Nothing wrong with being a bi-sexual. as long as u dont cheat on your partner it doesnt matter what sex they are.

my best friend is bi and I think that there is absolutley nothing wrong with that. In fact I love how she is bi because she says it is that and a totally perverted mind (hey kinda like me except I am not bi) so she lets me grope her boobs. I support gay marrige, the right for gay and lesbian couples to adopt a child, and I believe the president who shall remain nameless is not doing enough in the wake of hurricane Katrina and that the No Child Left Behind plan is a load of crap (I had to suffer through it for 5 years!) you reserve every right to do and be the person you want to be. No matter what the politicians and the Bible says.  

another thing is I have heard stories of where they make an agreement that the can have sex with the same sex from time to time and can still keep thier marrige sound and also some stories about where the man will ask the woman and her partner masturbate infront of him (hell thats what I would do, and that is why the picture--I think its called an avatar hehe I am not as good at English and sometimes have to use an online translator--is Miroku, the perverted monk!)

[QUOTE=Quote (xXxIrAsLaDyXxX @ Sep. 08 2005,00:44)]I am getting married on the sixteenth of this month to a man i am bisexual and yes he knows and excepts this but like you said i am what i am[/QUOTE]
Congratulations! I hope you have a long and happy marriage.

Of course, it isn't wrong. Gay, straight, or bi... it's all natural and it's all good.

You are what you are. What could be wrong with that? I have no bi tendencies, but I don't think it is wrong for you if you do.

Let me ask you some questions.

Do you think you'll ever marry? If so, would you be more likely to marry a man or woman? Why?

Take care.

um, a well DUH!!! NO I do not. lol

1. I don't think there is anything wrong at all with being bisexual.

2. I don't believe that all people have a little bisexual in them. Let me explain:

I do believe that sexuality is more of a scale than a simple straight/gay/bi sort of categorization. I believe that there are many people that are 100% straight or 100% gay, and I also believe that there are many people that are say 95% straight, 5% gay and simply repress or never notice the gay part because some elements of society still put a stigma on homosexuality.

Me, I think I'm about 90% straight and 10% gay. I never really noticed the 10% gay part until one night when I got really drunk and something happened that, upon reflection, really surprised me because I realised I enjoyed it. I might experiment with a man one day just to explore that part of myself, but I don't see myself making a habit of it.

I still see myself only capable of having sexual relationships with women, but I can use the 10% gay part to my advantage because I have a better sense of what makes a man more outwardly attractive. This gives me an advantage over guys who force themselves to think only in heterosexual terms instead of looking objectively at what they think and feel, because I can use it to more effectively attract women.

i think the key issue here is your personal definition of bisexual.

I am a gay man who was married to a woman till i was 35. Before i was married i had sex with many women....and now as a gay man, i can still look at the female body and be turned on sexually by it.

Could i have sexwith a woman? SURE. Could i live with or be in an LTR with a woman again - nope.

Sex and love aren't always tied together.

Ulitmately, each person has to look inside their heart and KNOW which sex they will find true happiness with.

Nothing wrong with being bisexual.

I do believe that most people have a some bisexual in them, I also believe in the scale thing that moose_hd was talking about. My teacher at school, I was in the A-HA club (Anti-Homiphobic Alliance) and we were trying to make everyone more away of homosexuality and eventually eliminate all discrimination. Needless to say we might have reduced discrimination, but never eliminated it. This year when they made it they had to change it to GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) because the school board didnt like us having Anti in the name. But a bunch of idiot grade 9 girls joined, all they do is hang out and talk about unrelated things. It was going nowhere, I left.

Anyways, back to on topic. We used that scale. But I dont believe that there are many people that are 100% on either. There may be some, but I think its rare. Even if people wont admit it because they are too afraid to or are in denial. Maybe I'm wrong.

I personally think I'm more 65% straight, 35% gay. I find girls physically attractive, and I wouldnt mind have a sexual or emotional relationship with them. But its not the same. I find guys more attractive. Girls tend to be softer, and I want/need that possible roughness. Plus I could never picture myself marrying a girl, or being with them for long term. I dont know how to explain further as to why my preference is males since both can offer a lot of the same things. I dont feel like I can get that same feeling of being protected that I get right now in the arms of my guy if i was with a woman.

I also could never be with a guy who wasnt open with me about his feelings which a lot of Retrosexual men think is a feminie quality (I dont agree). Therefore I'm quite happy where I am now.

I am a married bi female. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and he has no problem with me having sex with other girls as long as he knows who and when. We keep no secrets.

[QUOTE=xXxIrAsLaDyXxX]I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks[/QUOTE]
I THINK THAT THEIR IS WRONG WITH WANTING TO BE WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE FEELING FOR ,SAME SEX OR NOT. IF YOU ARE NOT BI - YOU ARE MISSING 1/2 OF THE WORLD OF GOOD SEX .

I hope nothing is wrong with it, because that wouldn't be good for me......

There is nothing at all wrong with being bisexual. I consider myself bisexual but as it was said earlier I guess it would depend on your definition. I am in a long term relationhip with a man but I have sexual feelings for other women. I don't see myself in a committed relationship with a woman for the rest of my life but I would love to have a carefree relationship with her. The only reason is that, even though I am non-traditional in most ways, the traditional family scene appeals to me, well for the most part but I won't get into all the details of that. Anway, my point is that there is nothing wrong at all with being any sort of sexual orientation as long as you are happy with who you are.

[QUOTE=xXxIrAsLaDyXxX]I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks[/QUOTE]

Yes! It is! Not everyone is bisexual and noone should be!

Fear no-one.. 07764499385

[QUOTE=alwaysrite]Yes! It is! Not everyone is bisexual and noone should be!

Fear no-one.. 07764499385[/QUOTE]

Word of advice. Never take the advice of someone who spells a word differently each time they spell it. What the hell is going on here in the last couple of days??

If you come here to spout lies and be a bigot then go shove needles down your pee hole!

To answer the question on whether on not it is ok to be bi-sexual, the answer is yes. Yes it is ok. Infact, according to "The Joy Of Sex" circa 1970's, it is by nature that each and every one of us is bi-sexual, in that we are all capable of becoming aroused by a member of the same sex.

If you're not bisexual, you're missing half the fun.....

i dont think anything is wrong with it. there are a few things i believe about being gay or bi. i think gay people are born that way, and there is nothing you can do about it. but i think being bi is something that is learned and/or influenced. i believe at some point in a persons life rather it be childhood or later that sexuality can be influenced. an example would be my case, when i was around 14 me and my best friend would masterbate together but we would never watch each other or see each others dicks, but gradually we would start to expeiriment a little, the farthest we went was oral. but before we started all that stuff i never even though about being with guys. but now i have many interest in guys, but women are what im more into

i agree with everyone else....being bi doesnt make you wrong its expanding your horizons a bit...my wife username Tazzy19726 is bi she has has experiences with your woman and has enjoyed it. but it all has todo with you if you like it then do it

I have nothing wrong against bi-sexuals.. one thing I -don't- like about them, is their openess in public. Then they try and cast the blame on the people who don't do anything to defend them... well it's your fault.. I have no problem with you going in public Bi.. just blaming people that have no real connection is bad. I have 3 Bi friends who get pissed when I don't defend them perfectly. I'll tell the person to shove off, if they don't I let them handle it.. I personally am Bi-ciruouse.. or how ever you say it.. I dunno if I woul dever do anything with a guy, but I -do- think about it.. and I have kissed and jacked a guy off b4.. so I think a Bi shoudl either stay closeted or.. go in public.. but if you go public, don't ask peoples opnions unless you want to get hurt

Bisexuals are just like hetero- or homosexuals: they're all different. Why would I have a problem with an entire group of people based on their sexual orientation? It doesn't effect me at all.

No, there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. I am bisexual but have yet to have an encounter with another woman.

The most commonly held justification for condemning homosexual/bisexual acts is saying that they are unnatural. People will say it is an aberration from the norm. Yet there is nothing unnatural about red hair, is there?
Again people will say it's not what nature intended, but American study of longhorn sheep discovered that, given the choice between mounting a fertile ewe or mounting another ram, about eight per cent of rams will consistently choose the latter. They sometimes even manage to ingage in penetrative anal sex.

Again some people will persist that the penis/vagina has a specific function, designed for procreation, for the production of children, therefore homosexual acvity is a misus of that part of the body. But if you think about it, most sexual activity is morally wrong. Masturbation, oral sexand contraceptive devices are all regarded as sinful by the Churches.

This argument goes on and on, and let me cut to the end, homosexuality philosphically speaking, is not WRONG.

it isn't wrong. Gay, straight, or bi... it's all natural and it's all good

Don't be so ridiculous.

[QUOTE=xXxIrAsLaDyXxX;131605]I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks[/QUOTE]

Took me till I was about age 35 or so till I was open with the idea of MM bisex! I love the idea of another guy ****ing my wife now! Always have, but wasn't till this age that I was open to admit it!

Den

[QUOTE=CaOpenDude08;207704]I love the idea of another guy ****ing my wife now! Always have, but wasn't till this age that I was open to admit it!

Den[/QUOTE]

Den I believe the OP is talking about Bisexual as in wanting both...not as in another man taking your wife...or maybe Im just missing something in the post

am a person who attend church, and want to become a preacher (a non-traditional preacher). i love bisexual women a lot, though i myself am not bi. am even actively searching for one to be my soul mate. there is a spirit in me that loves everyone, for God loves everyone.

[QUOTE=ShadowLynnParker;137648]um, a well DUH!!! NO I do not. lol[/QUOTE]

nope not to short for me .any way love tiny ladys .there horny all the time:D

[QUOTE=xXxIrAsLaDyXxX;131605]I want to know if anyone out there think it is physically or mentally wrong to be bi-sexual. I think that everyone has a little in them if they like to admit it or not so put your opinion in and let me know what you think
Thanks[/QUOTE]

this depends on what perspective your talking about...

from a human perspective theres nothing wrong with it.

from a religious perspective, then it would depend on your religion and beliefs

from a moral perspective, your not hurting anyone in the short term nor the long run so thats a definite no

from a physical perspective, well if your trying to have kids anything homosexual act is wrong but otherwise is ok.

from a mental perspective, that depends on the individual. for me if i even think about 2 guys kissing i get nausous.. but that just means it would be wrong for me to do something and not wrong for any other pair of guys to kiss or do whatever

aka theres nothing wrong with that as long as its what you want

I agree I think everyone (ecspeacialy women) are slightly bi-sexual & is deffinently not wrong

I don't think that more women are bisexual than men.

I think more women act on it, for several reasons.

Firstly, it is not very invasive for women to fool around with each other. When men fool around with each other, there's often a penis going into something. It's more invasive.

Secondly, I think it's more socially acceptable for women to experiment. Men who experiment and are discovered are more often assaulted, called names, etc. On the flip side of that, in today's youth, many men love the idea of watching girls hook up. It's a kind of perverse peer pressure; girls at parties will make out with each other, and young men will watch excitedly from the sidelines.

[QUOTE=Ephemera;232331]I don't think that more women are bisexual than men.

I think more women act on it, for several reasons.

Firstly, it is not very invasive for women to fool around with each other. When men fool around with each other, there's often a penis going into something. It's more invasive.

Secondly, I think it's more socially acceptable for women to experiment. Men who experiment and are discovered are more often assaulted, called names, etc. On the flip side of that, in today's youth, many men love the idea of watching girls hook up. It's a kind of perverse peer pressure; girls at parties will make out with each other, and young men will watch excitedly from the sidelines.[/QUOTE]

I'd agree with most of that lesbian sex is basically just mutual masturbation. My view is if you're going to have a wank its going to be a lot more enjoyable if you do it with a friend. To be honest I don't attach that much significance to it (the act not the person I'm with)

I have been bi longer than I have been straight, and let me tell you that it has it's advantages. When you go to the bar, you have just doubled your chances of not going home alone!

I have been bi for most of my life and it is great! I enjoy being with both sexes and see nothing wrong with it.

bisexual women are widely considered hot and liberated. bisexual men don't really exist. they're just gay guys that are maintaining some heterosexualism even though that's not their true sexuality.

[QUOTE=CrackBaby;232382]bisexual women are widely considered hot and liberated. bisexual men don't really exist. they're just gay guys that are maintaining some heterosexualism even though that's not their true sexuality.[/QUOTE]

so bi women know what they are doing but bi men are confused? sexiest against men are you?

[QUOTE=summer_in_love;232329]I agree I think everyone (ecspeacialy women) are slightly bi-sexual & is deffinently not wrong[/QUOTE]

Wrong.... not everyone has the wish to engage in a sexual act
with the same sex as themselves...

WOW that is painting with a broad brush isn't it???????????????????/

[QUOTE=CrackBaby;232382]bisexual women are widely considered hot and liberated. bisexual men don't really exist. they're just gay guys that are maintaining some heterosexualism even though that's not their true sexuality.[/QUOTE] I don't understand why people try to define other people's sexuality. It's a losing proposition. Sexual orientation is on a sliding scale for much of the population . . . . there are people 100% straight, 100% gay and a lot in between. And "in between" can mean anything from an occasional fantasy that's never acted on to a full time bi-sexual life. If a guy experiments with other guys in his early teens, then settles into heterosexual behavior the rest of his life does that, by your definition mean he's just an in the closet gay? Even if he never has another homosexual encounter and doesn't desire one? It doesn't make sense to identify as such. I fully accept that for you and many men the idea of doing anything with another man has always grossed you out and always will. You identify yourself as straight and I'd agree. But I'd also agree the guy in the situation I mentioned above is straight if he identifies himself as that. Technically he's bi-sexual in a literal sense, but if he tried it, didn't like it and will never go back to it then he's straight. You can't just look at yourself and your buds and say "I define what a straight guy is" for the world at large anymore than I could do that for gay guys. It just ain't that black and white.

I just pinched my self and I think I exist, although I could probably make a good case that I don’t but that has more to do with quantum physics then who I sleep with.

[QUOTE=DVDBear;232400]I don't understand why people try to define other people's sexuality. It's a losing proposition. [/QUOTE]

Because he's trolling and you're feeding him

That is a pretty observant comment Sarah...............and very valid as well.

I have absolutely nothing wrong with a person being bisexual or even gay. After all, as someone else said, sexual orientation is on a sliding scale. Therefore, I feel that it is wrong to dislike homosexuals or bisexuals based solely on their sexual orientation. Also, I outright condemn groups like Phelps' homophobic group. I do, however, respect their right to free speech.

Right on Spicygirl! I have started a group for bisexuals, see my public profile if anyone is interested in joining.

life is of only of few days means enjoying like any thing is not wrong if not disturbing to life partner.

there is nothing wrong with being bi shit you like different things theres nothing wrong with trying out something new, you live once! and you get the best of both worlds. what could better than that. relationships are the same it does matter if its a guy or a girl you'll still have you disagreements love fun and more experience in understanding your self and the things you enjoy. i will say being with a woman can be more intense because you may have a better understanding with each other.whos better in bed is your choice but there are men that are good in bed and some that are not so good the same thing goes for women. its all about personality and who you feel comforable with.

I don't think its wrong, but eventually you will probably have to choose one or the other.