so i am witht this girl, and have been for sometime now
but when we went to have sex, she wasnt very loose, and it wouldnt fit
we tried a few times, and it just wouldnt go in,
what should i try?
Sun, 01/15/2006 - 03:00
#1
doesnt fit
You may experience that the first few times you try to have sex. I happened to me 3 times. I eventually got a good enough lube and a dildo about the size of him and worked myself till I was able to fit the dildo without any problem.
You could suggest the same for her or perhaps start with something small and then have her work her way up to your size.
Lots of foreplay ... and plenty of lubricant.
Try stroking your penis between her labia without trying to insert. It will keep you aroused while stimulating and preparing her (as in getting her aroused and wet) - and should you both feel like trying, you are in the exact place you want to be to succeed in penetration.
Most important ... enjoy the petting without worrying about getting in and the problem will resolve itself - honest!
KY Jelly. once you squeeze it in it will be a perfect fit for ever.
my dad has a saying,
if it dont fit dont force it,
eeeeeeeease it.
lube lube and more lube and a tender touch i reckon!
ut dont take my word for it