For what it's worth, there are several hymen structures women can have. Some are a simple ring like tissue around the opening of the vagina. They are open in the center.
More complex ones are weblike and are more difficult to break thru. With some a tampon can render it gone. With others
I doubt a girl could get a tampon thru it.(without going to see her gynecologist)
I once tried to have sex with such a girl in college. I couldn't penetrate her. She felt like a failure. I was afraid I'd broken my cock. So, I found the medical library on campus and did some research in the late evening. I found this book which showed the various structures and xeroxed it to show her.
She told me she had never used tampons and was probably so tight because of all this. I had her in position to give her oral a few nights later and asked her if I could look in with a flashlight. She went along with it and I was able to find the picture of the one which looked most like hers to show her.
She didn't feel so bad then once she realized what the reason was for it. She went to see her gyno and got some help later. Her attempts to make a joke of it were fun as she called herself the girl with the built in chastity belt, or the armor plated cherry. But she's able to have sex and enjoy it now like any other girl.
I just mention this as few people know much about it. I didn't.
Think about if you took a cherry (the fruit) and popped it? it'd probably make a red mess. I think that may have been where the pop her cherry term came from
It's just more commonly heard that a guy "popped her cherry" with his penis.
But there are other ways of "breaking" it. Tampons, masturbation, fingering, etc. Even being active in things like sports at an early age can wear the hymen away. Most girls these days don't really have one anymore due to sports and tampons and whatnot.[/QUOTE]
its already been mentioned
sorry...call me crazy but im not an expert on hymen breaking... i didnt know girls broke it with tampons... thats why they say you learn something new everyday eh?
It's just more commonly heard that a guy "popped her cherry" with his penis.
But there are other ways of "breaking" it. Tampons, masturbation, fingering, etc. Even being active in things like sports at an early age can wear the hymen away. Most girls these days don't really have one anymore due to sports and tampons and whatnot.
Wow... that's a great story, eDJ. I wish all couples could communicate that way!
For what it's worth, there are several hymen structures women can have. Some are a simple ring like tissue around the opening of the vagina. They are open in the center.
More complex ones are weblike and are more difficult to break thru. With some a tampon can render it gone. With others
I doubt a girl could get a tampon thru it.(without going to see her gynecologist)
I once tried to have sex with such a girl in college. I couldn't penetrate her. She felt like a failure. I was afraid I'd broken my cock. So, I found the medical library on campus and did some research in the late evening. I found this book which showed the various structures and xeroxed it to show her.
She told me she had never used tampons and was probably so tight because of all this. I had her in position to give her oral a few nights later and asked her if I could look in with a flashlight. She went along with it and I was able to find the picture of the one which looked most like hers to show her.
She didn't feel so bad then once she realized what the reason was for it. She went to see her gyno and got some help later. Her attempts to make a joke of it were fun as she called herself the girl with the built in chastity belt, or the armor plated cherry. But she's able to have sex and enjoy it now like any other girl.
I just mention this as few people know much about it. I didn't.
eDJ
Think about if you took a cherry (the fruit) and popped it? it'd probably make a red mess. I think that may have been where the pop her cherry term came from
ahh right... sounds kinda painful, lol
thanks anyhow
Yea, it doesn't really "pop". It tears.
The coined phrase is just "popped her cherry".
I doesn't actually make a popping sound. Its a piece of skin. You know b/c its painful and it usually bleeds.
oh ye, i saw that, i meant like 'how' u know? why does it "pop"? if that makes any sense, heh
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Nov. 01 2004,22:48)]yup.
It's just more commonly heard that a guy "popped her cherry" with his penis.
But there are other ways of "breaking" it. Tampons, masturbation, fingering, etc. Even being active in things like sports at an early age can wear the hymen away. Most girls these days don't really have one anymore due to sports and tampons and whatnot.[/QUOTE]
its already been mentioned
oh right... ouch! how does it break? (lol im sure i think i have an idea ;) )
It's that piece of skin at the opening/outside of the vagina.
If you've ever heard the term "popped her cherry", that's what someone is referring to. Breaking the hymen.
lol sorry to be stupid, but what is a hymen?
sorry...call me crazy but im not an expert on hymen breaking... i didnt know girls broke it with tampons... thats why they say you learn something new everyday eh?
yup.
It's just more commonly heard that a guy "popped her cherry" with his penis.
But there are other ways of "breaking" it. Tampons, masturbation, fingering, etc. Even being active in things like sports at an early age can wear the hymen away. Most girls these days don't really have one anymore due to sports and tampons and whatnot.
If a girl can break her hymen with a tampon, I'm sure a guy can break it with his fingers.