Hello once again, I'll get straight to it: A girl and I were about to have sex and she wanted to have anal, however, everytime I tried to put it in her it would not fit. So we tried vaginally and once again, I couldn't fit. (AND by not fit I mean, it would hit her and would start to bend)
Now here are the need to know facts:
-My penis is roughly 7" long and 6" in diameter (about average)
-She is about 4'9" tall and only around 90 lbs. (if that)
-She has never had vaginal intercourse
(She's 20 BTW, I'm not a petafile)
Now, I came to the assumption that it was one of two things: She was either too small OR my erection wasn't as hard as I needed (even though it was hard enough to stand up on its own). I don't know what to make of this situation, as I have never heard of not being able to fit before. Any tips, advice, or facts on the situation would be greatly appreciated! Thanks.
Well, was it as hard as it normally would be? Was there foreplay, fingering, oral, etc?
I believe it was...there where times (during putting a condom on) that I would start to lose my erection, but otherwise, I felt as hard as ever. And yes, we did have foreplay (mainly on her-rubbing and fingering to be exact). I mean, should it bend at all when fully erect? Or perhaps maybe my erection wasn't as hard as it needed to be.
When you fingered her, would you say she seemed "loose" enough to be able to take you in? If so, then I would guess maybe some positioning issues, or perhaps a slight loss of erection.
When i was fingering her, i could only get one finger in before she would complain that it was too far (and my penis it roughly a little wider than three of my fingers). But i see where your coming from with positioning problem...that very well may have been a factor.
I'm gonna guess that since one finger was too 'big', then your penis would probably not be ready to get there at that time. I can see some possible problems. Is this person someone you see often? If so, next time maybe you could try a bit more foreplay, to really get her excited and able to take it? (I get "looser" as my excitement builds, in the sense that I can control the muscles better.)
try lube, the first time i tried to have sex it didn't really work, so we bought lube and it slid in sooo easily