By "Fabio sex" I mean do you get all serious and squinty, drop your voice down, and be all "ooh baby" with all the movie acting? Do you caress on satin sheets, and say words like "ample", "quivering", and "bosom"?
Just curious. My wife and I are very much into fun, giggly, corny joke sex. There's hardly a time that goes by that we don't laugh at something we do. I say we, but it's 99.9% something I do. A perfect example was a few nights ago.
My wife is an instructor at the gym we go to (yay for free memberships as a perk!). Last night I was giving her my best attempt at a "deep tissue" massage, because she taught a heavy weights class AND an aerobics class back to back. After spending a good 30 minutes and many squirts of olive oil on her back and legs, I decided to really amp up the "deep tissue" aspect of this, and went headstrong into The Program (double +1 for EEK).
Needless to say, after spending 30 minutes of hard massaging in our "it's almost cold enough outside so we'll turn the AC off" house, I was fairly glistening with sweat myself. The ceiling fan was at full throttle, which causes an unforeseen consequence. I became quite clammy. She was extremely hot since I'd been rubbing the crap out of her muscles, so I could feel the heat radiating off of her.
So now imagine, a young looking mother of three, very fit, and very hot to the touch, being hovered over by a 6' tall, 230lbs of mostly muscle man that felt to the touch like he just came out of a pond. We were laughing our asses off trying to have sex without coming into contact with each other. It was the world's most erotic version of the kids game "I'm not touching you!!" To top it off I'm using condoms while in the limbo period of my vasectomy testing, so there technically was no skin on skin contact. It was like she was having sex with a shadow.
I was surprised actually how extremely good and fun it was! Everything you read is about touching, etc, and where and when and how much pressure. This was completely devoid of that. This was minimalist sex. We were in a missionary position (I guess, not good with names) with her legs way up high and "around" me if you want to call it that. Her arms and legs just hovered around me like a shield. My hands were holding me up on either side of her shoulders, and we were mere inches from each other the whole time.
It's hard to describe, but you know that feeling you get when you hover your finger just above your skin where your eyebrows meet and you can "feel" it even though there's no contact? Now imagine having that feeling over your whole body! It was like we were 2 north poles on magnets, feeling that unseen force of nature holding a buffer between us as we came together. We both orgasmed fairly quick and hard, which is rare for her especially without clitoral stimulation.
I love the closeness and touching with my wife, but this was well interesting enough that we'll have to do it again. Hopefully without the clamminess though. :)
Take care....
Congratulations, Firmus!! The experience of feeling without actually touching is called "ghosting" and it is HIGHLY electrifying when incorporated into sexual techniques. Since you combined ghosting with heavy massage (aka "stroking the bones") increasing the effects of both, you get a 'doulbe first'. Excellent work!
But to answer your question - I have PRIMAL Sex, NIRVANA Sex and FUN Sex - just depends upon the energy flying around the room at the time.
Firmus, that sounds just great! Congrats :)
I know this "ghosting", but not to that extend. One of the things my lover used to do would be this sort of hovering over my skin with his hands. Especially around nipples; very funny to see them getting erect under his hands without touching, like some magician. And off course we laughed at such moments.
Uhmm, I don't know what sort of sex I have. I guess I'd say smiling sex with lots of love. I smile most of the time, alternated with faces of surprise, relaxed gazing into eachother's eyes and the occasional growling and moaning face. Accompanied with primal sounds, giggling and happy screams (I'm very vocal). I don't know what to imagine exactly when it comes to "Fabio sex". My lover did have a tendency to lower his voice, but he always does that when he's calm and relaxed (or very angry, but that sounds different:rolleyes:). During sex he'd occasionally make these happy very low humming sounds, reminds me of a bear somehow:p. He'd also make a certain face during and prior; I'm sure naturally and unintentional. That face so clearly beyond any doubt expresses he wants to have sex. It's the combination of his jaw being slightly tensed -along with the rest of his body- mouth closed and his eyes twinkling like a bonfire. I guess that's the kind of face male models and actors so often miserably fail to make :D
One of my longest relationships we would have nirvana sex i believe. his face would turn red and his forhead would become tense like it felt so good to him. We would moan and when we reached the climax together we would let out a high moan and breath really hard. I'd lay there shaking and he as well. It was so intimate and love the moaning and the closeness. Whenhe would just lay next to me My body felt stimulated. I do have fun kinky sex though, wild and crazy as smacking my ass and being very vocal of what we like. So that is really amazing firmus that you discovered that, hopefully i will find my partner in life and share that intimacy together!
Primal = sweaty, hormones flying, rampant, no-holds-barred
Nirvana - hovering bliss for eons, no sweaty stuff, just a long, long purrrrrrrrrrrring
Fun = romp & playful