Its a nuisance so do I have to clean every time? I have a 1st date on tuesday with someone I have a big crush on and I keep playing in bed every 3rd hour for fun. My undies keep getting wet from imagining him too. Is it unhealthy if you wear them after your wet :confused:
Sun, 01/08/2012 - 16:18
#1
Do you change your undies/bedsheets if it gets natural sex lube on it?
I dont think its unhealthy at all. But I would still change them often just for Hygenes sake. I am a girl that tends to get...moist alot and have alot of wetness most of the time. i also tend to masterbate alot because I cant seem to not somedays. So I dont get to change my own undies all the time but I do change often. I also clean my bed sheets ATLEAST every week and shower if anything to much lol. So i guess if you have good hygene having alot of moistness wont hurt you at all.
Some women have a wetspot in their knickers every day; some, not; some do during their fertile time; some of us naturally produce more lubricant than others; some change their undies during the day. You decide what you need to do to feel fresh and clean.
With respect to the sheets, keep a towel handy and place that as necessary. Tiffers comment about your own hygiene is spot on. I wash "it" well morning and night and other times as necessary.
Unless you have an all day play date then you might be stuck wearing your undies all day--all night; however, having just said that, why not plan ahead and carry a spare pair of panties along?
You can always freshen up in the ladies room. :cool:
Unless you have just changed your bedding, I would recommend changing sheets and pillow cases ahead of any bedtime activities with a date or bf. If you generally get together on a weekend yet change sheets on say a Tuesday, change the day. Of course you do not have to, although it is a nice gesture because fresh sheets just seem crisper and smell fresh.
-doc
thanks for the notice and the compliment Brandye :)
You ask: do you change your undies/bedsheets if it gets natural sex lube on it? You say you play every third hour. Assuming that would lead to lubrication in your underwear and/or bedlinen each time, that would calculate to changing underwear 5-8 times a day and the sheets too (:eek:!) Hoping you're intending to changing the bedlinen only once a day :rolleyes: That seems a hell lot of work and something my washing machine nor my wallet, let alone the environment would be able to handle ;) So practically: I wouldn't go that far. Other than that: do as you feel comfortable.
There's also this funny phenomenon of how men can actually feel turned on by wet panties. So I wouldn't automatically think of it as something unwanted.
Perhaps I'm one of few, but I dislike every first night I sleep in clean bedlinen. That "crisp" feeling is in no way comfortable to me. It's why I've been spending extra money on cotton-silk fabric, which mostly avoids that feeling by remaining soft and cosy all the time. Yet my ex-lover seemed to have a thing for it; about 80% of the times we made love it was just after I had changed the bedlinen. We discovered this by surprised and used to say it must have been his unconscious urge to mark his territory :rolleyes:
My post was so embarrassing :(
[QUOTE=tiffers;276947]I dont think its unhealthy at all. But I would still change them often just for Hygenes sake. I am a girl that tends to get...moist alot and have alot of wetness most of the time. i also tend to masterbate alot because I cant seem to not somedays. So I dont get to change my own undies all the time but I do change often. I also clean my bed sheets ATLEAST every week and shower if anything to much lol. So i guess if you have good hygene having alot of moistness wont hurt you at all.[/QUOTE]
My boyfriend liked fun so since we broke up i keep going to bed for fun, and if i dont then i keep rubbing legs over each other. Me too i clean sheets once every week. As long as it won't make me sick its ok i guess :) really feely.
[QUOTE=Brandye;276948]Some women have a wetspot in their knickers every day; some, not; some do during their fertile time; some of us naturally produce more lubricant than others; some change their undies during the day. You decide what you need to do to feel fresh and clean.
With respect to the sheets, keep a towel handy and place that as necessary. Tiffers comment about your own hygiene is spot on. I wash "it" well morning and night and other times as necessary.[/QUOTE]
I might get smart colored undies now as mine go wet more now. I have a morning shower and a night bath :)
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;276949]Unless you have an all day play date then you might be stuck wearing your undies all day--all night; however, having just said that, why not plan ahead and carry a spare pair of panties along?
You can always freshen up in the ladies room. :cool:
Unless you have just changed your bedding, I would recommend changing sheets and pillow cases ahead of any bedtime activities with a date or bf. If you generally get together on a weekend yet change sheets on say a Tuesday, change the day. Of course you do not have to, although it is a nice gesture because fresh sheets just seem crisper and smell fresh.
-doc[/QUOTE]
For sure definitely will change if a boy is going to sleep with me but for sure its only the first date so i will not sleep with him :) but its a cinema date so maybe he might touch my top or legs. I think i might bring spare panties in my bag in case being around him is really wild, its wild to think about him so probably will be lols.
[QUOTE=RedRoses;276960]You ask: do you change your undies/bedsheets if it gets natural sex lube on it? You say you play every third hour. Assuming that would lead to lubrication in your underwear and/or bedlinen each time, that would calculate to changing underwear 5-8 times a day and the sheets too! Hoping you're intending to changing the bedlinen only once a day. That seems a hell lot of work and something my washing machine nor my wallet, let alone the environment would be able to handle. So practically: I wouldn't go that far. Other than that: do as you feel comfortable.
There's also this funny phenomenon of how men can actually feel turned on by wet panties. So I wouldn't automatically think of it as something unwanted.
Perhaps I'm one of few, but I dislike every first night I sleep in clean bedlinen. That "crisp" feeling is in no way comfortable to me. It's why I've been spending extra money on cotton-silk fabric, which mostly avoids that feeling by remaining soft and cosy all the time. Yet my ex-lover seemed to have a thing for it; about 80% of the times we made love it was just after I had changed the bedlinen. We discovered this by surprised and used to say it must have been his unconscious urge to mark his territory :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
A man online asked for me to post undies to him in the mail (not email). Silk bbedsheets! That is a dream, i would love that:p I saw a guy with silk boxers too.
wet turn me on
[QUOTE=bigdaddy25;276974]wet turn me on[/QUOTE]
oh ok :) lol
i mostly change my sheets after sex if i know there's another guy coming over soon haha... if i can smell the last man on my sheets i suppose he can too! but i love how guys leave that man smell.
[QUOTE=lulu_kachoo;277000]i mostly change my sheets after sex if i know there's another guy coming over soon haha... if i can smell the last man on my sheets i suppose he can too! but i love how guys leave that man smell.[/QUOTE]
Oh ok i see :) cool :D
We never bother changing our bedding unless we get something more then sexual fluids on them, since we'll change the sheets once a week or so anyway its not really a big deal to us. Only time we change them after sex is if we brought watersports into the mix that time since that does make them need cleaning. But I guess it's up to the person/people if they want to change them every time they get something on the bedding.
> A man online asked for me to post undies to him in the mail (not email). Silk bbedsheets! That is a dream, i would love that I saw a guy with silk boxers too.
It is now a month later--I hope you did not mail him anything; however, if you did, I sincerely hope you did not include your return address!
I do not know what is more dangerous:
* E-mailing provocative photos of yourself to a boyfriend
* Mailing items to a complete stranger and including your return address, etc.
Schoolgirls in particular have been embarrassed and bullied at school as a result of having provocative or nude pictures distributed all around by a boy(friend) or ex- who either thought doing so was cute, or, who did it in retaliation for a brake up in the relationship.
Mailing personal items including a return address to a complete stranger is extremely dangerous because the boy (or man) now knows where you live and could cause real havoc for you and your family!
It is extremely wise not to include your return address should you decide to mail something of this nature to a total stranger.
It is extremely wise to use a "throw away" E-mail address that you can easily abandon should you be harassed by someone who you've been in contact with or someone who got your contact information in another way.
-doc