I'm confused, I don't think i'm a Lesbian, I'm not attracted to any of my friends who are girls, but sometimes i'll look at girl porn, but not all the time. Does anyone have any idea if this means i'm a lesbian or not?
Wed, 01/10/2007 - 21:00
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Does this mean I'm a Lesbian..
I'd really appreciate someone answering this because I am quite confused.
I don't feel that being turned on to female porn is an indicator of sexual orientation...being a female myself, I enjoy watching it with my bf since when I watch it I imagine all he & I doing the same or what is going on being done to me. I am turned on by all porn in general, I do not find female porn disgusting; meanwhile, I have no inclination to try a female/female relationship nor am I attracted to women. I am definatley not a lesbian but enjoy it the same. Follow your instincts.
Thank you very much. :) THat's how i feel .
I think in part as to why...my first experience ever seeing porn (magazines, etc.) was when I was a kid and the guys I hung around with had pics. As I got older (I am 41 now), the majority of porn was all female. Until about 10-12 years ago I found some good porn which was male/female & mixed. A few men thought it a bit odd that I would watch female/female w/them. But it does not turn me off. I see a female or a male and I can admire their beauty and looks but my sexual attraction is only to men. I have no desire to participate in a female/female encounter. I don't think this is too unusual...I think all different viewings of sexuality can be arousing, including group...but I have no interest myself in participating...
I read an article once that women are turned on by porn depicting all types of sexual orientation (including gay porn), while guys can only be aroused by the type of porn that best reflects their orientation.
As for me being a straight girl, I find lesbian porn to be hotter than regular straight porn. But even then I'm picky.
Those are all very interesting points you all made. It has cleared my situation up a lot. I never knew that most women look at all types of porn.
id have to agree with roxy
Since you aren't turned on IRL by females then chances are you are not lesbian. Pornography is not real - it is just various images. Only real life counts. So if not, then you aren't.
[QUOTE=lilmissvixen;162544]Those are all very interesting points you all made. It has cleared my situation up a lot. I never knew that most women look at all types of porn.[/QUOTE]
Just to clarify, "most women" probably don't have any interest in porn of any kind. In general, they're simply not as visually oriented as men.
True enough ua3222 and that 'most women' would include me. I'm far too busy doing it, figuratively speaking, to have time to watch/look at it.