So I have been single for awhile and have been using my vibe on a regular basis. It now occurred to me that this use may make it harder to have orgasms from sex. Any input on this would be appreciated, thanks
I am a woman in my 30s
Sun, 06/07/2009 - 01:15
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Does a vibe make it harder to cum with sex
As it pertains to a male or female?
An inquisitive mind wants to know.
LOL, sorry I will clarify, let me know if there are any other details I left out
Some women think so. It is not that a physical dependency develops so much as we find the vibrator so efficient and time saving.
Although I have used vibrators, I generally do not. I guess that I had so much fun with my own two fingers for so long that I have stayed with those. I recently discovered that my sister was given a Sybian (long, long story). I have had a few goes with it. THAT is habit forming.
I rely on toys for most of my clitoral orgasms, but I have always had a really difficult time with that (even before I used toys). I can however reach a G spot orgasm easily with out a toy. Not sure why though:confused: lol everyone is different i guess;) but If you were able to climax from sex without a vibrator before, I'm sure you will be able to again : ) Maybe try ditching the vibe a few days before hand. Hope this helps :D
Thanks ladies! I have gotten spoiled by the vibe. 5 min or less to an orgasm. In 15 min I can have 3 or 4, its quite habit forming but not nearly as satisfying as having someone else to play with.
This depends on how you do it, i often use inflatable dildos and its not that hard for me to have orgasm, maybe because i'm taking some libido enhancers and boosters to have a more intense sexdrive.