I thought that I would open a discussion to get men and women view of a question.
This was brought up to me and now I think about it every time my husband and I have sex.
He watched porn alot as a teen but hasnt watched in about 10 years.
While we are having sex he likes to watch what is going on in all places. I was told that men ONLY do that b/c it reminds them of porn.
My husband is a romantic person and rather corny sometimes and he says that it is b/c it is a beautiful thing that we share together. I dont doubt that but I still wonder.
What do you think?
Newwife


Your hubby watching--not unusual b/c men, in general, are turned on by visual and women are more turned on by emotion.
I'm a girl and I like watching. It's soothing and hypnotic. In out In out In out In.............you are now getting horny.:D
Men are visually oriented and have ALWAYS watched - others enjoying sex, porn, whatever - makes no difference. Some men do not bother with pornography and some men are heavily into it but pornography exists because men like to watch and not the other way around.
I'll have to agree with your hubby, I'm a visual learner so it quite intrigues me to watch when I can, especially in doggie, there is something awesome going there and I don't want to miss it :)
I'll agree and say that men are definitely visual creatures! They LOVE to watch, and while many, if not most men enjoy porn, they MUCH prefer the real thing.
So, the more accurate comment would be, Men enjoy porn, because they like to watch - rather than the other way around!
i dont think men like to watch because of porn.......i think men love porn because they like to watch.....there is a difference.