers the days of her furry handcuffs. Now I just have plain ol' handcuffs but still gets the job done.
I like to be submissive but so does my bf so we just kinda tend to switch round. I'm all for submissive tho! Bring on the furry handcuffs!!! Ahhh bondage!!
Hey, I like claws, go for it! Game on...
Hey...wanna say hi to my friends?
*sharpens her claws and whispers "hello my dear friends"*
ssssssslapppp!!!!!!!
Sorry... just testing!
I'll join you, but on condition they're not free of the right bodyfluids...
Wierdly enough, while I like to stay in control of a lot of things, this is one area where I'm very submissive. Just no hard spankings
They are always clean, if you don't wanna join you don't have to, I can call Tessie or Finewine...
As long as youhave a clean pair on Yeta!!!
I'm taking you up on that invite yeta!
Spank me once, shame on me
Spank me twice shame on you
Spank me three times and wowwee!
Party in my pants all are invited!
I don't go as far as the "tying up" or the whole "master/slave" thing or stuff like that.
But I guess I'm a little bit of both really.
Sometimes there's nothing more that I want to do than just grab ahold of his shirt and push him back into the wall and kiss him passionately (which I have done once before...). While there's times I just want him to grab ahold of me and kiss me passionately (which he has done before too).
But my body on the other hand, doesn't always want to do what my mind seems to want to do.
Like I know he'd love it if I pushed him down on the bed and just started slowly undressing him and kissing him all over as I did it.
However, my body just doesn't seem to allow me to do it and seems to want to be more submissive to him.
So yea. I'm a bit of both.
Mind is domineering while my body is submissive. lol.
Sometimes I think I enjoy giving even more than I enjoy taking.
Hey I give as well as I take!
[QUOTE=Quote (Jaybee @ Feb. 18 2005,17:33)]Hey, nothing wrong with a WILLING master, or slave.
Jaybee.[/QUOTE]
LOL, Jaybee...
Nope, nothing wrong with it... it's just not for me. I don't take being ordered around very well. My hackles tend to rise... even if I KNOW that it's pretend. And being a "master" and having to make all the decisions and give orders is just too much like work...lol.
Hey, nothing wrong with a WILLING master, or slave.
Jaybee.
Of course there's nothing wrong with it. It's just whatever you're into. I was just saying that it's not really what I meant when I say I'm being dominant or submissive.
I didn't think you were putting down my topic. I just didn't want to come across that I was into the master/slave thing when I'm not. After your post I realized that I may have not been as clear as I should've been.
[QUOTE=Quote (iamawesum69420 @ Feb. 18 2005,10:07)]What I meant by dominant or submissive isn't so much like telling someone what to do or being told what to do. More of which one just takes charge. Maybe a better word would be aggressiveness.[/QUOTE]
Hi Iamawesum,
I hope I didn't sound like I was putting down your topic. I probably just have a hang-up about this particular subject. I've run across guys who want to be VERY dominant, and some who are so submissive that it really is almost that master/slave thing. Both are turn-offs for me.
Then, too, in gay terms, dominant/submissive has connotations of who does what to whom. For me, the perfect relationship is equal and versatile. I like Finewine's description of give and take.
Ha ha... i seam to find myself tied up a lot recently.
I gotta go to bed now though.
G'night all!!
Never any fun you party pooper!
Good night and sweet dreams!
Dream of us and what is to cum my love
Just to warn you I'm very good with ropes so once you're tied down you're not getting loose until we decide so.
Oh Alspals, sounds like you are in for it now. Hope you don't need a potty break....
You have fallen to my licking, feeble man. Do not worry many have and will, you are not alone.
Plus side, awesum is here to help me tie you up and lick you!
OK ok you have sold me on the idea (didn't take a lot did it!!)
We should tie him, he likes it, trust me.
PLease don't make me fantasise too much!!! I am male, i am feeble!!
Not too feeble for a licking of a life time...or are you?
I'd love it if you took my whip and used it on me. And don't worry about hurting me. I love to mix pain with pleasure.
I was supposed to go to bed about half an hour ago... your too good at distracting me.
They only way you're getting to bed is if we tie you down to it.
I think that you like it when I am Dom of you? You need to be tied up again?
How about I bend over so you can give it a little slap.
Oh, you know that I love to spank, so you get ready and then ready Alspals for his...
Very obliging, I appreciate that!!! I hate being left out.
And I'll feel Alspals up so no one's getting neglected.
I will feel up iamawesum's ass, and Alspals crotch
They will be envious, but that is nothing unusual...
I will feel up anyone, but Alspals, I am waiting for him to feel me up...
Maybe you just need to take his hands and put them where you want them.
Well, Yeta can feel Iam up, i can feel Yeta up... and all Yeta's colleagues will be wondering what she's doing getting all frisky at work!!
I NEED to be felt up. No sex in over a week and I'm going crazy.
Ha ha, well I know you likke to be dominant with guys, so i am waiting for you to feel me up!
Well, that was days ago!
That is true, but it's not my fault you don't feel me up more often...
Hey, buddy you have done more than feel my mellons.
IBusiness? I always like to check out the goods before i buy!!
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