hi everyone,
I am new to this site and discovered it while i was looking for info on having sex from behind. I would love to try this position with my wife, although she does not know it yet.
So how do I talk her round and what is the best body positions for us to adopt while trying it out.
Poste this earlier in the wrong section ( newbie)
Check out the sex positions part of site regarding Rear entry and also articles,threads & posts on this subject.Doggy doesn't have to be just anal sex,i like vaginal sex from behind & i find that i experience stronger orgasms this way.Have a heart to heart with your wife and explain how you feel whilst also listening to her and respecting her reasons why she doesn't like it from behind.
You might try just asking her if she'd like to try it.
[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260561]Check out the sex positions part of site regarding Rear entry and also articles,threads & posts on this subject.Doggy doesn't have to be just anal sex,i like vaginal sex from behind & i find that i experience stronger orgasms this way.Have a heart to heart with your wife and explain how you feel whilst also listening to her and respecting her reasons why she doesn't like it from behind.[/QUOTE]
Thanks raunchy gal. I was'nt thinking of anal - dont think I would fancy that. We did try doggy before but couldnt manage to get in. I thought maybe we had adopted a bad position to allow me to enter so I wondered if there was a good position for our bodies to begin with. I want to get this in my head first and then talk with her.
You may find it necessary to gently part her labia with your hand and use lots of lubricant.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;260595]You may find it necessary to gently part her labia with your hand and use lots of lubricant.[/QUOTE]
Thanks for your avice EvilKitten :D
Don't know if this works for everyone, but perhaps it's worth the try :)
Position the penis between the inner labia, somewhere just past the clitoris. Hold your penis and then start slowly stroking towards the vagina, keeping constant contact between your penis and her vulva. As you apply (very)mild pressure, it will have no choice but to sink in, when arrived at destination :)
Good thing about the stroking is that it too automatically spreads mucus and/or spreads out added lube. To me; this also helps me 'opening' up to him. I've noticed when he starts 'poking' around softly along the edges of the vagina, muscles will tighten up. Being 'tight' feels good when he's already in there, but makes it hard to get it in ;)
O, and a little patient may help as well! ;) Keep up experimenting, cause every position gives you new sensations. Have fun!
[QUOTE=RedRoses;260618]Don't know if this works for everyone, but perhaps it's worth the try
Position the penis between the inner labia, somewhere just past the clitoris. Hold your penis and then start slowly stroking towards the vagina, keeping constant contact between your penis and her vulva. As you apply (very)mild pressure, it will have no choice but to sink in, when arrived at destination
Good thing about the stroking is that it too automatically spreads mucus and/or spreads out added lube. To me; this also helps me 'opening' up to him. I've noticed when he starts 'poking' around softly along the edges of the vagina, muscles will tighten up. Being 'tight' feels good when he's already in there, but makes it hard to get it in
O, and a little patient may help as well! Keep up experimenting, cause every position gives you new sensations. Have fun![/QUOTE]
Thanks Red Roses,
Your expert advice worked a treat again and again and again:eek:. You should write books.:):):)
I adore doggy style. I start on all fours with my knees close to the edge of the bed and my husband standing. Depending on your heights, her knees can be spread more, or your knees bent a bit.
[QUOTE=Crystalline;261236]I adore doggy style. I start on all fours with my knees close to the edge of the bed and my husband standing. Depending on your heights, her knees can be spread more, or your knees bent a bit.[/QUOTE]
Ooh we must try that. We did it with both of us standing and her holding the edge of the bed. I am taller than her so I guess she will need to spread my knees a little more when we try your method.
[QUOTE=ludaje;261235]Thanks Red Roses,
Your expert advice worked a treat again and again and again:eek:. You should write books.:):)[/QUOTE]
Your welcome! I'm not actually an expert, but I'm glad to help. Hope you two have lots of fun! :) There's so much to do varieting this position. There's an excellent sexpositionsguide on this site as well, descriptions and 3D animations included. In case you haven't seen it: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml
[QUOTE=Crystalline;261236]I adore doggy style. I start on all fours with my knees close to the edge of the bed and my husband standing. Depending on your heights, her knees can be spread more, or your knees bent a bit.[/QUOTE]
My bf and I like this, as it makes it easy to manipulate the heightdifferences. Which makes it also easy to manipulate the angel of penetration, hitting all those hotspots inside me :rolleyes:
Since I am taller than him, when both on the bed, I'm usually pressing my legs as far apart as I can and curling my tailbone way up. Glad to be doing yoga :rolleyes: Though it may seem complicated, I must say it makes it worthwhile, cause he can totally lean over, I can feel his warm body against my back, him breathing in my ears and kissing my neck... It was very funny when we did it standing first time: ha, ha! But oh, did it feel good! I get all of that plus his hands wondering along the front of my body. Amazing! :o
Glad it worked for you and the missus,hope this is the first of many pleasureable doggy moments.
[QUOTE=raunchy gal;261241]Glad it worked for you and the missus,hope this is the first of many pleasureable doggy moments.[/QUOTE]
thanks
me too:)
[QUOTE=RedRoses;260618]Don't know if this works for everyone, but perhaps it's worth the try :)
Position the penis between the inner labia, somewhere just past the clitoris. Hold your penis and then start slowly stroking towards the vagina, keeping constant contact between your penis and her vulva. As you apply (very)mild pressure, it will have no choice but to sink in, when arrived at destination :)
Good thing about the stroking is that it too automatically spreads mucus and/or spreads out added lube. To me; this also helps me 'opening' up to him. I've noticed when he starts 'poking' around softly along the edges of the vagina, muscles will tighten up. Being 'tight' feels good when he's already in there, but makes it hard to get it in ;)
O, and a little patient may help as well! ;) Keep up experimenting, cause every position gives you new sensations. Have fun![/QUOTE]
yes this defo helps!!