Howdy all, im new to the forums, first post, bear with me ^.^
Anyways, my gf and i have been dating for 6 months and about 4 weeks ago had sex for the first time. We've usually done it about twice over the weekends since. (so roughly 7-8 times)
My problem is with doggystyle. We can never seem to get the position to work at all (as in i cant get inside her). We're just kinda curious to see how the position feels, but we cant do it. To me, it just seems like an impossible angle.
I have about 5 1/2 inches erect with a slight downward curve, and it always seems like where her vagina is, is almost straight up and down, so it's very hard to even try and get inside her.
Just wondering if it's a common problem for couples or not.
Also, as i've read with a few posts while looking through the forums, i also have to problem of slipping out on occassion. We mostly do it missionary style, and when i slip out, i can't seem to find her again to continue, she always has to help me inside her. Would more foreplay help make her vagina a bigger target for me, and if so, any suggestions to what i should do?
Thanks in advance, i've enjoyed reading how everyone is helping each other out here.
Howdy! and welcome to the forum. Interesting situations.
> I have about 5 1/2 inches erect with a slight downward curve
> We mostly do it missionary style, and when i slip out, i can't seem to find her again to continue, she always has to help me inside her.
The usual answer is that "you" know how long your penis is and can feel where it is, so, if it nears the opening you should be able to sense this. The probable problem is that "we" become so engrossed in what is happening we do not pay any attention. The fix is to save part of our brain function for this. Now, having said this, so what if you slip out? No harm no foul. There is nothing wrong with her slipping you back in. As for you, well, follow your finger. Place a finger at the entrance and move your penis to your finger and then inside.
> Would more foreplay help make her vagina a bigger target for me, and if so, any suggestions to what i should do?
Nope, don't think so.
What more foreplay will do as with more making out (kissing and caressing) predeeding this will do is to cause both of you to become much more turned on.
As for suggestions, devote no less than half an hour to making out, longer within reason if time permits. Do not rush to each other's breasts and genitals. Doing so bypasses a very crucial and important part of the process.
> My problem is with doggystyle. We can never seem to get the position to work at all (as in i cant get inside her). We're just kinda curious to see how the position feels, but we cant do it.
Please do an advanced search using the name "Brandye" and the key word doggy. You can also do a search on the Board as well as by searching GOOGLE for helpful information.