When my ex and I were together, she got her first sex toy. She was really eager to let me user it on her. It was incredibly hot, both using it and watching her play by herself.
I absolutely love to watch my wife use a dildo on herself. It gets her to cum extremely hard. After shes done "priming herself" I get the pleasure of giving the real thing to her. Its great.
The idea of my wife using a dildo on herself is a very pleasent one. We have tried a very innocent looking vibrator to stimulate which was thouroughly enjoyed by my wife but i do not think she would use a dildo-how does one go about introducing one?
Introduce the idea of a dildo to your wife. She may want to, but not share the idea with you, for the same reason you may care not to share it with her. In a considerate way, you can ask her if she cared to try out a new toy. Explain to her that you think the idea is pleasant and turns you on. Should she say no, then give it some time and allow her to make the call. remeber, one doesnt get, what one doesnt ask for. Good Luck
I have tried this over a period of the last year, not persistant to the point of annoyance though, maybe every 3rd month. I have also brought up the idea of a remote operated egg-this seems to excite her but she stills says no! Do I go off and buy one and then gauge the reaction? I dont want her to think anything other then it excites me to think she is being turned on and I have something to do with it. (Even if it is allowing her to have her own "private" fantasy about what is going on down there!)
My boyfriend and I have used a variety of toys together and the experience is always fun. Even if he's not really in the mood he will help me by doing a little work upstairs while I use my vibrator downstairs. Although, sometimes this can lead to him getting a bit more in the mood. So I guess my point is that sex toys are fun so never be afraid to use them. I just wish I knew of a sex toy store closer to where I live. :(
My husband found a USB dildo that he can hook up to my lap-top, and "direct" the action from his computer! We are interested in getting one; it's around $179...but we already have the "Cadillac collection", so this would be an addition to our collection. We also both use them, he loves it when I use my strap-on on him. It's kinky, but it's within the realm of "normal" to us.
Never tried a dildo, but I enjoy watching my g/f finger herself. Maybe I should suggest a dildo sometime.
hmm i would love to use a toy on my bf
my husband likes to watch me give him and my dildo a bj.
When my ex and I were together, she got her first sex toy. She was really eager to let me user it on her. It was incredibly hot, both using it and watching her play by herself.
I absolutely love to watch my wife use a dildo on herself. It gets her to cum extremely hard. After shes done "priming herself" I get the pleasure of giving the real thing to her. Its great.
The idea of my wife using a dildo on herself is a very pleasent one. We have tried a very innocent looking vibrator to stimulate which was thouroughly enjoyed by my wife but i do not think she would use a dildo-how does one go about introducing one?
Learning,
Introduce the idea of a dildo to your wife. She may want to, but not share the idea with you, for the same reason you may care not to share it with her. In a considerate way, you can ask her if she cared to try out a new toy. Explain to her that you think the idea is pleasant and turns you on. Should she say no, then give it some time and allow her to make the call. remeber, one doesnt get, what one doesnt ask for. Good Luck
I have tried this over a period of the last year, not persistant to the point of annoyance though, maybe every 3rd month. I have also brought up the idea of a remote operated egg-this seems to excite her but she stills says no! Do I go off and buy one and then gauge the reaction? I dont want her to think anything other then it excites me to think she is being turned on and I have something to do with it. (Even if it is allowing her to have her own "private" fantasy about what is going on down there!)
Was wondering if any one has an opinion on my previous post? Should I surprise her with a purchase of an intimate toy-remote or not?
I don't think it could hurt. Worst case would be it stays in the drawer, unused...
My boyfriend and I have used a variety of toys together and the experience is always fun. Even if he's not really in the mood he will help me by doing a little work upstairs while I use my vibrator downstairs. Although, sometimes this can lead to him getting a bit more in the mood. So I guess my point is that sex toys are fun so never be afraid to use them. I just wish I knew of a sex toy store closer to where I live. :(
Thanx Traylblazer.
Thats what I thought, funny how sometimes we just need some reassurance.
As a woman ... I prefer women-owned sex-positive shops ... like www.goodvibes.com :)
My husband found a USB dildo that he can hook up to my lap-top, and "direct" the action from his computer! We are interested in getting one; it's around $179...but we already have the "Cadillac collection", so this would be an addition to our collection. We also both use them, he loves it when I use my strap-on on him. It's kinky, but it's within the realm of "normal" to us.